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Sunsetsrbest comments on Help! VISA help needed...

Oh, almost forgot... Since I have yet to ever receive any real advice or helpful suggestions in any of these forums since I joined (recently) it is logical to assume that I will never receive anything close to it or anything apart from the school locker room gossiping and bullshit. I suggest two things - first think before you speak because you all know that in real life none of you have the balls to speak like this, and secondly don't bother writing me because I simply cannot spare any more of my busy life and schedule trying to filter through the endless crap here in the site to locate the occaisional pearl of wisdom. Oh, sorry... almost forgot... BAQ - eat shit and die


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Sunsetsrbest comments on Help! VISA help needed...

Understood... I understand your points and as usual BAQ you make your points with the wit of a prepube... that's cool though... sorry you misread the intent of the post and you read desperaition where none exists. Guess you are waaaaaaaaaay too good for me, waaaaaaaaay better then me in every way I am sure. Tell you what... thanks for the advice... kiss my ass for the personal comments... and last but not least don't forget to clean up after you unload so much shit. Sorry for the language but at this point - just be glad we aren't in the same room dude. I demand respect even when you criticize me... as for the pics- they are on my page or whatever the hell you call it here. And if you need proof, I'm not looking for a date- thanks anyway. For the comment on education? I guess 3 languages, 2nd year college studies, and a very good head for philosophy means nothing? Bet she would whip you in contest bro... as for several weeks... I own a place in Co bro and am there quite a bit- as well as many other places. I never said I was better looking than any of you either- that's your lack of self-esteem, not mine. Don't know you, and since I'm not cruizin for a date don't care what you look like either. As for well to do not marrying at 17 or 18... maybe not in your circles, doesn't mean it doesnt happen... just means you are around women who dont marry early for any number of reasons (spoiled, egos, ugly, who knows and who cares) Thanks for the advice- will consider it after I filter out all the bullshit and lame crap from people who assume alot and know little... yes- definately talking about you BAQ.





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Sunsetsrbest comments on Help! VISA help needed...

bobbyb... You hit the nail on the head... societal limitions and predjudices limit this, but the bottom line is most men are immature, and when they become mature, stable, and basically a good man to consider marraige and a life they are a bit older - say 30 and up. Even then only a few of them really have their priorities straight. The fact that some younger women are smart enough to know this and pursue men they know will be faithful, loving, kind and all the other meaningful things involved in a good family life that will last longer than the American "4 year itch" speaks volumes for their insight. I have seen the stats and I agree, it has certainly eased my mind as my typical American upbringing made me worry very much about the future of us in the beginning. Now I am comfortable with everything. Bobbyb has it right, and if it doesn't blend well, too bad.


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Sunsetsrbest comments on Help! VISA help needed...

By the way... As for BAQ... If what you do is hang out in brothels or seedy places where these women and men hang out, then maybe you are in your element to say these things- and I wish you luck with your bet and the impending STD you will aquire with it.

However if you saw both of us you would realize we are both quite attractive people and neither of us has a problem with the opposite sex.

And yes, I have the same results here in the states by the way, so it is not the "Gringo - I love you" effect. Just thought I'd bust your bubble as you dream of a hideous old man with a young girl.


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Sunsetsrbest comments on Help! VISA help needed...

Response... Hope you guys don't mind, but time is short here so I will have to capsulize my comments... hope this helps (or whatever).

1- She is well educated and from a well-off and well-placed family who does not need money or a gringo to save their daughter from some awful existence.

2- When we first spoke and spent time together it was with the idea that I would be moving to Colombia, otherwise she would not have persued me past our first encounters.

3- She prefers to live in Colombia, and will come to the US only if it is my request... she think Americans are generally arrogant pricks with a superiority complex and load of bigotism. If she read this thread she would probaly say "see - told you so"

4- Unfortunately as one responder said the idea is based solely for the visa etc... It is clear this person does not know Colombians very well, as the women in general take the marraige extremely seriously and don't throw their self-esteem away for a green card or money, but lord know the average American would sell their soul at the 7-11 for a few bucks if given the chance. Also as she already has a passport and travels the US visa is not a huge stretch.

