Please help me regain my faith on Colombian men...

lpdiver says on Jul 31, 2005, 11:22:

There are good, bad and ugly in all nationalities. don't take any crap and keep looking. You prince is out there. On the bright side you found these things out before you got married and had a few children.

Tony

"cook some rice!"

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Peter Miami says on Jul 31, 2005, 12:37:

It was probably two rotten apples, forget about them and move forward you will eventually find someone good. This is easier said that done but it will happen.

Good luck,

Peter Miami

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kernow62 says on Jul 31, 2005, 13:10:

Stick to gringos!

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Lauthra says on Jul 31, 2005, 13:13:

LOL Kernow I must admit I have been lucky with Colombian men. I think they're players in all nationalities, some are just stupid enough to get caught...:P

Nato

(='.'=)

Nato (='.'=)

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DCShoeCo says on Jul 31, 2005, 13:55:

Lauthra, I think you nailed it, I think NA men are just better at keeping their mouths shut. Colombian men need to brag to feed their egos more, hence they get caught and have the bad rep. NA just quietly do their thing.

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Sylvie says on Jul 31, 2005, 14:08:

It's not just Colombians, trust me on that one. There are some good guys out there and maybe you've gotten unlucky. I have a few girlfriends that have been unlucky like you and its hard. I on the other hand have dated great guys and am still friends with all 3 of my exes. You just have to be careful about who you date because there is always a rotten apple somewhere.

On another note. You can't compare Italians to Colombians. Italian men are typically afraid to piss off their women. I think it stems from growing up with an Italian mother who threatens to hit you with a wooden spoon or a shoe every time she catches you doing/saying something wrong.

I find latinos are a bit more spoiled by their mothers and aren't as scared of women as much as italian guys are.

For those of you who will say I'm generalizing about italians take note that I am Italian and half of the italians in montreal and in italy are my family. I've seen it all. hehe :-P

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calipro says on Jul 31, 2005, 14:19:

Alejandrita1981 If you can't handle the colombianos here in the states, you better not head south.

Personally I think you should marry one of those colombianos. Have his children, divorce him, nail him for child support,alimony and take half of his assets.

In short I think you should turn him into a north american male that is to damn scared to cheat on his next wife. hehehe!!

I work with a married guy that had a hot chick at work after him for months. He finally broke down and went out with her. He told me that they went to bed and he couldn't get an erection thinking about how his wife would take him to the cleaners if she found out.

Do your duty girl! Beat those colombianos into submission.

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Alejandrita1981 says on Jul 31, 2005, 16:04:

Yeah... You guys are right....I guess that I had never ran into a bad apple until I met these two guys... :0(

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Crazy4Cali says on Jul 31, 2005, 17:13:

let me guess... ...you like men who are charming, suave, exciting in that sort-of "bad-boy" way. They come up to you, ever so confidently and sweep you off your feet with their charm and allure.

Of course, you're so enraptured by this attention that you don't notice his date in the background. The one he left to come talk to you.

Of course, you rationalize, they weren't meant to be, but YOU were! He needs to search no further, after all, he has found YOU!

(sound of reality crashing in...)

In reality, the bad-boys have a bad-boy reputation, well, because they are bad. If that's what you like, then put on your leathers and helmet and hang on for a wild ride. If not, say "thank you" for his attention and go look for someone a little more, um, stable (I know you are reading that as "boring" and you may be right). Let me guess again, the Italian, Asian and American weren't as exciting as the Colombians, right?!

I don't personally care what your taste in men is, just don't paint ALL men or even all Colombian men (in spite of their oft cited reputation) as bad because you happen to pick some bad ones. Men may be men, but they are all individuals. And if you like "bad boys," don't complain when they act "bad."

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ws244 says on Jul 31, 2005, 18:29:

liberated She has has been involved with 2 colombians, an american, italian, and an asian. Fortuneately for her however as time passes when her age shows her looks she can be assured the men will pass her by for the young good looking chiquitas.

