By Robert Jorge on Jul 8, 2008, 21:40 in Visa & paperwork.
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CatGirl says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:44: ?? RJ? you usually know this stuff and give advice on it - is it something unique you need? Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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ColombianoGringo says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:46: Hey RJ, What's up buddy? What specifically do you need?
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:46: Well, I messed up, and hit 'enter' before even typing anything. So here goes: I am in a real bad situation right now. I will contact an attorney tomorrow. But I need to know who or what number to call for USCIS when you need to report a conditional permanent resident who lied on their visa paperwork, interview, has been unfaithfull after being married, and is doing everything they can to stay in the US and screw their petitioner over. Speculate all you want ... I will be glad to answer PMs from people I really know here. I feel like I am drowning, and I want to figure out a way to survive. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:49: Yes, it is bad. Real bad. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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ColombianoGringo says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:54: I just PM'd you. I'll get you some info in the morning. I am putting in a very late night at the office, but I should be back in mid morning and will find out whatever I can for you. You might want to take down any specific details from the board. There are too many jerks on here.
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CatGirl says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:54: RJ, there are only two ways to do this and you should do both - neither can be done by telephone ;(. Lo Siento, Mr Jorge .... Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:56: Sounds like the original CG can help ;). Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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harvardexec says on Jul 8, 2008, 21:57: You can visit their website: "I'm going to be honest: I know a lot less about economics than I do about military and foreign policy issues. I still need to be educated."-John McCain 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 8, 2008, 22:03: Ha! Website....good luck...might help a little. Unless it has it changed recently. Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 8, 2008, 22:03: No offense, just it's a joke for some things Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 8, 2008, 23:07: Thanks guys - in a nutshell, I am fighting a chick that is hardcore. She is playing everything by the playbook, being coached by outside puta(s). BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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huskie says on Jul 9, 2008, 01:29: http://www.lawinfo.com/ "Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds-" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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scumbuster says on Jul 9, 2008, 03:29: The most important thing to do is streighten out your finances now. get the credit cards put on hold.. Move any joint money.
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Albatross says on Jul 9, 2008, 04:24: If she lied on her visa application, that alone is grounds for deportation... hope you get the bitch. “Democracy - a pathetic belief in the collective wisdom of individual ignorance." - H.L. Mencken 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elmodefoque says on Jul 9, 2008, 04:30: rj, nail her to the wall, ASK NOT WHAT THE PUSSY CAN DO FOR YOU, BUT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THAT PUSSY!!!!!!!!!! CAT LOVER 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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kat1 (Moderator) says on Jul 9, 2008, 05:12: LOL Elmo but the pan bono and kola roman sound tempting
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El Polo says on Jul 9, 2008, 06:10: Sorry to hear that RJ, hopefully her friends are not as knowledgeable as you think, start speaking to lawyers ASAP, good luck.
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 06:26: Elmo, believe it or not you are the first dude to say something that made me smile. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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GregYohn says on Jul 9, 2008, 08:31: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mononoke28 says on Jul 9, 2008, 08:48: Robert Jorge, Diana 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 9, 2008, 08:54: Mononoke: make an infopass appointment with your local USCIS office. There they will explain to you what needs to be done, if anything. Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 08:56: I can't give details, other than vague information. I think it is OK for me to say I am not allowed to have contact with her. I definitely am not trying to abandon her. I need to have a cup or two of coffee, and then call my attorney and then USCIS. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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GregYohn says on Jul 9, 2008, 09:09: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mononoke28 says on Jul 9, 2008, 09:12: Yeah, a restraining order against you only strengthens her case. Diana 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 09:15: No restraining order. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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kalder says on Jul 9, 2008, 09:27: Robert- as I know nothing of how things are done in the States, so I'm afraid I can't offer you any advice. But I would like to say how truly upset I am by your troubles. You must be feeling dreadful now- like you're at the bottom of a well and someone keeps on shovelling crap down on you. If only I could buy you a beer and offer you a shoulder...Take care brother. "kalder- have you ever had a woman?"