5- She is a very beautiful woman, and doen not need to settle for an old man since she can pretty much have whatever she wants. This tells you that I am quite above average for any age you wish to choose. And since I do not settle either you should presume that we choose each other because we want this, not for any needs.

6- Suprisingly, and to my great pleasure, she exibits great wisdom, intelligence and patience for a woman of any age much less 18. I am quite proud of her in every way, and frankly feel sorry for people who cannot allow us to be happy because they do not like or understand our desires. This is akin to the intolerence in life for religion, races, and even sexual proclivities... dwell on it for a bit.

Hope this helps enlighten or at least help... if not, too bad.

Ciao

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Sunsetsrbest comments on Help! VISA help needed...

Thanks for all the good advice... To all who sent good sound advice - thank you very much. To the others with personal comments that show total lack of understanding of me or my situation - get a life.

I will elaborate in an effort to help you formulate more biased and uninformed opinions:

I am not in a hurry for any reason other than I am a busy man and do not see any reason to delay processes when there are better ways to do things. As for the age difference I was asking about problems with the processes, I was not asking if people with small minds might have a problem with our age difference. It is obvious that anyplace in the world there will be men or women jealous, and who will hide behind being falsely offended - when in reality they wish they could have a similarly loving and sound relationship. The mental age and stability of this woman is more important than her actual age.

I was wary at first because of the age, but in time she has won my heart. If you cannot comprehend this emotion I am sorry for you. As for my status - my fotos are posted, and as you can see I am neither old or one foot in the grave. The fact I am attractive to women who may be younger is not something I have a problem with - although I have not dated a woman this young before.

To further enlighten you, please consider that I wanted to begin the process so that when she turns 18 (soon) we will already have much done. I was mostly interested in whether or not it is more prudent to wait for 18 before we file or begin the process now.

I make no personal statements or judgements to anyone makng comments without knowledge, but I would ask that if constructive thoughts cannot be presented than please keep them to yourself in the future. Ignorance is not attractive and often shows prejudiced tendencies.

Thank you for listening and please send any further comments that may help. Have a great day everyone.

PS: the lawyer is only beneficial for me because of the amount of paperwork and as one individual commented, it can be a smart move to have an insider aid in the process. only logical thinking.

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Sunsetsrbest comments on K1 problem...deadend at US embassy

K1 Visa... You should check the oline update and schedules. The processing times and updates on individual case dates are listed here:

http://www.ilw.com/immigrants/govttimes/pro-vermont.shtm

Here are some site for reference and help:
http://www.usimmigrationsupport.org/
http://experts.about.com/q/344/1504112.htm

I will assume you did not use an attorney for this since you did not mention it, but that is exactly what these guys get the big bucks for (pushing the buttons and getting it done). Perhaps now would be a good time to speak with an attorney and see if they can help? There are some pretty good attorneys fluent with the Colombian system in Florida - just Google it.

Best of luck

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Sunsetsrbest comments on Alliance of Cuba, Venezuela, and the FARC? against Colombia?

WOW! What a concept... Yes, I am being sarcastic... Gee-zus man, hell of a conspiracy theory there! What does it matter when you can die tomorrow from the frozen sh*t falling from a passing 747! Now there's a conspiracy you should lose sleep over! Jajajajajaja! I mean there must be thousands of possible mixes and scenarios for alliances for and against the USA... in the end it's conjecture. Who cares?! If they align, screw 'em! If they don't, kewl man!

PS: If the only reason such an alliance matters to you is because it might affect your ability to get laid... need I say more?

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Sunsetsrbest comments on Manizales?

Cali373 Great advice and thanks alot. I will definately keep this in mind when I travel there... would you say it is safer and more gringo-friendly than even cartagena? And I am sure you are coreect about the women- to be honest I have not found a place in south america yet that doesn't have a ridiculous amount of beautiful women. Pretty women is important, but so is education and loyalty, so I am more inclined to ask if the women there tend to be more loyal and educated than in places like cartagena? After all they have something like 7 or more universities in manizales- yes???