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802MARK says on Jul 31, 2005, 19:51:

TO MANY WOMEN I AM AMERICA WITH A NEW CALI WIFE, AND I WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON HER FOR ANYTHING IN THE WORLD, BUT IN MY TRAVELS TO CALI I SEE SO MANY WOMEN THAT ARE LIKE MODELS, AND THEY WERE ALL VERY EASY TO GET THEM IN BED, THIS IS BEFORE I MET MY WIFE, EACH TIME I FOUND ONE THAT I THOUGHT WAS A 10 I WOULD TURN MY HEAD TO FIND ANOTHER THAT WAS A 10 AND A HALF, AND SO ON, I'M NOT SURE BUT I THINK THERE IS FAR MORE WOMEN THEN MEN IN COLOMBIA FOR ONE THING, AND THE BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH THE MEN IS THAT THE WOMEN PUT UP WITH A MAN HAVING A FEW WIFES PLUS A FEW GIRLFRIENDS JUST AS LONG AS HE CAN TAKE CARE OF EVERYONE. I DATED A LADY THAT WAS UPPER CLASS SHE AND HER FATHER WERE LAWYERS, AND HE HAD A FEW WIFES AND GIRLFRIENDS, AND IT WAS COOL WITH EVERYONE, SO WHEN THESE YOUNG MEN LIVE WITH THIS AND GROW UP LIKE THAT, THEY SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH IT, ALMOST A RIGHT OF PASSAGE FOR THEM TO BE WITH MANY WOMEN, THAT IS WHY THE YOUNGER LADIES IN CALI WANT AMERICAN MEN, THEY BELIEVE THAT WE ARE FAITHFUL, WE ARE NOT OF COURSE BUT MORE SO THEN COLOMBIAN MEN. YOU HAVE FOUND A FEW BAD APPLES THAT IS FOR SURE BUT YOUR LOOKING FOR A GOOD ONE IN A BARREL OF ALL BAD ONES. JUST MY TWO DIMES WORTH....

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Alejandrita1981 says on Jul 31, 2005, 20:11:

Crazy for Cali Actually...I don't like bad boys...and these guys did not have the bad boy look at all...believe me. They had the attitude of being very hard working, family oriented, good moral, loving and caring individuals...that's why I never saw it coming. I guess that growing up in a household where both my parents were Colombian...and my father never cheated or disrespected my mother...and were they love each other still after 28 years of marriage...I think this made me naive to the possibility of running into a low life.

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calipro says on Jul 31, 2005, 21:28:

802MARK Two dimes worth? More like a hundred dollar bill.

You know the hundred dollar bill that you had taped to your forehead to get Caleñas to notice you in the first place. hehehe !!

So tell us Mark, just what kind of a social degenerate has to go all the way to Cali to find himself (I mean take advantage of) a Caleña wife. Just how socially handicaped are you to have to go to an impoverished foreign country to find a wife when there are plenty of available american women.

It just makes me sick to listen to you bragging about banging 10 after 10 in Cali.

I hope you didn't really buy that story about how they are sick of colombianos. Those caleñas were with you because they want your money and or a green card. According to some they were all raised by their mothers to be userous whores.

Let's face facts Mark. You didn't suddenly turn into Tom Cruise overnight so why do you think a hot little Caleñas married you? It's not rocket science. She is using you and she will dump your dumb gringo ass as soon as she gets her green card. LOL !!

That's the bad news.

The good news is....well...I probably don't have to tell you since you are already married to a Caleña. They are some of the most enjoyable, hottest women you will ever get in the sack so enjoy it while you can;-)

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Lucia Rojas says on Jul 31, 2005, 21:40:

Italians put me through rough times. So I would say, like other have, that there are bad apples all over the world. Not all colombianos cheat,not all colombianos are players... but I have to admit that when I hear my male friends back home tell stories about what they do to women, I cringe.

many blame it on the type of girl, she is... like the women push them to do it... and I have to admit also, that some of the girls are pretty crazy too. Really unbalanced and obsessive.... so they play with them.

i'm not justifying any of this behaviour; merely stating hte fact about this freinds of mine and what they say.