--Sam Salmon 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elmodefoque says on Jul 9, 2008, 09:39: RJ, is gonna be rough for a little while but no one has died from this chit. ASK NOT WHAT THE PUSSY CAN DO FOR YOU, BUT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THAT PUSSY!!!!!!!!!! CAT LOVER 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Albatross says on Jul 9, 2008, 09:50: But never forget... men are pigs and women deserve even more "rights". “Democracy - a pathetic belief in the collective wisdom of individual ignorance." - H.L. Mencken 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Azul says on Jul 9, 2008, 10:06: RJ, out of everyone here on PBH I relate to you the most....and your situation scares the shit out of me. When you feel comfortable please elaborate on your situation so that other like me have a better chance of avoiding the pain you feel. Thanks man, we're in your corner. las cosas caen por su propio peso 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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GregYohn says on Jul 9, 2008, 10:12: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 10:26: As soon as I can, I will elaborate. Unfortunately, that could be a long time. But again, speaking vaguely, you can not imagine what a chick will do to you. Assume at all times, or at least prepare for, that she has absolutely no concious. I don't know if it is a survival instinct learned in Colombia, and it doesn't really matter. But If I could tell you some of the details of what I have found out about my wife, your Fing jaw would hit the floor. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 9, 2008, 10:30: Albatross: "But never forget... men are pigs and women deserve even more "rights"." Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Albatross says on Jul 9, 2008, 11:35: Yes, Kitty... I was being sarcastic. “Democracy - a pathetic belief in the collective wisdom of individual ignorance." - H.L. Mencken 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elmodefoque says on Jul 9, 2008, 11:51: importing a woman from any third world country is taking A BIG, BIG, BIG , BIG , BIG chance, similar to playing russian roulette. ASK NOT WHAT THE PUSSY CAN DO FOR YOU, BUT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THAT PUSSY!!!!!!!!!! CAT LOVER 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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scumbuster says on Jul 9, 2008, 12:02: True elmo.. I have been shot in the head a couple times.. lol But I have a keeper now. 3 years and counting. If you keep tryin sooner or later your bound to beet the odds. Cant be any worse that an american woman.
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 12:14: I am through with importing. I guess it is safer to be into exports. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elmodefoque says on Jul 9, 2008, 12:20: rj, scumbuster survived 2 shots in the head, you'll be ok! ASK NOT WHAT THE PUSSY CAN DO FOR YOU, BUT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THAT PUSSY!!!!!!!!!! CAT LOVER 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elmodefoque says on Jul 9, 2008, 12:23: greg yong, survived one shot in the head too, and look he was not left paralized or any of that chit ASK NOT WHAT THE PUSSY CAN DO FOR YOU, BUT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THAT PUSSY!!!!!!!!!! CAT LOVER 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elmodefoque says on Jul 9, 2008, 12:25: scumbuster, you is one tough modefoque, shot 2 times yet you look just fine ASK NOT WHAT THE PUSSY CAN DO FOR YOU, BUT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR THAT PUSSY!!!!!!!!!! CAT LOVER 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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webmanco says on Jul 9, 2008, 13:18: CatGirl ...A yo, déjenme queto y no me jodan má! ... 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mononoke28 says on Jul 9, 2008, 13:31: Oh yeah, I've seen it first hand and a vindictive woman is not a pretty thing. It's prety scary. Diana 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 9, 2008, 16:43: Webman & Monoke etal.... yes, and what is even worse is when you get a man with those qualities - physical strength AND violent and manipulative and emotionally or mentally abusive. Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 9, 2008, 16:44: I am sure there are women out there with physical strength, but much less likely... Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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GregYohn says on Jul 9, 2008, 16:55: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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pedro says on Jul 9, 2008, 17:04: RJ, I am really sorry to hear your news. que nota! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Cerealkiller says on Jul 9, 2008, 17:09: I am sorry to hear all these horror stories about cunning lying Colombianas, most of us are not like that. I suppose it is an experience, at the end of the day whoever got the crappy end of the stick will come out more mature, wiser etc. As Colombian women on this forum, we can only point out at red flags and comment on what most guys do not want to hear, but shit happens more often than not. RJ, hope its over soon and do share your story with other men on this forum, Viel Glück! Conservatives are not necessarily stupid, but most stupid people are conservatives -John Stuart Mill 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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lanegrapaisa says on Jul 9, 2008, 17:43: God RJ, I don't know you and I don't know her, but it is embarrassing to learn that a colombian woman is pulling crap like that, I'm not a violent person but I really feel like kicking her ass. This is exactly why there are so few good guys left. we have a word for women like that, now repeat after me, "ZUNGA" oh that cement is just, it's there for the weight, dear 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 17:49: So Zunga is similar to grilla? BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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lanegrapaisa says on Jul 9, 2008, 17:55: Actually, Zunga is a wonderful word, it's used for women who are not just grillas but also back-stabbing, ho-looking, money hungry, skanks.....uhm did I go too far? oh that cement is just, it's there for the weight, dear 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 18:00: And that would be a universally recognized / understood word in Villavicencio, Bogota, Colombia in general? (I am just making sure before I put it in my hard-drive) (brain) BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CanadaMan says on Jul 9, 2008, 18:07: Robert, Formerly WidowerfromCanada...I am engaged to a wonderful Peruviana. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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lanegrapaisa says on Jul 9, 2008, 18:09: Well, i'm not sure about that, but I'll tell you what... if and when you use it with people from that part of the country, all you have to do is place a H.P before the Zunga part, and do hand gestures as you say it, that way, people will understand it's a bad thing and it will become a universal insult... gosh I love teaching! oh that cement is just, it's there for the weight, dear 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 18:10: I got the HP down already. Thanks for the tips lane! BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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lanegrapaisa says on Jul 9, 2008, 18:12: lol, any time RJ! oh that cement is just, it's there for the weight, dear 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 18:13: Thanks for the kind words CanadaMan ... and everybody else too. It has helped. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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travelingirl says on Jul 9, 2008, 18:24: I'm so very sorry you are having to go through this, RJ. Around her hair she wore a yellow ribbon... 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CanadaMan says on Jul 9, 2008, 19:57: Keep your chin up Robert.. Formerly WidowerfromCanada...I am engaged to a wonderful Peruviana. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 20:11: Thanks CanadaMan. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Jul 9, 2008, 20:33: Sorry to hear about your situation. I wouldn't tar the whole country with the same brush. My wife is thrifty, punctual, hard-working and devoted to me and our combined families. There are plenty of Colombian women like her. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 21:03: I am definitely not tarring the whole country. Hell, I don't really want to tar my estranged wife. Sure is good to see you again Utopia. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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ColombianoGringo says on Jul 9, 2008, 21:10: It is good to see you UC.
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christobeldawg says on Jul 9, 2008, 21:36: You're handling it well, but I am sure you are seething, and that is normal. I know the feeling well. jaja admittedly, arriving can feel great too 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 9, 2008, 22:09: Christo, I am actually not seething. At the risk of sounding corny, my emotions have ranged from deep hurt, sense of betrayment, fear, but very little anger. Sometimes I wish I could get angry, like it would be easier. But then again, I remind myself that things I have done when angry have usually not been the best choices. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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christobeldawg says on Jul 9, 2008, 22:15: That's not corny, that's real. If you do get angry, don't feel bad about it later, because this is tough stuff to go though. You'll be fine, and will find someone better. admittedly, arriving can feel great too 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CanadaMan says on Jul 10, 2008, 08:49: bump Formerly WidowerfromCanada...I am engaged to a wonderful Peruviana. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Azul says on Jul 10, 2008, 11:45: I'm the type of person to get hurt rather than angry....although I always wished, especially when I was going through my divorce, that I could be angry instead of hurt. In a way I think that it is more empowering to be angry. las cosas caen por su propio peso 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CanadaMan says on Jul 10, 2008, 13:35: Yes Azul anger can consume you.. Not always a good thing.. Formerly WidowerfromCanada...I am engaged to a wonderful Peruviana. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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deathnova says on Jul 10, 2008, 13:55: I don't see what the issue is with the residency, if there were false written statements on the application that should be grounds for immediate immigration detention.
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GregYohn says on Jul 11, 2008, 08:10: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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deathnova says on Jul 11, 2008, 13:20: GregYohn,
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GregYohn says on Jul 12, 2008, 08:23: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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deathnova says on Jul 12, 2008, 11:17: GY,
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MaFe says on Jul 12, 2008, 11:22: RJ good luck...go to your local office ASAP....make sure you get an attorney.... "All human actions have one or more of these seven causes: chance, nature, compulsions, habit, reason, passion, desire. "-Aristotle 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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GregYohn says on Jul 12, 2008, 15:58: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CatGirl says on Jul 12, 2008, 17:35: Greg and RJ - is the issue here about whether she gets her green card or cutting your losses, loved learned and move on? Love and Time: the only two things that cannot be bought, but only spent 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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deathnova says on Jul 12, 2008, 18:35: The issue is always about whether or not they get to keep the green card. If he does not want to make it an issue than I will. No one comes to my country illegally, period.
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GregYohn says on Jul 13, 2008, 08:18: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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deathnova says on Jul 13, 2008, 10:53: GY,
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 13, 2008, 11:50: I have no motivation to try and get her in trouble with USCIS or ICE. I know that is quite a different tone than what my original post implied - or even said. I just want to cut my losses and eventually move on. I am also getting advice from an attorney - as well as talking to a lot of people who have been through this like some of you guys. Thanks. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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GregYohn says on Jul 13, 2008, 11:55: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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deathnova says on Jul 14, 2008, 02:29: GY,
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GregYohn says on Jul 14, 2008, 07:41: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Jul 14, 2008, 21:41: Good advice Doc. Your last sentence doesn't pertain to our situation (fortunately). And your suggested plan of action is exactly what I plan on doing. BEWARE of gold diggers. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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