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Question I am going to be flying into Bogota and then catching a plane to Manizales. Any tips? I'm like the person above... I speak almost no Spanish and I have never been to Colombia before... very nervous. Any tips you can send me would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time and have a wonderful day

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ress81 comments on My novia wants me to move to colombia?

New question I am going to be flying into Bogota and then catching a plane to Manizales. Any tips? I speak almost no Spanish and I have never been to Colombia before. Any tips you can send me would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time and have a wonderful day.

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Bogota to Manizales I am going to be flying into Bogota and then catching a plane to Manizales. Any tips? I'm like the person above... I speak almost no Spanish and I have never been to Colombia before... very nervous. Any tips you can send me would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time and have a wonderful day

ress81 comments on My novia wants me to move to colombia?

Thanks everyone... really! I want to thank everyone for their comments. I think I understand... There is a very wonderful and beautiful lady that lives far away (not another planet) that is willing to meet with me and spend time with me... go and meet her, spend time getting to know her and enjoy her company. Am I getting it?

I do think I have given a little of the wrong impression. I am a faily good looking guy (if I may say so) I've just not had much luck with the women I've dated here in the US. I dont think I'm going there to "save" her... rather I am hoping that she might save me. I am not worried about her being good enough for me... but me being good enough for her... she has been so wonderful through our chats over the internet and over the phone I am just nervous about it being too good to be true. The above messages have given me good advice and things to think about. Again, I guess my real concern is it being too good to be true. That is why I was asking about things to look out for.

I hope everyone has a wonderful day.

ress81 comments on My novia wants me to move to colombia?

I think I'm getting it OK... I think I'm getting it. A very wonderful and beautiful lady lives far away is willing to meet with me and spend time with me... go meet her and enjoy my time with her.

Am I doing better? :)

ress81 comments on My novia wants me to move to colombia?

Thanks utopiacowboy Sometimes things need to be said that make you stop and think. Your comments above have made me do just that. My attitude is wrong and this has made me think hard about that. I don't know what my prblem is... maybe I've been reading too much about "Colombian Women" instead of just thinking about going to Colombia and meeting a very nice and pretty lady. What do you think? Give it to me straight... that's the way I like it.

ress81 comments on My novia wants me to move to colombia?

Thanks for the comments everyone... I guess I am just getting a little nervous about the whole thing... that is going to another country and meeting someone (a beautiful lady) from another culture.

I would still like any advice anyone might have to offer about my meeting this beautiful lady from Colombia.

Thanks again...

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ress81 comments on My novia wants me to move to colombia?

Need some advice I know this is off of the topic... but I am wandering you anyone her might be able to give me some advice.

I have been reading some of the messages posted on this site and I have some questions about meeting Colombian women... hoping someone can help me. I have met online a lady from Colombia. We have been emailing, chating and talking on the phone for sometime now. I have tried to be very careful in trying to get to know her. I ask her questions about what she likes, how she views certain issues... her opinion on certain things, her beliefs about life and relationships and family... I have always tried to ask her opinion before I tell her what I think or believe and she has almost always told me things that I agree with and/or liked. She has a 4 year degree, never married and has a 12 year old daughter. But she says she has been struggling for the past year. She had been staying with a family trying to get back on her feet... her just got her own apartment and things are going a little better for her.

My question... I am going to be visiting her this next month. I need some advise on what to look out for, what to ask her, something... anything this American male needs to know before this relationship takes the next step. I have heard that it is not a good ideal to date someone that is from a lower income. I understand much of the concerns for that but I would like more advice from someone that knows more about Colombian women.

Thanks for your time...

ress81 comments on Preparing for your trip to Colombia

Need some advise I have been reading some of the messages posted on this site and I have some questions about meeting Colombian women... hoping someone can help me. I have met online a lady from Colombia. We have been emailing, chating and talking on the phone for sometime now. I have tried to be very careful in trying to get to know her. I ask her questions about what she likes, how she views certain issues... her opinion on certain things, her beliefs about life and relationships and family... I have always tried to ask her opinion before I tell her what I think or believe and she has almost always told me things that I agree with and/or liked. She has a 4 year degree, never married and has a 12 year old daughter. But she says she has been struggling for the past year. She had been staying with a family trying to get back on her feet... her just got her own apartment and things are going a little better for her.

My question... I am going to be visiting her this next month. I need some advise on what to look out for, what to ask her, something... anything this American male needs to know before this relationship takes the next step. I have heard that it is not a good ideal to date someone that is from a lower income. I understand much of the concerns for that but I would like more advise from someone that knows more about Colombian women.

Thanks for your time...