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Gomezman5 says on Jul 31, 2005, 22:18:

802MARK Since when is polygamy legal in Col?

"AND HE HAD A FEW WIFES AND GIRLFRIENDS,...."

802MARK

I like the above quote. You make it sound as if polygan]my is live and well in Colombia. You are so matter of fact about it all......Your funny

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utopiacowboy says on Jul 31, 2005, 22:20:

Hey, one of the brothers of my wife's dead husband is married to his own aunt so who knows what's possible.

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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andresmo169 says on Jul 31, 2005, 22:35:

Paisitas Oís I don't think that all men are created equal, you might have ran into a bad situation with our previous men, next time you need to run a background check, credit report, etc, etc, I'm just kidding, but you'll find the right guy out there, hopefully sooner than later.
......(¯¯¯____/¯¯___________
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No me le pegue al perro!!

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bkelly says on Aug 1, 2005, 00:25:

It is all men When I first arrived in Colombia, I heard a lot of bashing of the Colombian men. After being here awhile, I have to agree with what has been said above. Perhaps the Colombian men brag a bit more and get caught more often. Unfortunately I have seen the gringos, canadians and every other nationality do the exact same thing. I even see it when I am back home. Fidelity is a worldwide problem with both men and women. The good guys and gals are out there though!

--bkelly

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elmodefoque says on Aug 1, 2005, 04:35:

i'll help you regain your faith in colombian men.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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Crazy4Cali says on Aug 1, 2005, 07:58:

OK, I stand corrected... But if your "handle" is an indication of your age (i.e. 24) then I'd say that's part of the problem assuming the men you're dating are of similar vintage. No offense to you, but men at 20-30 aren't a very stable lot (even the ones who think they are). They may say they are to get some of el chiquito, but what they say doesn't change what they are.

Unfortunately, for whatever reason, women in the 20-30 (though, in reality, it is probably more like the 15-80) demographic seem to want to have a steady boyfriend or husband. Men, being the dogs they are, know this and play into it for as much as they can.

Don't give up on men, just don't put too much hope in finding a reliable one in that demographic.

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Alejandrita1981 says on Aug 1, 2005, 08:50:

Older Men This time I agree with you Crazy4Cali....I think that is definitley true than women mature faster than men...and in the most part...are more stable...I had a friend that was my age and dated a guy that was 18 years older than her...and they seemed like a very happy couple.

Alejandrita

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ElCheAmericano says on Aug 1, 2005, 09:02:

Have you evere tried Argentine The other white meat. But seriously you'll do just fine, I'm sure a nice looking girl like yourself has options. I use to have the worst luck with woman, I could have sworn I was a bitch magnet, they would fly to me like flies on shit. But things have changed thank God, althougth she's in Colombia it's still well worth it. Good Luck.

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elmodefoque says on Aug 1, 2005, 09:27:

Old modefoques make better husbands/boyfriends. You know we already got one foot in the grave and soon that 401k and social security will be handed to you to enjoy with your brand new cheating young boyfriend. Another thing, old modefouqes don’t cheat and is not because they don’t want to, most of us can’t find a broad crazy enough to wanna jump in the sack with us for the hell of it. What woman in her right mind wanna see my naked ass with my dried up ashy bony behind.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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calipro says on Aug 1, 2005, 10:28:

Joke for Elmo There was a female cultural anthorpoligist studying some indians somewhere in Colombia.

She asked the first indian "Why do you wear one feather in your hair".

The indian answers "Me fuck'em one squaw".

She asked the second indian "Why do you wear three feathers?"

The second indian replies "Me fuck'em three squaw".

Then she asked the chief who had hundreds of feathers. "And why do you have all those feathers?"

The cheif answers "Me fuck'em everything!"