Thanks again,

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Sunsetsrbest comments on Manizales?

shirly1981... I will be living in Cartagena or Barranquilla, so this will be a place for me to go to get a break. So for the things you speak of will be the norm, Manizales will be one of many breaks from the norm ;-)

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Another option... If you don't mind a little cab ride the Hotel Intercontinental is quite nice and great security, etc. Money exchange, pool, the works. Wouldn't put it in the 5 star class, but it has a great view of the valley of Medellin. Also a really good club is Blanco Gato... just make sure you have a good driver that will wait for you or return quickly when you call his cell. You'll dig this dude who dresses up in a silver suit down by the mall and stands in the middle of the intersection doing the robot dance- it's a riot man!

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Sunsetsrbest comments on importing my scooter

HD FAT-BOY... Hey there, way glad to see this here as I was lookign to import my '72 FLH Fat-Boy into Cartagena. Guess it won't work. What about buying there? Anyone know the dealers there? Or maybe I can just ride the damn thing in from Panama? Love to hear the ideas anyone has...

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Sunsetsrbest comments on Cartagena or Barranquilla?

quillero... Great suggestion and worth me looking into- I will look into the north side and compare prices- and maybe I will go to the beaches on the weekends- short bus ride and no biggie :-)

Have a great day and let me know if you have any more specifics.


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Sunsetsrbest comments on Cartagena or Barranquilla?

Dearest Sylvie... I hope you will read this with no malice as it is amazing to me how your comments are solely without knowledge of my circumstances and thus absolutely and solidly without any merit. Perhaps you should simply have said that jobs are difficult to find etc, and that maybe pursuit of a job first would be well advised?

The bottom line Dear is this: If you read my other threads you would know I have already bought a self-running internet cafe in centro cartagena and a job is not needed as I have this for expenses as well as an existing side business in the USA of building a few homes every year with my partner (also a business which runs well without my constant presence.

Thank you for you thought though and I hope you cheer up a little and are more positive-thinking in the future. Again, no malice intended so please do not deluge me with comments unrelated to the actual forum question posed.


Pretoriaxim - Audentes fortuna juvat(Fortune favors the bold)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Florida phone service...

Mil gracias.... Great suggestions and advice. Thanks for all of your help and feel free to send any other info that you think would be helpful. One of the items I was curious about was a freind of mine who has a florida number that either calls directly or forwards to his cell when he is overseas. Can Vonage do this also? For me this would be perfect - when family calls the local number they will get my cell...

Thanks again

Pretoriaxim - Audentes fortuna juvat(Fortune favors the bold)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Cartagena or Barranquilla?

Santa Marta... I know nothing of SM, but am willing to consider all options. What is it like? How is the cost of living as compared to Cartagena? The people, etc... Would love to know. As for now it would seem that Cartagena is the general concensus - I agree. Any more help is appreciated - perhaps a local rental company that rents to locals and not the usually overpriced tourist trap?

As always, thank you

Pretoriaxim - Audentes fortuna juvat(Fortune favors the bold)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Cartagena or Barranquilla?

Hunter... Good idea, this I will do. Any suggestions on inexpensive places to stay during my visits? I prefer to live as a Colombiano, not a tourist.

Pretoriaxim - Audentes fortuna juvat(Fortune favors the bold)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Cartagena or Barranquilla?

cachaquita... Thanks, I can always use guides and help. I was thinking of buying a flat in Cartagena (I found one for a good price on the playa), but maybe I should rent for a while and try both places? I am told rentals can be difficult because Colombia issues no credit (no matter how good mine is here) and getting utilities can be a real pain in the butt. I am also told that if I buy a place the utilities can easily be transferred to me by going to the offices with the current owner to sign the transfer over. I know this sounds like a samll thing, but having to "buy" credit from someone I do not know (guarantor) is not something I wish to do.

If you have suggestions or ideas I would welcome them, and please tell me more about these places and the differences? I Barranquilla is the large city, maybe Cartagena is better - not too big, nice beaches, hopefully gringo-friendly people (jajajajaja) and the prices seem reasonable. I have spent time in Bogota and Medellin but honestly do not like either place enough to live there.

Again, all help is appreciated and thanks to everyone for the good thoughts.

Mil gracias,
Pratoriaxim

Sunsetsrbest comments on Describe Colombia in Just One Word!!!

