mrcapi937 comments on US Fiancé visa, how long?
Life offers no promises! Am I missing something? Did my post ask for moral judgments about my decisions on love and romance? I thought this site was Colombian and American friendly. What am I missing?
When I first read these post I became very angry. It sounds like we have several narcotic freaks posting stories of how they have been screwed over by woman. My guess these dudes took there sister to their prom dances because they couldn’t get a date. Maybe they tried the internet dating thing. Only to find that all the beautiful woman they meet think they are freaks and purposely mistreat them to run them off? The women described here in sound more like American woman or any woman a man could meet.
First hint about internet dating! If you don’t look like a supermodel don’t expect a supermodel to be happy meeting you! Second Find some one close to your own age! Third, find some one that is compatible with your personality and let them know up front your not a wealthy.
Lets clear a few things up about my relationship with this Colombian woman. I am 39 and she is 36 years old. We have been around enough to make wise decisions when it comes to matters of the heart. I told her upfront that I was not wealthy and if that is what she is looking for I was not right for her. She told me upfront she would not marry me unless she was truly in love with me. She also indicated she did not care what country she lived in as long as she was happy. We have not made any plans for a quick marriage. We will take as much time as possible to ensure we can live together and be happy. That is the purpose of a fiancé visa! Could she be lying to me? Sure, but so could any other girl I meet. That’s life! After spending time with her I have no doubt she is being totally honest with me.
The reason my income was below the poverty level in 2002 is because I opened my own business that year. In America it is common for most new business to report a loss there first year in business on there tax return.
Travel to Colombia is safe? How can that be? The US government issued a warning in January 2004 against Americans traveling to Colombia. It is still in effect. Safe? Tell that to the American citizens that are currently being held captive by FARC! Any American who really believes it is totally safe to travel abroad anywhere in the world right now is a fool! Americans have been targets since September 11, 2001. Americans can travel abroad and to Colombia but it should be done with caution and safety in mind. My sister was in Spain just two weeks before the Madrid attacks. Safe? I have heard that Colombia is the most beautiful country in South America. I would love to visit. But I do not feel it would be prudent. Although I will travel there if required by the US embassy to get a visa for my love. But I will be fully aware of the dangers.
Another note about Colombian woman. My stepmother is from Bogota. My father brought her here when I was young. She has been the most loyal loving person I have met in my life. They are to this day happily married.
I still believe in love. If this is true love it will work. If not it won’t. That’s life!
