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Hello everybody I am a gringo who lived in Colombia about 4 years ago for nearly a year when I met my now wife who is Colombia .We live in the USA now but in less than a year she will have citizenship so we can go back to Colombia.
we would like to buy a house or apartment and retire there and live life a little simpler.
What kind of consequences would I have if I paid for a house there and a few years later we get divorced or want to sell the property. Are the laws in Colombia similiar to the USA for splitting property?? Is there anything I could do so I would not lose my financial interest in the event of a divorce?? Any ideas or suggestions??? thanks...
By colombiaboy on Dec 27, 2005, 17:34 in Friendly Talkzone.
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six20five says on Dec 27, 2005, 19:06: Are you sure? You sure you want to give up living in the states to move to Colombia? Don't get me wrong, I love my country but after having lived there for more than a decade, and living another decade here, I don't think I'd be able to give up the freedom I have here in the states.
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rapi2000 says on Dec 27, 2005, 21:29: Go for it! Colombiaboy, rapi2000@yahoo.com |
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 06:55: Thanks .... Can U help some more??? Thank you for the advice on if I buy a house in Colombia.. My wife who is Colombian seems to tell me we can get a NEW or nice Apartment in the Plaza de las Americas sector for maybe around 25k to 35K American?? Does that sound correct?? what about the safety factor there?? any suggestions of sectors in this price range?? Maybe en the north or Chia area??
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 28, 2005, 07:05: Colombiaboy - Ya, that's correct With that kind of money, you can buy a NICE house down there. And I love the place - it's down South, you're hanging with the 'gente, and the night life is UNBELIEVABLE. Wasteland |
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 28, 2005, 07:12: PS - $1K is plenty ... for your average Colombian, and if that's your family income WITHOUT a rent or mortgage, you'll do just fine. Wasteland |
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 07:23: Thanks....for the repsonses!!! We certainly are not rich- but yes would want a place to have nice things... ie.. TV.. stero.. computer... I am in mid 40's- so the purpose of retiring now would be to live a SIMPLER- LESS STRESS life... I am familiar with Chapiner area- what about more north?? doesnt it start to get more economical after a certain point in the north-- like Chia area or somewehere close??? AS FAR AS PASSING FOR COLOMBIAN... I probably cant.. tall .. brwn hair.. I do speak good spanish.. on the telephone most cant depict where I am from.. as far as the dress.. I would want to blend in... ALL WE WANT IS TO LIVE A SIMPLER LIFE... WITHOUT THE HASSLES OF the HECTIC PRESSURE OF THE corporate lifestyle here.. yes we do enjoy and want nice things- but to buy them and have them paid for... I didnt realize that the probability of robbery in houses or apartments was so high-- even though I lived there for about a year..I realized the danger of kidnapping for gringos that are there,, but thought Bogota or other bigger cities are somewhat safer???
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 28, 2005, 07:31: OK... Well, Wasteland |
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 08:09: In Comparison... In comparing the zones you are talking about... when I lived there before I lived near the new mall.. Atlantis... I forget the zone..near all the computer stores on 15....this area must have been a fairly high estrata because I thought my apartment( which I rented) was high in utilities for the size.. would these areas you mention be more or less safer than the santa rosa area I lived near..????
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thur says on Dec 28, 2005, 09:30: Visiting perspective... Well, ofcourse I don't have the inside info like the above posters, but what the heck... - www.pbase.com/thur |
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GringoinBucaramanga says on Dec 28, 2005, 09:58: Check it out jj_jp at msn.com jj_jp@msn.com |
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haji says on Dec 28, 2005, 11:42: gringo bogota is right To be a tourist ,you can get by with no problems normaly and Colombia looks great but when you live here awhile all kinds of things happen
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 12:21: Maybe you are right... Even though I lived in Bogota for about a year.. and having spent several trips of several weeks there,.... renting would be the safest bet .. to start anyway..I just wanted to make the best of what little savings I had by purchasing and cutting down the cost of living in colombia to practically nothing without a rent payment. I am being pressured by the Colombian wife.. who wants to buy there.. undoubtfully so??? She just wants a stable life.. which here economically is alot more difficult.. so we thought Bogota would be the answer..... thanks for the advice,,, any other thoughts of a Gringo living in Colombia will be greatly accepted
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 13:08: Yeah.. love is Blind they say But I am the one who has initiated all the talk over going back to Colombia to live... She says she wants to live her.. for her boy.. for her.. I believe she would prefer Colombia.. She has been here for 3.5 years.. hasnt learned to speak english yet- but has become a "professional english student" and has met a "social club" of Colombian women all married to gringos that seem to all be "better off" than us... who knows.. maybe she is right.. and I am just "tacano".. BUT THAT IS A FEAR OF BUYING A HOME THERE AND .. if we split up.. I have set her up for living there and left myself out in the cold.... ANYONE EVER HEARD OF AN POST NUPTUAL agreement in Colombia?? that would protect my investment in the HOME???