The female anthropologist says "HO DEAR!"

The chief says "NO DEAR!" Ass to high! Run to Swift!

The indians obviously weren't elmodefoques. hehehe !!!

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elmodefoque says on Aug 1, 2005, 11:49:

jijii you gotta knock that modefoque (deer) out with a 2 x4 first and then you do your thing.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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OO7 says on Aug 1, 2005, 12:21:

I'm afraid everyone here has missed the diagnosis. Alejandrita is the "player" here since, according to her, in the past three years she has been involved with two colombian guys that really put her thru some hard times.

I think if she had dated one Colombian guy, instead of two at a time, we wouldn't be discussing this here. And it goes to prove my point that more often than not, women are the unfaithful ones in the first place, but somehow men (for some reason specially Colombian men) come out as being mujeriogos. So, my advise is that Alejandrita sticks to one man and maybe then she will find love.

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Crazy Eagle says on Aug 1, 2005, 12:27:

the other white meat? Argentinos? Har!

Good one, Elcho! But I thought we Canucks were "the other white meat."

"Where races mix, there's the source of great cultures." Frederich Nietzsche

"The natural rhythm of life is routine punctuated by orgy" Aldous Huxley

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ElCheAmericano says on Aug 1, 2005, 12:37:

Interenting observation 007 That one went right over my head, I didnt make the assuption that she could be seeing them both at the same time.

Hey Crazy Eagle who's Elcho, quit fucking up my name up, people make start to confuse me for an old oriental hooker. As far as white meat goes, I have no problems sharing the title with the canucks. eehhhhhhh

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Alejandrita1981 says on Aug 1, 2005, 19:50:

007 or 000? I definitley think that you should name yourself 000 because your detective techniques are trully pitifull. What makes you think that I was with both of them at the same time? Have you ever thought about the idea that maybe...and really think about this possibility...just maybe I could have gone out with one for let's say 7 months and the other 1year for example? Maybe that idea is to hard to grasp...but I'm sure that if you take a minute to sit down and think about it...you might understand...I would draw you a picture...but as you may notice-that's impossible...GOOD LUCK!

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Andy-NY says on Aug 1, 2005, 20:26:

You go girl.............. Andrew-NY

Andrew-NY

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utopiacowboy says on Aug 1, 2005, 20:39:

Damm, you weren't doing 'em both at the same time? OK, so our imaginations run a little wild.

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caslug says on Aug 1, 2005, 22:08:

Infidelity.. I found almost ALL of the amigas in COL i´ve talked know that it exist, they definitely DONT like it, and they would drop the guy if they can. I theorize the reason is the following:

1) abundance of hot looking women
2) sexist society
3) poverty(in conjuntion with sexist society leads to men getting
better paying job than women. Hence, lots of hot women, with smaller amount of men with money.
4) legalize prostitution, if you get bored with your wife of 7 yrs(7 yr itch) you can easily and cheaply try another for couple of hours.

BUT in US, it´s lots more work, hassle and expensive to cheat..

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caslug says on Aug 1, 2005, 22:09:

double post nt

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Crazy4Cali says on Aug 1, 2005, 22:40:

so the do it... ...because they can.

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Crazy4Cali says on Aug 1, 2005, 22:41:

echo....

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Gomezman5 says on Aug 1, 2005, 23:09:

Caslug.....I think you are right on the $$ I think you have made some accurate observations....

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viewpoint says on Aug 2, 2005, 05:10:

All men are dogs !!! It doesn't matter what their nationality is !!! I know because almost all of the women in my life told me so !!! jaja

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utopiacowboy says on Aug 2, 2005, 08:31:

Woof! Woof!

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Alejandrita1981 says on Aug 2, 2005, 08:39:

It takes a real man.. In my opinion it takes a REAL man to be faitfull. It takes a REAL man to go against what all the other men are doing and to be true and transparent with the woman that he has at home. A WEAK man will go after the first woman that will spread her legs....and it takes a DOG to do it more than once. If a man (or a woman) is not happy with the person that they are with and want to try something else...then why don't they ended it and them go out and look for something else?....and by doing this ...they at least respect the other person and also keep them from getting hurt?

