The title of this thread means "neither chicha nor lemonade" for those who don't read Spanish. (Chicha is an alcoholic beverage made of fermented corn)
This is a question intended mainly for you young people (teens, twenties) uprooted from your country at a tender age and who reached the adulthood in the new countries of your residence. I was thinking of people like colombiche, but also children of Colombian parents born in the new country like adrimm and I'm sure there are many more here.
Have you always spoken Spanish with your Colombian parent/parents? How's your Spanish right now? Do you travel back to Colombia frequently? Do you listen to Colombian music? Do you dance salsa, cumbia, vallenato? How do you feel about being Colombian (of Colombian ancestry)?
This is not a poll. I am asking these questions because I've had very difficult time trying to transmit some sense of Colombian culture to my own children. They do speak Spanish (with an effort and with a limited vocabulary) and love Colombian food but would rather be dead than caught listening to vallenatos or cumbias (well, my son thinks old-school salsa and traditional cumbias are ok). They call Carlos Vives' music "crazy accordeon music" and Juanes "lame".
I'd love to hear about your own feelings about the double cultural identity.
Cheers,
Desi
By Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) on Aug 20, 2005, 02:43 in Friendly Talkzone.
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quindioman says on Aug 20, 2005, 03:04: nice post Desi...I think i fit the criteria for a response.
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quindioman says on Aug 20, 2005, 03:15: desi have your kids ever been to Colombia..?
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 20, 2005, 03:48: sugar'n spice:) quindioman, it was your previous post that I thought of when I started this one so of course, you fit perfectly the description. One question: are both of your parents Colombian-born? Do you think it makes a difference? "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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quindioman says on Aug 20, 2005, 06:55: desi all my parents are colombian. My bilogical dad (RIP) played away from home with my mum and I was the result...hell even my (step)dad is Colombian as well, not from Armenia but from Calarca, Quindio.
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 20, 2005, 08:14: I've been trying to get my kids to read Garcia Marquez (in any language) but I don't think they read a lot of books. Most kids/young adults here read almost nothing nowadays. It's the PC, music/clubbing scene, films on DVD and such that keep them busy. We did watch María Full of Grace together at my daughter's initiative; had it come from me I doubt they'd been interested. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 20, 2005, 09:38: Kids are idiots, Desi. I love them and I enjoy being around them but there's a lot of stuff that flies right over their heads. I think eventually they'll come around but it may take some time. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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genove says on Aug 20, 2005, 09:56: no need to try Desi - genove 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 20, 2005, 10:26: I've been doing that I've been directing them to Colombian/Latin web sites, but they don't always even bother to check them out. I've had my son sit here in front of my computer reading this forum together with me and ponting out that there are lots of young people around his age who read and participate in these discussions and he thought this was great but did he ever visit the site again...not. He laughed his head off for elmo's outrageous posts but he doesn't feel the sense of belonging. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Colombiche says on Aug 20, 2005, 12:00: My Experience.. My parents are both Colombian. We moved to Canada at the age of 10, my sister was 7. No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 20, 2005, 12:28: thank you, Colombiche for answering my call; no, you didn't bore me at all, this is just the kind of stuff I wanted to know. Obviously there are just too many variables here to make a rule about how well the bi-cultural heritage may be carried on by the second generation. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 20, 2005, 12:30: Keep on jousting, Dona Quixote! Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Colombiche says on Aug 20, 2005, 13:02: In the case of your children I guess the greatest challenges to keeping a colombian idetity are the following: No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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adrimm (☼Travelguide writer) says on Aug 20, 2005, 13:35: Great post Desi!
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 20, 2005, 14:29: adri, thank you for all the insight you've given me in your open-hearted reply. I'd imagine that my children find themselves pretty much in the same dilemma as you do about the split identity. I asked my son once (he was studying in London at the time) what does he say when people ask him where he's from. He said "In one long sentence, without even breathing I say: I was born in Colombia of a Colombian father and a Finnish mother, I have lived and gone to school in the States and in Sweden, I'm a dual citizen of Colombia and Sweden and now I'm a Londoner". "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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adrimm (☼Travelguide writer) says on Aug 20, 2005, 14:46: Yep I wonder if it is much different for them.. maybe more difficult becuase it more internal/subtle?
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Mr. Hollywood says on Aug 20, 2005, 15:13: Great I think it's great that you're so interested in maintaining your kids' connection to their birthplace. They'll come around to it eventually.
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coloradoc says on Aug 21, 2005, 01:47: I Feel You Wow, this hits so close to him. I am a 24 colombian born, american raised, navy enlisted male living in Greece. Here are some answers to your questions. And by the way thank you for asking them.
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 21, 2005, 06:04: good post, coloradoc As a second-generation Colombian with both parents Colombian you have the latino joie d'vivre in your genes and had the benefit of growing up in a community where the latino traditions and customs were not a novelty but rather the norm. Treat yourself a holiday of a month or two in Colombia; you'd enjoy it. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 21, 2005, 06:05: UC and Hollywood, thanks for the encouragement. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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kernow62 says on Aug 21, 2005, 08:41: Very good thread Desi. As I am not Colombian I will just offer a few tips, take them for what they are, just possible suggestions.