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 28, 2005, 13:24: Wow. Woahhh... CB, Wasteland |
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 13:54: We have been married for over 3 years.. and I keep promising that we will buy nice things.. but dont see the sense or need in buying them here... if we will be moving to Colombia when she gets her Citizenship next year....I probably am putting the pressure on myself...BUT ALL YOUR ADVICE from everyone here.. seems to be to wait....AND RENT FOR A TIME ...probably GOOD ADVICE...
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 28, 2005, 14:02: Ah - so you're already married. Roger that. Get a pre-nup. Good luck friend! Wasteland |
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viewpoint says on Dec 28, 2005, 14:15: WOW You guys better listen to some of GIB comments as he is the only one making sense in many of these posts. First of all I don't think many of you may understand all of the risk that you incurr when investing in Colombia.
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 14:57: A little confused I understand I would have to talk to a lawyer in Colombia.. but from my experience with them.. there are so many dishonest ones who can U trust... We had a 3-4 year court battle in Colombia and have learned that the legal system is very sad and needs an overhaul... BUT MY QUESTION.. that confuses me is WOULD I GET THE PRE-NUPT contract in Colombia??? if so..USA court or judges wouldnt have any jurisdiction over a prenup made in colombia would they???
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six20five says on Dec 28, 2005, 16:13: Snowy USA Rapi2000 ...at least when I'm 'dragging my ass out on the snow' on the way to the supermarket, I'll be doing it knowing the possibilities of a thug willing to stab me for a few pesos dragging his ass out on the snow right behind me are slim.
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colombiaboy says on Dec 28, 2005, 16:43: U R RIGHT.... Except for the year I lived in Colombia.. and time spent visiting there as well as trips to central America.. I have lived here all my life... BUT The time I lived in Colombia was the most peaceful.. most fulfilling time of my life.. I guess I am tired of the ratrace of America.. mortgage.. car payments... work.. stressed to make ends meet.. after 20 more years of this.. I want to end that ratrace now... take my investments.. buy a home.... invest the rest.. to live on a monthly income... subsidize that by us both working in Colombia.. because we WANT TO... NOT HAVE TO.. or worry so much like the majority of the people in Colombia.. worked like slaves ( less than 300-400k pesos or even under a million pesos a month to just make ends meet--- TO ME... I HAVE REEVALUATED LIFE HERE... and want to choose a simpler life style-- THE MAJOR PROBLEM-- is the security issure in Colombia-- My family says we should choose somewhere else in Central America like Panama or Honduras??? for me that would be fine-- but she is Colombian
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tomtom33 says on Dec 28, 2005, 16:50: Life in Colombia is not simpler. Everything that I want to do here seems to be a major hassle. My Spanish is poor, and I don't know how things work.
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Gator says on Dec 28, 2005, 20:13: I Own Now.... in an upscale Bogotá neighborhood BUT I/we were lucky on the timing and got in before the prices started to really, make that REALLY, go sky-high. Buying while the dollar was strong did not hurt either. I also tend to agree with GIB. Now is not the time to buy. To much will be riding on the next election. "Brevior Sltare Cum Deformibus Mulieribus Est Vita!" . |
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Rubiazo says on Dec 28, 2005, 22:03: What makes everybody think that buying a house in the USA is so much more secure, or that OUR currency won't take a nose-dive. The administration certainly seems to be hellbent for leather on plunging the USD right into the toilet! Not to mention, for all we know we could be right around the corner from an event that makes 9/11 look like nothing! So don't feel too fucking secure up here, guys!
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ElPadrino1 says on Dec 28, 2005, 23:03: I would proceed with caution on buying a house with this Woman.I notice you mention she throws out those Arrows that her friends who are married to Gringos are doing much better, buying this, buying that. I would never let myself be pressured under duress into buying some Property just because my Wife's friends were buying in a certain strata, neighborhood ect ect. If you are signing the check, its YOUR call Where you buy and How Much you will spend on a House. And When and If you buy at all. I would rent first also, as others have mentioned. You should check the Foreclosure Depts. of the Major Banks in Bogota as they always have a fresh list of new foreclosures. Big Business in Bogota !! Foreclosures are listed as "estan en daciones"-in metrocuadrado.com. Like you said, you want to be real sure of what you are getting into before you sign and its too late. Thats a valid viewpoint about not setting her up in case of a Divorce. How many times has one heard that drill! Good Luck!!
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Hunter says on Dec 29, 2005, 07:51: gringoinbogota The dollar may have increased last year against the yen, Euro and Pound, but that doesn't mean it will in the coming years.