Alejandrita1981

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elmodefoque says on Aug 2, 2005, 09:04:

pelaita, you have openned my eyes and I now see the real me. I’m a weak, less than a man old modefoque and not proud of it. I’m married to a girl, 20 years younger , but I still yearn for a 19 year old maybe 18, to be honest anything that’s willing to spread her legs for me. Are we (men) all dogs with no control, wild animals lower than a snake? I should be happy to have someone so young not throw up when she sees my naked body, sometime I accidentally take a look at myself and begin to gag, but not this lovely young girl, she sees me with her heart and not her eyes.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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elmodefoque says on Aug 2, 2005, 09:20:

jijiji, i could go for an 18 year old hooker right now. shit, now that i think about it, the last time i had a hooker was in 1998, i'm way due for one.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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Crazy4Cali says on Aug 2, 2005, 09:29:

it works both ways Sure it takes a "real" man to stay faithful, just like it takes a "real" woman to keep him interested.

Where I've seen things start to fall apart is when one or the other feels they are entitled to something from their partner and don't feel they need to do anything to get it (or worse, they already feel like they are doing "everything" in the relationship and can't give any more).

Why don't people just up and leave? Well that tends to piss the other person off and cause them to call in the lawyers. Sure it'd be nice if two people could amicably say "you know this isn't working and we should split up" but when you have kids, mortgage and a 401(k) involved, it starts to get a little messy. So rather than cause a big scene, some people just try to get what they are missing somewhere else, hoping to fill the gap and get by with the rest of the relationship (i.e. the house, the kids, etc.)

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Sylvie says on Aug 2, 2005, 10:11:

*"If a man (or a woman) is not happy with the person that they are with and want to try something else...then why don't they ended it and them go out and look for something else?"*

Because they are PUSSIES. They dont want to leave teh woman that they're all comfortable with...the woman who takes car of them, feeds them, makes them feel special. Why would they want to leave that?! Guys who cheat are pussies.

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quindioman says on Aug 2, 2005, 10:14:

pussies? I get told i'm a pussy and a fag for NOT cheating......

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ElCheAmericano says on Aug 2, 2005, 10:23:

I must agree, Sylvie's right One of my best friends lived with his girlfriend for 5 years and cheated on her almost the entire time. In my opinion he stayed an extra 3 years because he was a pussy and like Sylvie pointed it, he was comfortable. Personally I could never do that, I can't live my life lying constantly and feeling guilty. Maybe I'm a different type of pussy but I rather just end the relationship if I have doubts that I want to be with that person or if I have thoughts of being with someone else.

Cockney, obviously its your male friends that call you a pussy or a fag for not cheating. I get the same shit, but if your happy with the person your with there's no need to look elsewhere.

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Crazy4Cali says on Aug 2, 2005, 12:09:

Men just can't win... you're a pussy if you do and you're a pussy if you don't. And if the man cheats it's his fault, if the woman cheats it's the man's fault. (oh, I forgot, only men cheat).

It reminds me of the when you are sitting in traffic, the light turns green and the first car doesn't go. So the second car honks. Who is the "rude" driver? the one who isn't moving or the one who honks?

In a relationship rarely can you point the finger at just one person, cheater or otherwise. If someone is cheating in the relationship who is worse: the cheater or the one who stays in a bad relationship with a cheater? I'd say they both need help.

Like they asked, why does a cheater stay in the relationship? you could ask why does someone stay in a relationship with a cheater? The door is open for both.

Mind you, I'm not trying to justify disfunctional behavior, just pointing out that both people in the relationship share responsibility for a) staying in it and b) contributing to the overall environment, for better and for worse.

