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GringoD Where do you think you are going?

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Big A Thank you and that is what I want for my soul, I do not want to have dirt in my conscious.
All I am trying to do is the right thing even know is hard, but at least, like you say, after life I want to have a place called heaven, where not everybody will enter. Only I and other believers know what I mean by that.
Regarding respect you are right!
I have learned that we all need to be respected and I no longer take a disrespectful person or attitude.
Sweetcale~a
Please do not give up on your fight because that is what the enemy wants. He wants to destroy your family. Do not let him do it!
Do not be like me that I did not know any better and divorced.
Remember that God answers prayers!!

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caulfield2 I think that you have the same issue I have.
Is that we give too much and for some estrange reason people do not like that.
They want to make it difficult for themselves and I just do not get it. Could be that we have been with people that we were not mean to be in the beginning with. I don't know, but I am glad now that these people were not meant for me or I was not meant for them

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So how come... SO how come this doesn't happen anymore? (it's the little considerations and thinking of the other person first that make marriages go)
Is this the reason why the high rates on Divorce?

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You got it or.... Simply being beautiful and intelligent is not enough.

So please pardon me if I ever though that you were looking only for beautiful and intelligent woman.

it's the little considerations and thinking of the other person first that make marriages go.

So how come that I have always though on everybody else first and then I, still people are not considerate and take advantage of it.
I have to admit that I have an issue in trying to figure out why in the world when you are the most humble, care for others more than yourself, and give up on selfishness, people take advantage and just treat you like you are worth a cent.
I wonder sometimes if I should be this mean woman that it is only going to think about herself and nobody else or if I should be the humble person that all she wants is to help others, even if it mean to sacrifice these things that you want for yourself.
I guess, one day I will figure it out!!!

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Feli... Felicitaciones y que Dios los bendiga!

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Morphus.. Morphus,
I have to agree with you and I am impressed with what you say because it is true.
Definitely alcohol should not be the excuse to get laid. I have heard of friends saying that they do not remember what happened and how it happened but they do remember how good it was!!! Jajajaja.
Unfortunately we are humans and we are never happy with what we have.
We want more and more this way we will come to a complete satisfaction!!!!
Well, I am glad that I have come to the point where I am happy with whom I am and what I have, may not be a lot, but at least I am satisfied. Therefore when you get to the complete satisfaction you will be able to love others just the way they are. It is funny that I asked myself if Caulfield2 has such a beautiful wife and she is so intelligent so why are they separating. So what will it take to make him happy? Ummmm…. I wonder!
Regarding the looks, YEAP! Looks go away and all you are going to have left in your marriage is that friendship you build throughout the years. The rest is nothing.
Check this out:
Let’s pretend that Caulfield2 marries this beautiful girl, they stay married for about 20 more years, skin is deteriorating, and all the sudden she dies. By this time Caulfield will be 50 or so, now is he going to try to find another beautiful girl to marry again when he is 50 or so and he is not that good looking anymore? Would a beautiful girl be looking at him or to a younger and better looking man than him? What would he do then?
Ummm… I wonder again!
Just a though!

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Morphus.. Now we are talking!
I am very glad that you are trying to make a change.

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Morphus.. It is not about hating you!
Please do not take it that way. We are not haters in this site.
We wish you the best in life and as we are all growing we would like you to grow also. That is what life is about!
:)

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Comments... This thread is getting hilarious! Within 100 posts, Caulfield has a potential "perfect" mate! No need to go down to COL or join an internet dating site. Just post on PBH for FREE! ja, ja..
Caslug,
This post is not about matching people or looking for a potential “perfect” mate because there is no such thing.
Besides, I do not see anything wrong with the fact that redway saw our personalities and thought that we should meet… We no longer live on those days where we could be punishing for what we say! Dude, we are not there anymore. We live in a country where the freedom of speech is a law! As long is not affecting you then it should not be a problem!
Or maybe it is affecting you, is it?
GringoD,
Yes, I am a Colombiana from Cali.
Gomezman5,
My comment was more along the lines that I cannot believe that some fool would be dumb enough to post their number(s).....or anyone else's for that matter.
Please make sure you gather facts and read very carefully all comments before you make any statements. It seems to me that you did not read so you do not know what is going on.
“Perros”
At least I can say that cauldfiled2 has the nerves and the courage to admit what he did.
Not like some guys here that is trying to pretend to be the good guys when they are really not. It seems that he is Honest enough to recognize that he messed up!
Please do not take this as I am trying to excuse anyone because I am not.
We seem to be very negative in this Site and it is getting old!
Instead of looking to the negative side of things let’s look at things in appositive way.
I also want to make clear that I am not looking to be hooked up with anyone because I can do all that by myself. I do not need of third parties, Redway please do not take this wrong, to get a date or anything like that. I appreciate what redway is trying to do, but I did not ask for it!
She, Redway, out her kindness had good intentions to help. Thank you again.
Hey, after all maybe there is a chance to meet a nice person in this site.

