Sarcasm verses Truth, Help verses, Hindrance

gringoloid (Trustee board) says on Sep 21, 2008, 12:12:

yes, i made that Colo(u)mbia mistake when if first came here...........and it was pointed out to me with ad hom.

funny story though,........last week, after two years in colombia............i sent something to Columbus Circle, manhattan, nyc.......

yep, you guessed it.........i spelled it Colombus Circle...etc.

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Sonny says on Sep 21, 2008, 12:51:

My point exactly GG. They are mistakes we all make in our lives and yet so many people feel the need to correct the smallest things that actually have no bearing on anything much less the subject..I made the same spelling mistake years ago and expect to do it again. To all those reading we do know how to spell COLOMBIA and it sounds exactly the same when a U is used

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dwmte7 says on Sep 21, 2008, 14:06:

i was thinking about all this, sonny, and what came to me is shopping at home depot or lowes. you go in, and there's countless workers who will help you. some are like old friends, helpful, with hands and advise as well experience. THEN, there are always a hand full of pricks and almost pricks. i don't count them out, just cause they're ass holes, they're part of the human equation. i just kind of deal with them--if i have to--and get on with the day.

here on peter's wonderful site, having been around as long as i have been and seen so many different players, with as many different attitudes and opinions, i've almost--not quite--but almost become insulated to some of the more irritating. example, some upstart drug my wife into a thread and i instantly went to critical stage and explained in no uncertain terms how deadly serious life is in colombia and that one should always remember that...i did elaborate a little more. so, i'm not completely without sensative responses and know full well what a pain some can be.

so, for myself, i take the good with the bad and hope that both sides are able to profit a bit from the experience and opinions of others. there's lots of good advise from folks who've not been to colombia en re life as i read them as good players in general. and then again there are those who are on short fuses, antagonistic, insulting and sarcastic. for these i often try to mediate and bring them around. for others it's more often than not, not possible.

so, what to do? it aint sunny at the beach everyday. some days there's a storm. enjoy it.

douglas

dwmte

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Sonny says on Sep 21, 2008, 14:54:

Douglas, there are times when I let some of these humans get to me more so when they attack my family or the efforts of others to make a point or ask a question.. Their worthless lives are focused around makeing others feel as stupid as they are.But...........having been here sense Jan. 2005 I have seen a bit of everything and I have learned to take that good with the bad. I am thankful there are more good then bad here but we all like to make a funny at times and some threads open that door very wide and it is hard not to respond with ones first thought. I do bite my lip, however.
This was not a post to open any doors for bad because it would surly point that person out but it was simp[ly a statement to attempt to be positive about the good we all have found here. It is a Sunny day for most of us. Retired and moving to Colo(u)mbia what ever lifts your skirt:) The rest I feel for because they cannot do what I am about to do so let them write away. have a sunny day

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pedro (☼Travelguide writer) says on Sep 21, 2008, 15:42:

Sonny says on Sep 21, 2008, 16:44:

PEDRO because I dont look for the mistakes I feel no need to point them out. I choose not to be offended. That is my choice. Some people Just point out mistakes and have nothing to add to the topic. I do consider spelling important, however, I do understand when fingers move faster then the brain and mistakes happen. Thus the word MISTAKE!
If you knew me and called me Sunni I would think nothing of it. Not know me and using the name Sunni , I would think your talking about someone in a different country.
When it is necessary to spell correctly then I would use great caution to do so, but just to point out the error and add nothing constructive beyond the correction is worth nothing. A true sign of respect comes from pointing out the error and adding something to the topic to help answer the question the writer asked. I might add that it is NOT and I repeat NOT a sign of respect to point out the errors only. You have proven my point here. The word Colombia in the USA is spelled Columbia like the city. A simple error and nothing more, yet you chose to expound on this error with your own.
"Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language." -- Dale Carnegie, 1936
In that I have taken this course I might add that the word Gringo is not a great word to use for us is it? We are talking about a U used rather then an O. It has nothing to do with a persons name so this topic has changed right?
You have changed the subject PEDRO. No place in my post did I mention a persons name. Good job and again you proved my point. I mean no disrespect toward you nor did I mean to insult anyone. Just my opinion and I fought for the right to write it.