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ontheRiZe says on Aug 2, 2005, 12:18:

hold on Short and simple. Nowadays women are just as bad as men when it comes to fidelity or the lack thereof. Men are expected to cheat, in fact, maybe as much as 5/6 out of every 10 boyfriends/husbands cheat on thier women at one point or another(guesimation). But that has been going on for ages. Recently women have been playin the same game. I've heard crazy stories straight from the source. Women cheat out of spite. To get back at their husbands, boyfriends. Men cheat because it is in our basic instinct to conquer the female speices. I am not sayin all men cheat. Some of us are able to check our basic instincts.
NARj.

NARj.

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ElCheAmericano says on Aug 2, 2005, 12:35:

Obviously A person who stays in a relationship with someone they know is cheating has serious issues. Its a different story if the person doesnt know there significant other is cheating on them.

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utopiacowboy says on Aug 2, 2005, 14:02:

So we're pussies? And dogs who just want pussy? Wow, I guess that makes us pussies who want pussy.

Nice pic, Alejandrita1981.

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Alejandrita1981 says on Aug 2, 2005, 14:48:

OK OK Let's include women in this too...I admitt women can be cheaters too...some women think that if their husband/boyfriend cheats on them...that it is ok to cheat back...and it's not...but I think that women now a days are more liberal...they don't just stay home and wait for their husbands to cheat...I think some of them actually go out and cheat first. Some women don't have a serious boyfriend because they don't want to wake up to the same person every night...It is hard to generalize a certain gender with a certain behavior....every one is different I guess....Thanx for the compliment Utopiacowboy.

Alejandrita

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bondjames says on Aug 2, 2005, 18:12:

Let me tell you, the guys would'nt cheat if the women were not so damn willing to cheat with them. Come on. Some women are bigger dogs than men. But they keep quiet about the whole thing and women are much better liars than men. If there were ever paternity test done in SA I bet you there would be a lot of men suprised that the kid ain't theirs.

Women act like they are so innocent. Yet they do not trust another women to be around their boyfriends or husbands for 2 seconds. Why? Cause women know other women and as much as they try to act like most women are faithful a girl knows leaving her husband or boyfriend alone with her good looking friend most likely will end in some sort of compromising positions cause women like to fool arund as much as men.

If women were so ethical why is it they do not trust each other??? Men could'nt cheat if women did'nt make it so damn easy. As for the myth there are more men then women and therefore more oppurtunity for men to do it, it is just a myth.

It always cracks me up to watch these talk shows that have paternity test where women swear a certain man is their baby's father because HE is the only one they had sex with. Those women are so convincing it is incredible. Hollywood should really look for their award winning talent there.Then the bomb drops and the truth is revealed he is not. Then confession time comes and they swear they only cheated that ONE time and then try to blame the husband or boyfriend for them cheating. They tell him it is because HE is not paying enough attention to her. The really good ones are the ones that have to bring 3-10 guys in for paternity test. Each time the woman swearing up and down this guy(#2-10) is the father cause they have thought of everyone they slept with. Well, you know the rest. Their amnesia seems to evaporate when it is found out guy # 3,4, ect is NOT THE FATHER Then they caugh up another name. I think women just like to FORGET when they cheat! Selective amnesia

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Alejandrita1981 says on Aug 2, 2005, 18:32:

Roofus & BondJames Thank you for the compliment =0)....BondJames...you are right also ...it takes two people to cheat, because as far as i know..masturbation is not cheating...but the one that has the RESPONSABILITY to be faithfull is not the women's best friend or the other woman( although she should have enough respect as to stay away from her friend's man or someone elses man) but the responsability is the boyfriend/husband's...because he is the one that is in the commitment...when my boyfriend cheated on me...I confronted him first...then I went to the other woman and told her that I was not about to fight with her over a no good man...but that i did wish that she would have told me that she wanted him...that way I wouldn't have waisted my precious time on the bastard...and I would have also gift wrapped him for her( since this happened around christmas time) I was angry at both of them...at her for lying about the whole thing ...afraid that my uncle would not give her the visa...and at him for lying and not being man enough to confront the situation...not to mention for putting me at risk of contracting some STD since I found out that the other woman was also sleeping round with other men ...other than him...sometimes people don't understand that when they sleep with someone that is premiscous (like a whore...or another sexually active person)..they are not only cheating on their boyfriend/girlfriend...they are not only putting themselves at risk of contracting something...but also their loved one...who loves them and is there for them whenever they go home...of contracting an STD as well...Is that fair?