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Redway... Thank goodness that my number can be erased.
Redway,
I appreciate the way you think about me, I really do.
Please do not take this wrong, but I would prefer not to post my phone # on this website. As Caulfield2 said, there are a few crazy people and that can be dangerous.
Besides, I think that Caulfield is smart enough to know who would be a good candidate for him.
He has his head on the right place!

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Platano How can we help on this?
Any ideas?

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Redway... Thanks. I think that you are also a very nice person!
Besides I will not give such a confession about my family on this site if I would not think that could make someone think about their ways of living. We all go trough trouble and I think that if we all share a little of our experiences we all can learn more and therefore grow as individuals. That is what I do, I learn as much as I can from every situation I get into. Isn't that what life is about?
I love and enjoy having difficult situations because out of each one, I will learn more and more and mature to a faster speed than others. Imaging if we all had the same troubles , there would not be different stories to learn from.

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bottomfeeder Bottomfeeder,
Are you a Christian?
How do you have the courage to say that what redway is pedaling is Evil?
Do you know him/her? How much do you know God?
It seems to me that you are being very judgmental. Besides how your signature, at the end of your inputs, can talk about “God Will” when you are judging someone else.How do you know what God is going to do?
I would suggest that you look at yourself first before you make any comments of others.
Redway,
My opinion is that you keep caring about others as you are doing,even know sometimes they do not care, that will be rewarded it to you sooner or later. Keep it up!!
Besides we need more people like you in this crazy world.
Morphus,
I usually do not mind your personal life, but I think what redway said it is true.
You should look for a good woman that would be able to fulfill that emptiness you seem to have because of your family!
I will share this with you:
My farther and mother never gave that confidence in me and I always felt that I was not love as much as my siblings did, but I take that now and flip it over and love more than ever.
I can judge my parents and blame them for that because back on those days they did not know any better. Try to be better every time for yourself because at the “end” that is all you will have. Remember that you will have to give accountability of all you do.

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adrimm....Caulfield2... I agree with you.
I do not see anything wrong with a guy that is trying to be honest about the way he feels and what he wants in life.
Besides he seems to be very educated man. That itself will bring envy to others and will cause people to feel threaten on an intellectual level.
Also, woman like men that at least knows what they want for their life and have goals! Not like some weirdo’s that only think on getting some and living an aimless life!
Keep it up cauldfield2!!!!

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Sorry Gomezman5 I misread your input.
Please accept my apology!

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Lying? No way!! Redway,
California?
I will be going there next week; maybe we can get together and grab a bite to eat.
I used to think that being in a relationship was going to make me fully happy until I discovered otherwise.
My son is the best thing that ever happened to me and I love spending as much time as possible with him. He is my only love and he makes me the happiest woman in the whole world. I also have been on those Worthless Relationships and they are not fun at all but when you are trying to feel loved by someone you don’t see that, you are blind.
I am glad that I have grown so much to tell the difference now.
I am sure I will meet someone but right now my focus is my son, of course, and my school. Man will come later and I am sure in a better time.
Thanks for your inputs.
Colombiche,
You did not think I was going to follow that advice, did you?
I have always been straight up with the guys I have been involved with and if they do not like the fact I have a kid then I just tell them to move on. I do not need that type of losers around me anyway. Why should I hide the most wonderful thing that has ever happened to me?
I do not see the need on lying about it because if I am looking for an honest person I must be an honest person too. My son is daily encouraged to not lie because Honesty is the most wonderful value a person can have.
Thanks for your kind words!

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caulfield2 Talking about AmeriCorps, Caulfiled2 would you recomend me to get involved?
I was looking into get some extra money, but I wanted to do it in a way that I could help others. As I look into the Finaid website I found the Americorps organization and though on volunteering, but I was not sure how the organization works and how to approach it.
Could you please give some advices on this though?
Thanks in advance!