Exciting

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on AN INTERESTING THOUGHT... COLOMBIAN PHILOSOPHY VS AMERICAN

N2A... Thanks for the kind words - I appreciate it. :-)

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on AN INTERESTING THOUGHT... COLOMBIAN PHILOSOPHY VS AMERICAN

Cockney... Sorry to hear that man, and I hope next time you find a better attorney (if there is a next time for you). I understand what you are saying, but as my father always taught me "The best revenge is succeess". Nothing pisses off an ex more than you "non-coincedentally" becoming very successful after she is gone (jajajaja). But that is just one more good reason to enjoy the South American lifestyle... longer life in a happier environment. Not so many toys, but loads more pleasure.

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on AN INTERESTING THOUGHT... COLOMBIAN PHILOSOPHY VS AMERICAN

Rubiazo... Sorry dude, no videos... but have plenty of pics if you are serious. And yes, I try to maintain at least 3 at the same time. I am not monogomous and I make sure all the girls I date know it and accept it. If they can't then I don't date them - period. Of course I acknowledge that they can see anyone they like as well. What is good for the goose is good for the gander- yes?

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on AN INTERESTING THOUGHT... COLOMBIAN PHILOSOPHY VS AMERICAN

About the girls comment... I have 3 girlfriends and no intentions of marrying again- it was bad enought the one time I did it- Don't intend on repeating the mistake. And as to your remark: I am NOT moving to Colombia to "steal" your women. It is a crude remark and makes assumptions you cannot possibly know anything about.

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on AN INTERESTING THOUGHT... COLOMBIAN PHILOSOPHY VS AMERICAN

PS:::::::::::::::::: Just in case you are curious... the answer is YES! I do in fact have dyslexia. Want to rub it in more???


Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on AN INTERESTING THOUGHT... COLOMBIAN PHILOSOPHY VS AMERICAN

Glass house - throwing stones? Great, I am laughing by your lack of understanding, tolerance, and total misunderstanding of my intent. I don't speak spanish well either, if you'd like I can butcher that for you as well... give you something to do on lonely nights. I intend no disrespect and, frankly, don't throw stones- you don't know me and it seems you are the one showing disrespect. Tell you what, if you can't be constructive and can only mutter childlike schoolyard taunts then have fun - I am here for serious conversations and am getting tired of defending my poor spelling... I admit it. Sorry, is it a crime to not be as perfect as you? If so, please tell me where it is illegal so I can avoid the place. By the way, just because I can't spell well does not mean I am any less than you... unless you are currently an executive with a 5.1 billion dollar US company- than don't bother. To all of you who have been kind to me and overlooked my errors- I truly appreciate it and you all have a good friend in me. I truly apologize for havign to post this to all of you as it just wastes all of our time playing these silly games when we could be really contributing. And yes, I probably made some errors in this message too... and?


Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Motorcycles/Scooters in Cities

Motos... Eeeeoooowwwwwwwwwwww! I am moving to Columbia and either Cartegena or Bogota... and I was seriously moving my moto with me... maybe I should not? I have a class1 Superbike Suzuki Katana that is highly modified for racing (one of my hobbies) and love my bike. It will do 155mph easy without blinking and I love it! It is definately way to big to keep in an apartment, and I definately don't want to get killed for it or on it.

What does an average used car cost? a average small one in good condition that won't be stolen? I want to blend in, not stand out with a sign that says "hey look at me..."

Any info is appreciated...

Thanks

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Colombian Women please help, Culture barrier!

Dumbgringo... My first suggestion is not to worry about the "grand gesture" because what will impress her more is sincere apologies and actually fixing the problem. I think you also need better friends, where you won't feel you have to impress them, or be a part of the group only if you humiliate your wife. It is a basic self-esteem issue on your part, and a bad choice in friends. Sounds like the only good friend you have is your woman... maybe spend more time with her and less drinking with "the boys". Trust me, you won't be less of a man, and anyone that says so has no self-esteem and little self-confidence.


Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on AN INTERESTING THOUGHT... COLOMBIAN PHILOSOPHY VS AMERICAN

Whatever... All I have to say is this: I have been trying to explain to my friends and fellow executives here in the states why I want to "throw everything away", as they say, and move to Columbia to live a simpler life... NOW I CAN SHOW THEM THIS! This tale says what I want to say perfectly.