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 29, 2005, 08:00: Real Estate Everywhere... Has simply gone nuts. Smart people are calling it a bubble, and it's hard for me to imagine that it isn't. Wasteland |
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 29, 2005, 08:54: Boy if I had a dollar for every guy who comes here saying that he is going to leave the rat race in the US or Canada for tranquility in Colombia. Where do they even get these ideas? Life in Colombia is damm difficult even for Colombians let alone transplanted gringo dreamers. My oldest stepson here wants some spending money so he easily goes out and gets a job that in Colombia would be a job supporting a family. Here it's just a menial job for teenagers to make some extra dough. Jobs like that are a dime a dozen here. Not so in Colombia. Any kind of work is hard to come by. You ask my stepkids and wife where life is easier and they'll tell you straight up. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. |
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colombiaboy says on Dec 29, 2005, 09:03: YES,, U R RIGHT..... If I or we were moving to Colombia to seek employment or to have to work for a living.. I agree we would be way better off in the USA... as there are tons of medium paying jobs.. 9-15 Hr.. Those could not be found in Colombia... I lived in Colombia.. and saw the unemployment.. people on the street... offering to guard your car for you while you were in a store... is sad... and NO.. I have worked hard in my life.. tried to save.. and would like a better chance at a second marriage with my wife and new step-son... we would have enough money I believe on income from investments here to live comfortably there.. My wife wants to re-enter her profession that she did for nearly 15 years there,,, because she wants to.. I would like to teach english.. as I have an interest in that.. and hopefully be able to "enjoy" life more of the life and culture and food and climate in colombia....NO MOVING TO COLOMIBA SEEKING GOLD.... that pot is still t the end of the rainbow.....
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Hunter says on Dec 29, 2005, 09:27: gringoinbogota & Wastelandlive gringoinbogota
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 29, 2005, 10:41: ??????????????? Well Hunter, Wasteland |
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Hunter says on Dec 29, 2005, 14:43: Wastelandlive & gringoinbogota I wouldn't actually say property is my bag, I have a view on it that’s all, but views are like ass....., everybody has one.
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viewpoint says on Dec 29, 2005, 15:25: Real Estate Vatuation Corrections Hunter couldn't be more correct. Real Estate ownership certainly comes with risk like anything else including currency. People have short memories like during the major real estate corrections I have experienced in the USA. In the late 60s and early 70s the Boeing slump caused massive layoffs in western Washington and the real estate prices plumeted putting all equities under water and properties weren't even worth their mortgages. The completion of the Alaska pipeline in the late 80s caused layoffs totaling almost 30,000 people in a state of only 425,000 people bring the Alaska economy to it's knees. I saw property values decline in some cases 85% for certain commercial properties and up to 75% for multiple residential proeprties and 50% for single family homes. Real estate collapsed in other oil-belt states like Colorado, Texas, Lousiana and even Arizona took a big hit.
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 30, 2005, 07:18: Interesting stuff. All around. Wasteland |
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Wastelandlive says on Dec 30, 2005, 10:29: I don't know if you guys followed this link... http://www.economist.com/finance/displaystory.cfm?story_id=1057057&no_na_tran=1 Wasteland |
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Rubiazo says on Dec 30, 2005, 10:32: Believe it or not One of the only places in the USA where small houses have never gone down in value was in NYC, even in the worst of the ghettoes, the 1-4 family houses held their value. Big building owners had serious problems however, as did commercial property holders.
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 30, 2005, 11:03: I had to go back and see what my rant was. I guess for the independently wealthy or the retirees looking for some place to die it makes sense. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. |
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Hunter says on Dec 31, 2005, 07:06: Wastelandlive Colombia doesn't have a very large mortgage market (mortgages interest rates are way to expensive), so even if the economic indicator existed there, I wouldn't use it.
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NewBoy says on Jan 2, 2006, 08:48: The Deeds are not to be trusted in Colombia for statistical purposes, it is very rare to put the actual purchase/selling price down, so this is going to make most stats worthless.
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tomtom33 says on Jan 2, 2006, 14:26: The dumb Gringo strikes again. I have the actual sale price on my deed.
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NewBoy says on Jan 2, 2006, 15:32: tomtom33 I have it on one of my properties as well, but the rest no, some no where near the price.
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Wastelandlive says on Jan 3, 2006, 06:42: Hey Tomtom... or anybody: I know of a small apartment I'm interested in buying. It's not actually for sale... I learned through a third party that the owner might want to sell. Wasteland |
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Cartagena Hooker says on Jan 3, 2006, 17:40: Real Estate Attorney in Cartagena I own four properties in Cartagena and would recomend Rodrigo Martinez. He is on the third floor of the Andean building in the Plaza Audauna. He types all the contracts estimates all the tax and registration costs and attends all the closings. He speaks english and his rate is .5% of the sale price. If you find a property on your own, he can handle all the negotiations nad you can save money.This is my blog where you can see three of the properties. http://spaces.msn.com/members/Cartagenahooker/
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Wastelandlive says on Jan 6, 2006, 09:33: Thanks Hooker Always good to get a reference to an attorney. Wasteland |
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