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 21, 2005, 10:36: Gee, kernow I'm a little embarrassed but I don't even know what my son listens to any longer. He has been into bass'n drums (???I think, something like that), techno, all kinds of weird avant-garde stuff that doesn't sound like music to me at all. He says he never listens to the lyrics, it's the rythm that matters...my daughter is more rock'n roll (one of her favorites is Joan Osbourne). Her boyfriend plays in a death metal band called Pandemonic (they have been playing forever, but have only released a couple of demos). In spite of all that scary imagery they are not demon worshippers or anything like that, such a bunch of old-school heavy metal guys with long hair. Go figure out. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 21, 2005, 10:53: yeah, I tried that tinto didn't work. He said he was not a neanderthal. That he wasn't interested in silicones or mafia princesses or shallow women, not his type. He likes strong, fiery, intelligent women (especially readheads), believes in equality and liberated women. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Estefania says on Aug 22, 2005, 07:35: My parents are both from Barranquilla, and came to New York about 25 yrs ago and im 21. In my house it was a MUST to speak Spanish at home. I think spainsh speaking parents that dont make there children speak spanish are doing a wrong to there children. KNowing more than one language is an advantage and this is something parents should teahc to htier children even if they dont want to. I remember when i was younger..my mom used to tell us " espanol en la casa", "Ingles en el colegio" , and thats how it was. If we ever spoke to my mom in english she would yell at us.
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 22, 2005, 08:15: You would not believe the number of people in San Antonio who can speak Spanish but their children cannot. In fact I don't know any Latinos here whose children CAN speak Spanish. They are not doing them any favors that's for sure. Meanwhile my youngest stepchild, now in the 5th grade, has been officially declared bilingual. She wants to move on to French and Italian now. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Aug 22, 2005, 09:20: yes, utopia that's something I noticed when I was teaching school in USA. Not San Antonio, but Chicago and in Florida I met an amazingly large number of children with names like Carmen Rodriguez, 7 years of age or Carlos Garcia, 6 years of age and no word of Spanish would come out of their little mouths. They didn't understand a word of Spanish! It made me upset to think that a Latino child would grow up with a total lack of cultural identity: it's the language more than anything else that carries on the cultural inheritance, identity and tradition. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Colombiche says on Aug 22, 2005, 10:16: I see a lot of Latino Children Here in Canada That don't speak Spanish. They look Latino, their last names are Perez, Gomez, Rodriguez and they speak no Spanish. My friend's daughter is 6 yrs old and does not speak a word of Spanish, eventhough she has 100% Guatemalan blood. I think that is a shame. The day I have children, if they are born here in North America, they will hear nothing but Spanish from me. They will pick up Engish at school like sponges, kids are sponges, they learn too fast. Nowadays, there is nothing fancy about being bilingual, I am so ashamed of only being fluent in Spanish and English, I am studying Portuguese as I speak. No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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marcos66 says on Aug 22, 2005, 10:21: Colombia en Toronto Hi Colombiche;
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platano says on Aug 22, 2005, 12:35: UTC, A Joke for you Two Iranians meet in Miami. One starts to greet the other in Farsi, the language of their native country. The other Iranian waved him away contemptuously and said, 'We're in America now. Speak Spanish!'
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Colombiche says on Aug 22, 2005, 13:12: Hello Marcos My personal favourite is Arrieros on 276 JANE ST, North of Bloor street. The food is good and the prices are great. There is also a BAkery called Columbus bakery, on Dufferin a few block south of Lawrence, amazing colombian food, mostly baked goods and chorizos and arepas, patacones....to go. A few more places: No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Colombiche says on Aug 22, 2005, 13:15: There is also a Peruvian Restaurant Called El Bodegon, on College and Euclid, it is a must go. Delicious food. No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 22, 2005, 13:55: Now that was amusing, Platano. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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marcos66 says on Aug 24, 2005, 06:43: Thanks Colombiche Thanks so much I look forward to enjoying every bite!
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Jan 19, 2007, 00:39: More about chicha..does anybody else but me like that stuff? GOLD OF THE AQLLAKUNA "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Monpirri says on Jan 19, 2007, 17:26: chicha is a good drink I do! I like chicha but chicha colombiana because I have tried chicha mora from Peru and it tastes almost like a fruit drink. The life spam of a taste bud is ten days 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Jan 19, 2007, 17:33: I think champus "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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billyb says on Jan 19, 2007, 19:35: I've drunk chicha and it tasted like crap.... but the again, I was just a kid and maybe my, now, more sofisticated taste buds might enjoy it.
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Monpirri says on Jan 20, 2007, 03:58: Desi "I think champus that popular fruit drink in Cali is basically the same thing, but fruitier and not fermented." The life spam of a taste bud is ten days 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Jan 20, 2007, 06:50: yes, I know it's not the same thing, it's just that they have basically the same ingredients, corn, a fruit or two and added sugar in form of melao or panela. Chicha is fermented and has a bit of a sour taste while its "cousin" champus is more acid (all that wonderful lulo in it!) "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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