Alejandrita1981

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Dan says on Aug 2, 2005, 18:58:

nope not fair at all. It's all about stupid people. They don't have any common sense to realize how their own actions can effect those around them. (Nice pic by the way)

God Bless America!

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vicshere says on Aug 2, 2005, 19:04:

any man
stupid enough to cheat on this girl should be hung by his balls until they rip off....there is plenty of other good men out there dont worry...not me i am taken hehehee


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cali373 says on Aug 2, 2005, 20:53:

Well I am Colombian and have kept in contact with all my ex's that meant something. If they hated me I do not think they prefer to be friends.

Smile if you are a thinker!

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Colombiche says on Aug 2, 2005, 21:10:

Hey girl Listen, you don't need to regain your faith in colombian men. You don't need to regain your faith in men at all for that matter. People don't deserve your faith or trust until they prove worthy of it. Those stumbling blocks are things you went through are lessons you learned. Sure it hurt when it happened, but now you probably know better what kind of men not to look for. There is a lot of scum out there and now after being exposed to a couple of ejemplares, you can distinguish them faster before you fall for them.

There are many nice guys out there. Now you know what not to look for. Tell tale sign #1 is the shit-talker that will tell you he will die for you, he will be with you forever, you are like the moon and the stars.. blah blah. Nice guys usually don't come in with all that riff raff. Tell tale sign #2 is the guy that seems too good to be true. Just remember there are no saints walking the earth, if a guy seems to be one, he is just putting on an act. And oh, will you be in for a surprise when you find out what his hidden agenda is.

Give the nice guys a chance too. Not the ones that are pretending to be saints, but rather the down to earth, average kind hearted guy who has an IQ in the positive range. Sure they might not make you feel like you are walking on the edge, but trust me, you will suffer less too. The problem with us girls is that we love walking on the edge. We love that feeling of danger. We love to take a bad boy and try to convert him.

Look inside yourself. We unknowingly send out signals of what we are looking for. Other people pick these signals up....Some of these things are so embedded in your subconcious that you don't even know you are looking for them. We just attract what we need.

Good luck!

No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy)

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RCYC says on Aug 21, 2005, 14:56:

What's the conclusion? Hey, then can anyone tell me (in general) are most Columbian men players?

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poco says on Aug 21, 2005, 15:17:

Theory Substantiated Hey, then can anyone tell me (in general) are most Columbian men players?

Proof positive that it takes more than ten minutes to learn the spelling of Colombia.

"When you men get home and face an anti-war protester, look him in the eyes and shake his hand. Then, wink at his girlfriend, because she knows she's dating a pussy." Quote - General Tommy Franks

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utopiacowboy says on Aug 21, 2005, 15:29:

I don't know whether the men in the District of Columbia are players. I guess some are and some aren't.

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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Crazy Eagle says on Aug 21, 2005, 16:09:

Alej, stick to older guys Words of wisdom. I read a study a few years ago. It tried to determine the relationship between the relative ages of married people and the frequency of divorce.

It found that when the woman was younger than the man, the frequency of divorce fell, but only up to a point. The 'ideal' age difference turned out to be 7 years. In other words, this was the group with the lowest frequency of divorce.

Find an older guy that looks after himself and likes to do a lot of the things you also like to do. Chances are, he will treat you like a princess.

"Let there be spaces in your togetherness" Kahil Gibran

"The natural rhythm of life is routine punctuated by orgy" Aldous Huxley

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