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dwmte7 says on Sep 21, 2008, 17:48:

brother pedro...not to add redundancy to redundancy, however, just to point out the importance to an american in the use of the spelling, c.o.l.u.m.b.i.a, the femenine image of the united states of america is 'lady columbia'...she is the mast head of our nations tall ship she is used in all early documents and currency of this great land. so when folks use the "u" spelling, it is with pride, not ridicule, nor attempt to slight and comes with a life of usage. and the pronounciation is basically the same unless you're one of those who finds charm in correcting ones pronunciation as well. now after living in colombia for 20 years, i don't think anyone other than my wife ever corrected me on pronunciation. so, if some gringo new to colombia, spells it columbia and even accents the pronunciation accordingly, don't take him/her to task, nor even bother correcting them. simply go on and when useing the word, spell it and pronounce it correctly. that should accomplish the desired end with out anger or false pride. too, it makes friendship infinitely more easy and enjoyable.

dwmte

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utopiacowboy says on Sep 21, 2008, 21:32:

"I am a jerk and offer nothing constructive so do not listen to me at any cost."

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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Sonny says on Sep 21, 2008, 21:48:

UTC are you still in Texas?

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lpdiver says on Sep 22, 2008, 11:00:

Part of the ambiance is spending some time in the room and getting to know the people and personalities.

It could be a lot better and a lot worse. I would hate to see the room become one hundred percent moderated.

It might be nice and useful to pin some of the posts and catagorize them for reference.

ts

"cook some rice!"

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bufalo says on Sep 22, 2008, 17:10:

"To all those reading we do know how to spell COLOMBIA and it sounds exactly the same when a U is used"

No it doesn't.

"I choose not to be offended." Sometimes you do otherwise you wouldn't bitch about it all the time. Everytime I read a post by you it always has to deal with how people are rude to you and are jerks. So people have fun sometimes, it's like a bunch of friends. When they do it to me I take account who is doing it and go from there. Like I said previously, maybe you look for this situation (after all you started a thread about it...).

"Just my opinion and I fought for the right to write it."
Really how did you fight for it? Services or something?

"...there are times when I let some of these humans get to me more so when...", "...Their worthless lives are focused around makeing others feel as stupid as they are."

Holy crap but you sound like a freaking lunatic. I mean no offense when I say I'm glad you are retiring. Get some rest and maybe you'll calm down. I used to do psych testing and some of your posts are right up there, believe me.

"If you don't like it - lump it, take it down the road and dump it." - Archie Bunker played by Carroll O'Connor

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utopiacowboy says on Sep 22, 2008, 17:23:

Si, Senor.

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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bufalo says on Sep 22, 2008, 17:33:

Holy mackrel (or is it mackerel?) UTC is back. How're things?

"If you don't like it - lump it, take it down the road and dump it." - Archie Bunker played by Carroll O'Connor

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Sonny says on Sep 23, 2008, 07:08:

bufalo
Thanks professor, Your 100% correct. I have a masters degree in Criminal justice and I think after reading some of my own post I have fallen prey to my own background. It is never my intention to insult anyone or hurt anyone but I think your right. It is time for me to retire in peace and take a break. Thanks again.

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dwmte7 says on Sep 23, 2008, 15:08:

you're right, sonny. it's bloody time to retire, put all that stuff behind you, move to the promised land, pour yourself a ron and coke, sit back on your ass and listen to the cows piss. enough is enough.

dwmte

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bufalo says on Sep 23, 2008, 16:10:

"F" every stressfull thing that ever crossed your path from the day you get off the plane, (and ignore the one's coming albeit they'll be fewer) until you stop breathing.

Now is your time. I don't know how long you worked for it but as long as I know someone on this planet is now having a good time then I'm a bit happier myself (still slumming it out here). Don't take "good riddance" in the usual negative way... the US is now, or soon to be "rid" of another 9-5er eeking out a living for a few days vacation a year - that IS good.

