I have spent 2 hours looking for this question being answered and I can't find it, so here goes. I am an American who has traveled to Colombia many many times for the last 3 years, and I have friends throughout the country and in the embassy. One of my assistants has a
girlfriend that is 39 years old. She has always been nice to me, known her a year, and recently they came to me for a favor. Her dream is to live in Spain. They asked if I would go to the spanish or german embassy and say I was her girlfriend, show them my bank records and job status in the states so she could get a tourist visa. Then she would go to spain where she supposedly knows people and where there is some guy that will marry her so she can stay there. I normally would never even think twice about this, but she is a really good person, never had any money, and was taken advantage of by a number of people. I have seen more scam artists than I care to remember in Colombia, and the women there while incredible, are a lot more cunning than women here, so I know all the games, but she is just a friend and really has been a good person. How would anyone recommend helping her? I'd like to get her there, but I am a reputable person, who will soon have his Colombian residency, own an apartment, ect, so I am not going to do something that would screw things up, but I would still like to help her. No, she does not have any property, and only about 12 million pesos in the bank. Any advice would be appreciated. thanks
By Mike from Chicago on Jun 11, 2006, 12:14 in Visa & paperwork.
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tlop says on Jun 12, 2006, 14:34: I am very disreputable. Transfer me 3 million and then I´ll do you the favor.
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Crazy4Cali says on Jun 12, 2006, 17:48: Just say no. There is no up-side and all down-side to that transaction. Is this someone you would lie for and possibly go to jail for? If so why are you sending them off to marry someone else?
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Mike from Chicago says on Jun 12, 2006, 19:04: You are all right Folks, I already told them I was not going to do it, but
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jun 12, 2006, 19:47: I know some south american women who obtained a tourist visa to Spain rather easily, and just "happened" to overstay.....they work under the table, so to speak, and from what i have seen firsthand in Madrid, the south american "illegals" in Spain are treated much worse than the Mexican illegals in the US in almost every respect.... "I would rather die living life, than to live a dying life."........ Oh, and my PM is always ON. Great Bumper Sticker: "Home of the Free, Because of the Brave" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Gomezman5 says on Jun 12, 2006, 21:43: Mike from Chicago I am probably PBH's most well know Chicagoan. I have written all kinds of things on this site from time to time, much of which stirs things up. But I have to tell you, I have never written anything as utterly rediculous as what you are asking about.
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Mike from Chicago says on Jun 13, 2006, 19:42: Face value OK, for the final time, This was not my idea. They came to me with this idea. I had already told them I wouldn't do it.
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jun 13, 2006, 19:46: My friends in Madrid are from Ecuador and Colombia...they had a relatively easy time getting over to Spain.....why is your friend having such a hard time? "I would rather die living life, than to live a dying life."........ Oh, and my PM is always ON. Great Bumper Sticker: "Home of the Free, Because of the Brave" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jun 13, 2006, 19:49: But this part doesnt make any sense..... "They asked if I would go to the spanish or german embassy and say I was her girlfriend, show them my bank records and job status in the states so she could get a tourist visa. Then she would go to spain where she supposedly knows people and where there is some guy that will marry her so she can stay there." Have the guy who is suppose to marry her when she arrives get her over to Spain.... "I would rather die living life, than to live a dying life."........ Oh, and my PM is always ON. Great Bumper Sticker: "Home of the Free, Because of the Brave" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mike from Chicago says on Jun 13, 2006, 20:02: Exactly This is in fact exactly what I told them!
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Miguel_Clavo says on Jun 13, 2006, 20:07: I think they are trying to scam ya somehow.... Just my opinion... "I would rather die living life, than to live a dying life."........ Oh, and my PM is always ON. Great Bumper Sticker: "Home of the Free, Because of the Brave" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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FredGarvin says on Jun 13, 2006, 20:08: "They asked if I would go to the spanish or german embassy and say I was her girlfriend, show them my bank records and job status in the states so she could get a tourist visa."
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Mike from Chicago says on Jun 13, 2006, 20:20: Not the question The question is not "Would it be wrong, unethical, illegal, ect"
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FredGarvin says on Jun 13, 2006, 21:14: You could help her by researching her visa options,
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