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elkins888 comments on Divorce within 2 year. What happens?

I-864 Sponsor, AOS, Divorce Flaleo, you ask what happens if you divorce after the 2 years and after AOS is completed?
I can provide you with my personal experience and you can take it for what it’s worth. I think every INS office makes their own rules and they seem to change from day to day. In short you are on the hook financially for 10 years or more. Her re-marriage has no effect or your obligation relating to the I-864.
This was my personal experience, but others may disagree with the process or may have had a pleasant experience with INS.
In my case, my wife began or continued a romantic relationship with a former novio from her home country which finally ended our marriage. You must be careful before going to the INS for the AOS meeting if your plans are to withdraw your I-864 sponsorship. Your wife can file documents saying the marriage was entered into in good faith. This in effect would provide her with the permanent residence status and the I-864 remaining in effect.
I had planned to explain the above and prove my case with documents during the adjustment of status meeting with the INS in Dallas. I intended proving the marriage was not entered into in good faith on her part. I drove to the INS in Dallas with my wife.
To my horror, I was not allowed to enter the INS office in Dallas for the AOS hearing. I know someone will say this can’t be true and the meeting between the wife and husband with the INS officer is required. In my case this did not happen and my wife was the only person interviewed. She received the permanent resident card a couple of weeks later in the mail. I think during this period of time INS was under pressure from the Bush Administration to complete the backlog of AOS cases. This was August 2001 just before 911 and I’m sure things changed during the following months. I have never had an interview with any INS officer.
I attempted to contact INS later through an attorney with negative results. My neighbor who happened to be the County Sheriff introduced me the local INS investigator in my area. We met for lunch and I explained my case to him. He told me not to waste my money on an attorney. He explained once the person receives the “permanent resident” card it would take an act of Congress to expel them from the country. He suggested I provide him with a registered copy of my report and to also mail the same to the INS office in Dallas. He said not to expect a reply from INS which was the case. He did however agree to speak with his supervisor and place a copy of my report in her file. Hopefully I will have a case if they ever attempt to enforce the I-864.
He did provide positive information as to the I-864. In his opinion the INS did not have the manpower to pursue sponsors at the present time. He however explained this could change in the future. You are on the hook for 10 years providing the person continues to work full time. (see below I-864 information)
I would suggest anyone planning to sponsor a person to first do their home work and consider the financial responsibility before marriage. My pain continues not only for the financial loss, but the loss of a failed marriage. Money can be replaced, but the lost years can not.
P.S. The pain and worry doesn’t stop with the divorce. I hope my story can help at least one person. There are many wonderful people in Central and South America, but one needs to use caution. Listen to your heart, but also take notes as to how the relationship is going. I had plenty of warning signals, but the heart took control.

The Affidavit of Support is enforceable against the sponsor until the immigrant becomes a U.S. citizen, can be credited with 40 quarters to work, leaves the United States permanently, or dies. If sponsors do not provide basic support to the immigrants they bring to the United States, they may be sued by the sponsored immigrants and by federal or state benefits agencies for the amount of the means-tested public benefits provided to sponsored immigrants.
As required by law, the sponsor must report every change of address to INS using Form I-865, Sponsor’s Notice of Change of Address, within 30 days of the change. The INS will maintain this information in an automated database and provide it to benefit granting agencies upon request.

 

elkins888 comments on Peculiarities of airline fares...

Airline fares- Avianca's airfare

I live in Panama and used Expedia.com to search for flights to and from Bogata.
To my surprise is was less expensive to purchase a multi destination trip with Avianca,
from PTY, MDE, BOG, PTY, than it was to fly from PTY to BOG only. I called Avianca in Panama City and they told me I could purchase the tickets from any travel agency at the same price since I’m unable to have the tickets mailed to me from Expedia.com

This information would be important for anyone wanting to fly from Central America to Colombia or vs versa. I would suspect Avianca offers similar fares from the U.S. with multi destinations in and around Colombia. In the past I have found American Airlines and Continental charge more for a multi stop ticket.

