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To all the colombianas - ?Qué trata de decir mi ex-novia en este mensaje?

I received the following letter from my ex-novia (who lives in colombia) today. Is she saying anything between the lines? I understand virtually everything she is writing but sometimes the meaning of a written message goes deeper than words. I am unsure of her intent. Does she just want to be friends and communicate periodically or is she saying she wants to get back together? She was the one to initiate the breakup during my last visit to colombia two months ago.

TIA!

Don

Hola Don, espero que te encuentres super bien en uniòn
de quienes te rodean.
Don, la verdad es que esperaba siquiera un saludo de
parte tuya para conmigo, igual yo soy conciente de
todo lo sucedido y de mil maneras te pido excusas, no
fuè mi intenciòn herirte, serìa incapaz de hacerlo,
por que tù eres un bello ser que Dios quiso mandar al
mundo y la verdad nos puso en el camino para hacer
algo lindo por los dos.
Te confieso que estos dìas a mi me han servido de
mucho, para reflexionar, estar alejada de todo,
dedicarme a mi carrera, no intentar buscar a nadie por
que tù sabes que yò necesitaba un tiempo para borrar
muchas cosas de mi mente y de mi corazòn, que en
verdad me estaban haciendo daño e igual me perjudicò
con lo que yò deseaba de tì.
Tù eres un gran hombre, en mi familia esto ìò muy
duro, mi mamà se deprimiò muchisimo y ella me decìa
que en la iglesia nos veìan casados, ella y todas las
personas que nos trataron deseaban vernos asì.
M______ te recuerda mucho, sus hijos y toda la
familia.
Me ha dolido que tù ni siquiera hallas podido
escribirme, sino que me decìas dile a E___ tal razòn
y mas nada, làstima.
Quisiera saber como va todo con tu trabajo, tus chicas
de internet, tù salud, como esta tu familia, amigos
etc.
La verdad Don, es que me gustarìa hablar bien contigo.
Estoy viviendo todavìa donde M_____, seguì pagando
el curso de inglès, mas no he podido asistir. Si
quiero hablar este idioma y la verdad es que te doy
gracias por que tù fuiste quien me impulsò a hacerlo.
Me gustarìa hablar muy en serio contigo, siempre y
cuando tù estes dispuesto a hacerlo.
Reconozco todo y sè que fallè pero errar es de humano
y en la vida merecemos siempre una oportunidad.
Me despido de tì con un fuerte abrazo, saludos y
muchos recuerdos a los tuyos. Bye Don.

By DoninLasVegas on Jun 20, 2005, 23:06 in Friendly Talkzone. AddThis Social Bookmark Button


shirly1981 says on Jun 20, 2005, 23:22:

Missing you Eyyy what are you waiting for??? she wants to be with you again, your girlf realized of any mistake she made and want you to be with her, you havent called nor sent her greetings, you girl is missing you a lot and all her people as well. Ok thats all what she said good luck and call her..........

Sophia

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Miguel says on Jun 20, 2005, 23:35:

Yeah Sounds like the family is working in your behalf! Suerte.

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adela says on Jun 21, 2005, 11:45:

she wants you..slowly I think the girl really likes to count with you as a friend and she sounds me so interested in having a "second chance" for something more...let's see this final :

"Si quiero hablar este idioma y la verdad es que te doy
{I do want to talk english, certainly I'm grateful}

gracias por que tù fuiste quien me impulsò a hacerlo.
{because you was the one who adviced me to do it}

Me gustarìa hablar muy en serio contigo, siempre y
{I would like to talk sincerely with you, only if}

cuando tù estes dispuesto a hacerlo.
{you are able to do it}

Reconozco todo y sè que fallè pero errar es de humano
{I do acept my last errors but I tell you: to mistake is human}

y en la vida merecemos siempre una oportunidad.
{and..in life we-who mistake- always deserve a chance}

Me despido de tì con un fuerte abrazo, saludos y
{I say good by to you with best wishes/strong hug,best wishes to your family. Bye Don}

muchos recuerdos a los tuyos. Bye Don."

-----
I suppose you went to her life when she was at the end of another relationship or while she was with some emotional troubles...she seemed sincere and open.

Also, she is looking you as this person who confront her and at same time be open to listen what is in her heart. Seems that after that, she hopes that you both could have another chance.

Colombian women like men insist in their love. In that way, they-colombian w- would know that man's interest is genuine.

Màs fe, màs abrazos, màs besos, màs disculpas, màs visitas a nuestros amigos antiguos nos haràn màs plenos cada vez.

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Neonovo says on Jun 21, 2005, 11:56:

She's plump fruit... Ready for the picking; go with gusto, my friend...

Paz
Neonovo

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