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caulfield2 I know all about it, it happened to me last year.
My date then realized and told me that I was too much of a hassle because I caused him too many problems (My struggles as a single mom) and therefore I decided then that I was not to bring men into my son's life unless I know for sure that He is the person that I want to spend the rest of my life with.

"Usually women hear that their kids are the reason for the breakup...the guy thought he could handle it but when he got into the situation itself, his first instinct was to run. Then there are the guys who want to come over late for a booty call but don’t want to spend any quality time getting to know the kid"
I lived trough this also and learned from it!!!!! Very true!!!!!
Thanks for your words of encouragement.

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GringoD I appreciate your input on that subject. I am sure that there is a person that would have that heart to try to make it happen; I am just not rushing to get there.
I did that for a long time and I just do not need to be doing that. Here in Florida it is very hard to find someone like that. People nowadays do not want to make such a big commitment. I have experience a lot of hurting situations, but I have learned a lot from them. This does not mean because of my past experiences I am going to Judge or generalize. I am very open when it comes to make friends and getting to know them.
Thanks for your kind words.

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caulfield2 It seems that we both are looking for the perfect mate!!!
I share your feelings.
I am not trying to say we need to hook up, I live in the US.
I hope you find that girl you are looking for, I know you will.
Are you sure you would like to date someone who already has a child?
I have one and it is very hard to find someone that will be willing and able to help raise a child that is not your own. I have not found it yet, but I will eventually. Children are beautiful and they need plenty of attention and guidance, right guidance. They need plenty of love, support and you need to make sure that you are going to be able to provide that, otherwise you will be hurting the child, the mother of that child and yourself. Just a though!!
You just need to take things slow and everything will fall in place.
That is what I am doing as I hope to find the right mate for me and the right person that will love to help me raise my child.

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Lost Works for me!!

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Morphus.. I was the one who wanted to see your pic not Sweet_C, but thanks for letting everyone see you in your underwear!!
"they might think i'm weird.
Dude! You are weird!.
I do not think that anyone on his right mind would post a picture of themselves showing their underwear!!!
In a serious note, You do what is best for you and I understand that you have to cover yourself to upheld your image!!
;)

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MSN.. My MSN is Monica_Campbell_244 at hotmail.com

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Morphus.. Very quick question.
Wha do you cover your face?
Is there anything wrong with it, are you afraid of someone may see you. The reason I ask is because you almost show your " Mercado" so why would you cover your face. I do not get it!

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Morphus.. Come on man!
Who are you trying to Impress!!Not me!!!
I would post my photo here, but my intetions are different than trying to look for approval.
Dude, about the underwear, it is hillarious.
Sweetcale~a, did you find what website he got that picture from?

"The problem is that no man conquers a respectable woman...and that only the best women will let you in to conquer their heart, soul and spirit (not just their bodies)".
I agree with you there caulfield2.
Finally somebody got it right!

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Lost Renting property is not a bad idea, However.
I am 25 to be 26 in June. How about you?
Velentino, I reside in Florida maybe we can get in touch and talk.
My e-mial is Monicac0314 at yahoo.com

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What kind of image you already have? "I wouldnt want to judge without at least trying it!)
I am talking about this sentence. Usually when you think about judging is because you have an idea or image about that.
I am from Cali.

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El paisa29 si... El paisa29 si sabe como es la volteada de la arepa.
Bien por ti Paisa.
jajajaja.

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Lost What kind of image you already have?

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"ti lin, ti lin y nada de paletas"? That is funny, It has been a long time since I do not hear that.
Or even better, " la Ultima Lambida del Mango".
He also forgot to add a litle of Brad Pitt.
Jajajaja.:)

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I've Never I did not think that I was going to get a big laugh out if this Post!!!
Morphus,
You should be living in the Middle East, 7 girls all for you!
I would love to see your pics to see if your ego is equal to your body!

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caulfield2 Very Clever!

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I will take this as a big complement.
complicated=difficult and flaky=neurotic.
Symptoms include misleading,playing games,bitchiness,aloofness,superficialness,agressiveness, etc.
This flurting makes me laugh, love it.
I will not be your enemy in a million years.
Thanks Tinto for trying to keep us Preschoolers in order.