 

elkins888 comments on Travel Medellin to San Jose Costa Rica

Flights to San Jose, Costa Rica from Medellin You can use Expedia to purchase tickets online.
Use Google and find the Embassy for Costa Rica for passport information.

http://www.expedia.com/pub/agent.dll?tovr=-1294777293&ps3u=

 

elkins888 comments on Western Union, Moneygram, RIAENVIA or another.

Etrade Bank - No fee I have lived outside the U.S. for years and have always used E at trade securities and Etrade bank to access my money. I have a securities account which is also linked to my checking account. This allows me to move money from my securites account to my checking or vs versa. I pay no fee’s and my account can be checked online. Any questions I have are handled via e-mail. My retirement check is direct deposited into my checking account monthly which eliminates the bank fee’s.

I currently live in Panama which uses the U.S. dollar. No fee is charged by either Panama or E*trade. I used my ATM checking account card in Costa Rica and received a good exchange rate, again no fee’s. I had the same experience in the Philippines last year during my visit.

The Colombia ATM’s may or may not charge a fee. Remember, this is a “checking account ATM card” and not the normal visa card with protection. I for this reason keep a minimal amount in the account. I also have a regular Visa credit card for purchases which I pay online from my checking account. Again, No fee.

E-Trade Bank
www.etradebank.com

E-Trade offers an attractive array of banking services, but at a cost. Checking accounts are free if you set up direct deposit; otherwise, if you have less than $2,000 you'll pay a $5 monthly charge. Likewise, online bill paying is free only if you meet the $2,000 minimum; it costs $6.95 per month otherwise. With one of the largest networks of ATMs nationwide, you can get cash for no fee at more than 15,000 ATMs, although you'll pay ATM operator fees. Quick transfers to and from E-Trade Securities and from other institutions are a fast way to move money. Plus it has some cool extras like a register that lets you categorize expenses and a seven-day projected balance feature that takes into account things like scheduled payments and deposits. Among Internet-only banks, however, the interest rates are pretty low.

 

elkins888 comments on Can I live on $600 per month in Colombia?

Smog in Bogata I’m interested in re-locating to Colombia. I currently live in Panama near the Costa Rican border in a very small town. My Spanish is far from perfect, but I do communicate in Spanish. I will be making a trip to Colombia very soon and would appreciate any information relating to my questions.

I have read conflicting stories concerning the smog and climate of Botaga. I’m looking for a cool climate. I enjoy walking in the morning so clean air is important to me. I’m not looking for a “smog free” environment, but I would like to walk without choking.

My questions are:

1. Can one find a safe place to live near Bogata without the problems of excessive smog?

2. How would you compare the climate of Bogata to that of Cartagena? I’m assuming Cartagena would be “hot and humid” like Panama City? However many seem to enjoy the Cartagena area.

3. What other areas of Colombia would be recommended considering safety, weather and smog?

4. A good internet connection is a must. I been living with a 16K dialup connection.

Ken

 

elkins888 comments on How do poorbuthappy guides work?

Bogata weather and smog?

I’m interested in re-locating to Colombia. I currently live in Panama near the Costa Rican border in a very small town. My Spanish is far from perfect, but I do communicate in Spanish. I will be making a trip to Colombia very soon and would appreciate any information relating to my questions.

I have read conflicting stories concerning the smog and climate of Botaga. I’m looking for a cool climate. I enjoy walking in the morning so clean air is important to me. I’m not looking for a “smog free” environment, but I would like to walk without choking.

My questions are:

1. Can one find a safe place to live near Bogata without the problems of excessive smog?

2. How would you compare the climate of Bogata to that of Cartagena? I’m assuming Cartagena would be “hot and humid” like Panama City? However many seem to enjoy the Cartagena area.

3. What other areas of Colombia would be recommended considering safety, weather and smog?

4. A good internet connection is a must. I been living with a 16K dialup connection.

Ken

 

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