Sleeping with a friend: is that OK?

utopiacowboy says on May 1, 2005, 13:04:

Why do you care if it's common or not? All over the world people have f**k buddies. Who knows, it may screw up your friendship - that really depends on the two of you doesn't it? If you're worried about people talking, keep it on the down low.

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Cessi says on May 1, 2005, 13:15:

I know it`s common I just don`t know what colombian guys think of it.

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utopiacowboy says on May 1, 2005, 13:22:

Most Colombian guys, like most men, are not going to look a gift horse (a gift pus*y?) in the mouth. Why don't you ask this particular Colombian guy what he thinks of it? Are you worried this is going to devalue your worth to the other Colombianos? If they're looking for a "good girl", yes but let's face it, how many "good girls" are there in Colombia?

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kat1 (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on May 1, 2005, 13:32:

UHMM, so I don't know UC.Ia m in England so count one of them out :-P

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klau_dja says on May 1, 2005, 13:44:

Colombian girls PLENTY good girls in Colombia!! but that doesn't neccesarily mean that good girls don't give it up.

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utopiacowboy says on May 1, 2005, 14:55:

I said "good" not good at it. Interesting question however worthy of Platano: can you be a "good" girl and have a f**k buddy?

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kernow62 says on May 1, 2005, 17:46:

UTC, I am confused by the phrase (a gift pus*y?) What is the missing letter? It is driving me crazy!

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Miguel says on May 1, 2005, 19:20:

kernow62 Go to sleep. jajaja

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platano says on May 1, 2005, 22:00:

UTC, Thanks for the vote of confidence, but I'm not getting into this. I just hope they use a condom.

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N2Aquatix says on May 2, 2005, 05:58:

A Way Of Life That is a completely F*cked question. Why would you want to "sleep" with somebody that you would never consider as a committed partner? Isn't that kind of cheap and sleazy??? That's exactly the kind of crap that turns my stomach when I think about our culture stateside and the complete lack of morals and values that has eroded our society into worthlessness. Being a rock guitarist that has played in several popular bands, I can openly admit to having had plenty of cheap and meaningless encounters and that's why I don't do it anymore. If it's not sincere, honest, and committed, then it's cheap and meaningless. If that's what you want, then why not just come to the USA where it's a way of life?

Jay

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Hr77 says on May 2, 2005, 06:39:

Cessi Check your private messages, dear.

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elmodefoque says on May 2, 2005, 06:40:

Sleeping with your friend is the best kind of sex, because you could be completely honest with each other. You could tell her that she was a lousy f--k and laugh about it, it don’t matter. or she could tell you, “you came too soon you bastard”, and call you a "mr. minute man" and laugh about it, but if your girlfriend calls you that, forgetiabbouit, you wanna shoot your nuts off.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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Hr77 says on May 2, 2005, 06:43:

I'm with elmo on this on. "Thanks, dear. See ya." And you aren't forced to spend the night. : )

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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on May 2, 2005, 12:19:

Cessi, I'd say no, it's a bad idea, but then again you might already be there sleeping with your paisa friend and this will be too late.
Cheers, and sköt om dig,
Desi

"When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth)

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kat1 (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on May 2, 2005, 13:17:

so you only want an sleeping partner.
I think as soon as you sleep with him the close friendship is gone, you still can be friends but no the same as it used to be.

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Jimmyto says on May 2, 2005, 15:46:

0 SELF ESTEEM If you do not love your your friend then you shouldn't sleep with him. If you do it is only showing that you have a low self esteem for yourself and your relationship as friends will not be the same anymore. It is not worth it....

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Rebeka says on May 3, 2005, 16:39:

a grain of salt... Cessi,
I have no idea what the "stereotypical" Colombian guy would think about the situation, but my only advice is to do what feels right and what you WANT to do. Take things you read on this site with a grain of salt, keeping in mind that you are asking a very personal question to a bunch of strangers, who are mostly men. Don't let someone tell you that you are a cheap slut for sleeping with your friend if you don't love him deeply. I personally think that is totally bogus, do what you want to do. But no matter what, those are values and decisions that are personal to you and you're the only one who can really decide. I think looking for good advice online from strangers like this can be really self-destructive, so don't let anyone make you feel bad about your decisions. Good luck.

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