"If you don't like it - lump it, take it down the road and dump it." - Archie Bunker played by Carroll O'Connor

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dwmte7 says on Sep 24, 2008, 03:23:

ditto that, bufalo...here, here.

dwmte

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bufalo says on Sep 24, 2008, 14:49:

NO!!!!!! We're here and here.

What we want to be is THERE and THERE!!!

Enjoy Sonny

"If you don't like it - lump it, take it down the road and dump it." - Archie Bunker played by Carroll O'Connor

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Sonny says on Sep 26, 2008, 11:02:

When you retire you all to often do not know what to do with your time. I am not used to sleeping till 7am. For years it was up at 4:30am and off to work. Then you work through lunch with something at your desk, and then go home when finished around 6 or 7pm.
Saturdays off???? I used to dream about being off all weekend. Now I am and it does take some getting used to but guess what..................................... it just ain't that hard to do.
Setting at a computer reading all the crap that is written and I must admit some was mine, you fall pray to the trash trap. You tend to get so pissed of with people that know everything, insult, lie that you can't help responding. Then you realize you have just done what they have done. My apologies to all that I offended.
I am packed now. Just waiting on some legal issues to be complete and then there is an airplane at Orlando International Airport that will wisk me away from the fire line and political blaw blaw, alone with I wish I were in Colombia ,not with a "U", writings.
I have been here longer them most, I owe it to myself to enjoy Colombia in every way possible. I have a great family, good friends, now an income for the rest of my life and no worry about having to get a visa. I will stay in touch here with most of my friends and if there is any Truth about Medellin I can offer just ask. Hearsay is a lot like a FART you can smell it, but you just never see it. There is a lot of farting going on here now. Cheers to all

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Desi1 (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Sep 26, 2008, 14:21:

Sonny I wish you all the best with your retirement. Keep on posting and keep in touch,
Cheers,
Desi

A fronte praecipitium a tergo lupi

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Sonny says on Sep 26, 2008, 14:45:

Desi1
I have reached the rip old age that wine women and dance do not matter to much any more. Now I look at family, friends and sleep. I get up in the morning now and before I put my feet on the floor, I kick start my motor to insure it is running. I am lucky,however, I still have my hair, eyes, and teeth so I am not to bad off. Time now to just relax and enjoy and think about all these people that WANT to be where I am in a few weeks. Still getting up at 5am, going to work, going to lunch, coming home around 6pm. Eating dinner, watch some TV and then to bed doing the same old thing the next day. For all of you. I will think about you. >>>>> I P R O M I S E

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ujay says on Sep 26, 2008, 15:04:

wll you can get up at 5am ,you go to bed at 9pm ,and you old bugger you fall a sleep all afternoon.

http://www.jukelightning.com

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bufalo says on Sep 26, 2008, 17:19:

jejejeje

I do believe Sonny is my favorite lunatic. Tomtom33 said something like, "work is an illness that can be overcome". Do your best down there!

Let's see, income, eyes, teeth and hair!!!!! Colombianas will be all over you. You say that doesn't interest you anymore, but now that you'll be stress-free and be able to sleep and rest up good..... the scratchin and a-sniffin might start up again!

"If you don't like it - lump it, take it down the road and dump it." - Archie Bunker played by Carroll O'Connor

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Sonny says on Sep 26, 2008, 21:07:

bufalo,
I may kick start my engine each morning but it still starts. I do have a bit of a problem filling in the time I now have. Seems strange a bit but afternoon naps from say 11am till maybe 4pm sounds good. I never have been a wine drinker, I have a good woman and dancing is OK but with the same woman. That is what has made me happy. I enjoy you BUF and I look forward to reading your ideas and comments as usual. Your a good person

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bufalo says on Sep 27, 2008, 07:01:

Thanks!

Didn't know you had a partner - all the more enjoyment for the two of you down there. I stay with my sweetie too, makes life a lot less complicated (although she's a colombiana so always jealous anyway).

Get used to them afternoon naps for down there. It took me a while I always wanted to go out and about, but everyone else was sleeping. Then again Medellin is a bit more hustle.

Enjoy!

"If you don't like it - lump it, take it down the road and dump it." - Archie Bunker played by Carroll O'Connor

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