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Leonardo Please do not take your US dollars to Colombia, they will give nothing for them, 1800 per 1USD.
I did that in the past and was not worth to try.
Do you have anyone that you can trust to send the money from US to colombia?
If you do, do that instead. Maybe you can send that money to yourself in colombia because by so you will get a better deal.
Trying to take money out of the ATM was not worth the try either, at least for me.
Next time I am going to travel, I will make sure that I'll exchange all the money from here to there.

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Arthur Brode Do not agree with this!
what you need to understand is that the Colombian women that live in the States are different from the Colombian women that live in Colombia.They change.They become more complicated and flaky......like Gringas.
How they become more complicated?
Could you explain?
caulfield2,
Any jobs for me there, fax it where?

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caulfield2 I live in the US,but I from Cali.
Are you getting marry again?

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Where are the Pics I would like to see the pics.

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To all.. Este tema fue inicialmente creado para prevenir a los imigrantes de que no salgan a la calle ya que la "Migra" esta en todas partes llevandose a cual imigrante se encuentre.
Tambien de que quiero apoyarlos ya que yo tambien fui imigrante y pues me relaciono mucho por lo que estan pasando.
Me imagino que muchos de ustedes no saben como compartir ese sentimiento porque de seguro de que no hay tenido que esconderse en sus casas y estar asustados todo el tiempo en el trabajo pensado que en cualquier momento la "Migra" se va aparacer por ahi y se los van a llevar para ser deportado..
Muchas familias en latinoamerica sobreviven y comen todos los dias gracias a que uno de sus familiares " Imigrantes" estan trabajando duro para poder mandar dinero y ayudar a sus seres queridos, cosa que no podrian hacer en sus paises.
Me parece a mi que en este foro hay mucha gente que no les importa nada mas que su beneficio propio y despues se preguntan por que el mundo esta como esta.

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Brian Thanks for that info because I do like Jazz.
Great!!!

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Blue That will be great send me en e-mail.
Monicac0314 at yahoo.com

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That was Great!!! I have to say that is the best post I have ever seen.
These are beautiful memories I carry with me 24/7, 365 days of the year.
Great Job!!!

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Thanks Bruce Here is my e-mail:
Monicac0314 at yahoo.com.
How do I get your Contact info?
Utopiacowboy
Te agradezco que me quieras mostrar la cuidad, pero tu casa?
UMMMM??
Thanks.

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Thanks Miguel,
I have no idea where I would be staying since the company that is providing training is also providing the Hotel.
I have Family there, but I do not eve know if I will see them at all.
OH Yeah I know Grupo Niche. My favorite song is "Busquen por Dentro".
I apreciate your help and info.
Here is my e-mail so we can get in touch
Monicac0314 at yahoo.com

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Que Bien Platano Gente como usted es la que necesitamos en este mundo y no una manada de gente negativa que solo se preocupan por ellos mismos y sus beneficios propios.
QUE VIVAN LOS IMIGRANTES!

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Expatriate I would like to comunicate with you.
May I call you?

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Porfa... A todos los imigrantes que porfavor no salgan a las calles.
No les den ese papayaso a la "Migra" ya que estan en todas partes y hasta van a lugares donde posibles imigrantes pudieran trabajar y estan pidiendo residencia o algun estado migratorio y si no lo pueden provar se lo llevan.
Aca en la Florida esta horrible y la verdad me molesta y me entristece que este pais que tanto se cree que respeta los derechos Humanos este haciendo esto..La gente se esconde como si fueran ratas y la " Migra" esta llendo a todo lugar habido y por haber con el solo proposito de encontrar Ilegales y llevarselos..
Porfa vor no salgan!!!

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Pardon Me. Pardon me for my typo's

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I can't write I can not type!!!
UH?

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To all.. Colombias do know how to appreciate every little thing they have; I am one of them.
My American tells me that one of the most beatiful qualities I have is that I apreciate what people does for me.
The fact I that I am always cleaning, gets him shocked.
I know about buying what I can over in Colombia, I did it last february. I bought so much clothes for $150US that I would not be able to buy here with the same $150US.
Southerman, we apreciate the fact that you have nice thing to say about us, Not too many of you...
People I have talked to have the wrong inpresion of what Colombians area and the way they live.
We are clean, we are fun, we apreciate simple things in life and we know how to save our pennies.
We have Malicia Indigena.