Sunsetsrbest comments on Is Bogata safe?

North vs. South... Thanks for the advice Platano. There are several sections of the noth side of Bogota... is there one or two to avoid, or is all of the norte fine?

Sunsetsrbest comments on Is Bogata safe?

santibog... Great, now I have 2 of you English majors to listen to. I do not spend time worrying about perfect GRAMMER, nor do I worry about the spelling at 3am in the morning, but I DO anticipate people will help me with my INTENT - and I am happy most people here are being helpful. I wish you luck also, but please spare me the deconstruction of my grammar and writing structure - "forest for th trees" ok? Anyway, thanks for your efforts...

Sunsetsrbest comments on Is Bogata safe?

Entertainment... Sorry to hear that... here I was actually thinking I might actually have found a place to real information. How silly of me to think that. Thanks

Sunsetsrbest comments on Is Bogata safe?

The Pope... Can't help you with that one, but I am pretty sure he wipes his ass with trees - yes? (jajajaja)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Is Bogata safe?

Sorry folks... Sorry folks, at 3am it is tough to see, much less spell well. Anyway, my comment was for the individual who managed to not answer the question and instead devote time to fairly unconstructive critiques. Thank you for the help from the others who did give me answers - it is appreciated.

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Is Bogata safe?

What? Well, putting the "holier then thou" stuff aside, you managed to not answer the question. With so much knowledge at you obvious disposal certainly you can expound a bit for the rest of us "unwashed". Thanks for the constructive crticism and best of luck to you with you grammer school.


Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Choosing a liposuction surgeon in Bogotá

Barb.... Generally people who are looking to save alot of money will seek out these procedures in Columbia or Costa Rica, but I will tell you that most of the women I know who have had such procedures done will do one of two things... 1)spend the money and get the best (it's your body after all), or 2)save the money and go to Venezuela. The doctors there do a great deal of the work for most of the people in South America (including complicated transgender procedures), and you should be able to find a competent facility there also. If nothing else, it's worth taking your time and investigating.


Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Cartagena business climate

Hi there... I am in the same pickle man... but so far what I have dicovered is the clientele is great in-season (tourists), and the season is generally 7 - 8 months long (drops off signficantly after that). Mostly Europeans and some locals and Venezuelans. If you target the Euro-tourist market you probably have a shot with a recognizable name or brand, but if you are looking for local clients you will have to be unique.

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on need a place to live

I am in the same boat... Moving to Columbia in August and need the same thing- 1 bedroom though is fine for me, and just need a safe place for me and my moto (a fine suzuki katana built for the racing circuit).

Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Is there a web tool besides AltaVista for translating Spanish to English?

Yes, here is the best one I have found so far:


http://translation2.paralink.com/


Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on my wife is increasingly aggressive and is hard to live with

Just a guess... Dude, first think of this... big dreams of life and love in the "promised land" of the USA... then all is shattered by a baby right out of the box. Maybe she wanted a career or something and is generally pissed at life... and of course you because you got her pregnant. Don't take this the wrong way - it is just how she might be seeing it, you know? On the other hand, maybe she's just bi-polar and the doc can fix that quick. My ex was bi-polar and the med's helped her alot - same mood swings and all. In any case discuss it and seek medical help if you think you need it... a violent and easily irritated mother is not good to have around a baby- a baby is alot of stress in of itself and will test her greatly. I'd fix this quick for the baby's sake. Good luck.


Gringo rojo :-)

Sunsetsrbest comments on Colombian women have a big heart but they must become more aware

Crazy man... craaaazy Hola! I have dated Columbiana's and women from every other place around the world...to be honest I have not noticed anything different in them then the women from anywher else in this area. When they are young they generally trust too much, and let's face it- in a new country, of course she's going to depend on this guy (human behavior - not immaturity dude). I will admit though that women from around the world generally think USA is the shiznit, and do not realize just how difficult this culture can be... with money and power comes stress, heart disease, and a pretty unhappy life for the most part. Life is the same here as anywhere else, just different problems, but problems nonetheless. Frankly, I love Columbia and am moving there soon - giving up the "golden egg" of the US for the happiness of a culture that worries more about love and life than money and power. Hey - just my opinion ;-)

Gringo rojo :-)