First off I want to say that I am not insinuating anything by saying what happened to my friend. Yes, I know that this can happen anywhere and says nothing about the country itself.
But my friend is in a horrible situation and I dont know what to do to help her because I dont know exactly what it is like down there.
She went down to Colombia about 3 weeks ago to meet up with some guy that she met who was vacationing in LA who lives down there. I know it was stupid of her, she didn't really know him that well but I guess she was bored and wanted some excitement. Anyways, he and his friends took advantage of her, ALL of her identification was stolen as well as her money, (she didnt even go down under her own name) and right now she is staying with a kind lady that she met but she doesnt know how long she is welcome there. She's already talked to someone at the US embassy there, it doesnt sound like there is anything they can do or anything that she wants them to do... She'd get into trouble for going down there as someone else anyways, so it's a lose-lose situation all the way around. She's really scared and I would send her some money as well, but without ID, how is she going to claim it?
She is 24 yrs old, doesnt have much of a family here, so Im pretty much it as for people in the US to depend on. Is there anything I can do to help?
By Hollyjolly on May 5, 2004, 12:28 in Friendly Talkzone.
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Peter (Moderator) (Trustee board) (Dev team) (☼Travelguide writer) says on May 5, 2004, 13:25: Sending money Yes, sending money to the lady sounds like a good idea, if your friend thinks she can be trusted. Which city is she in? Maybe she can get in touch with someone reliable through this forum. If she is in one of the big cities, you might be able to send money through one of the reputable hostals. Poor but snappy 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Hollyjolly says on May 5, 2004, 13:35: The only family she has are her younger brother and sister who cant do anything to help her. Ill send her money to the lady, thats a good idea. And thats the least of our worries right now I guess. I dont know why she went down there under a different name, she is into a lot of shady things and I dont ask her for details. She is adamant about not doing anything to get her in trouble. She's trying to find a way to be smuggled into the US or Mexico. She is in Bogota right now.
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vladimiro says on May 5, 2004, 18:46: Call The US Embassy Again If she used a fake passport she was probably concerned about the pre-existing legal ramifications of traveling on her real passport. Its sounds like she's too scared to deal with the US Embassy. She should relax because nobody knows she entered illegally and she should still be able to get her passport from the US Embassy even in the event that she has a warrant out for something in the US.
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jemsec says on May 6, 2004, 10:13: your friend is "stuck" Please log on to www.jemsec.com for advice, or mail me direct at dave at jemsec.com.
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robertdelred says on May 9, 2004, 02:06: Small town border crossings Vladimiro, I have a colombian friend who has some similar interests to get to the U.S., however lacking the necessary visa. You bring up an interesting point and would like to ask you some follow-up questions. Lets say, as in the example that you responded to . . that an individual made a small town crossing into ecuador . . what would be the next steps to . ...let's say get to Mexico. Would they just get on a plane from ecuador and fly directly to Mexico ? What about a visa, wouldn't a visa be required? Could you please help me understant how the individual would proceed, once in Ecuador? Your help would be greatly appreciated. Robert xp16 at juno.com (In case you are interested in responding more directly to me.
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Bogart45 says on May 9, 2004, 12:15: Money This whole story sounds bogus, but you can send money by:
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vladimiro says on May 9, 2004, 21:37: rebertdelred,
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robertdelred says on May 9, 2004, 22:16: Vladimiros, thanks for the suggestion Will take all options under consideration .. . . any other suggestions?
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Mr. Hollywood says on May 10, 2004, 10:50: Sounds fishy My two bits is that this whole story sounds fishy. Have you ever considered the possibility that your friend is scamming you? Either willingly or under duress?
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on May 10, 2004, 11:48: There's more to this story than what we are being let on...and some really powerful reason why your friend can't turn to the US Embassy for help and repatriating. Unless this is some kind of scam, and the "nice lady" who's taking care of this poor gringa in trouble doesn't happen to be her boyfriend...and the original poster is being asked to send money...I don't know, but this is reading more and more like a mystery. "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mr. Hollywood says on May 10, 2004, 12:47: What she said Exactly. There's no reason that a gringa, even one who entered Colombia illegally, couldn't just throw herself at the mercy of the embassy and come out fine. All she has to do is go there and say, "I entered Colombia illegally and need help going home." The US Department of State isn't in the business of enforcing Colombian immigration laws.
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p0gue says on May 11, 2004, 14:47: bullsh**
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robertdelred says on May 12, 2004, 17:58: "THANK YOU" . . Pogue !! Yours is the most intelligent response yet .. I for one thank you very much for your response .. .postive response. Rather than dwelling on trying to figure out all the nuances of why the individual is requesting assistance .. you provide a breath of fresh air and intelligence to this individual. "What is this site good for if it can't provide some positive suggestions. . . .I for one am "amused" at the people who provide responses by calling other people "stupid", then go on to show there total ignorance. For one, there are many reasons why individuals may not want to announce all the details of there situation(s) for all the public to view. I for one have been one of those individuals, and on follow up by providing my e-mail, have received tremendous, positive and extremely helpful information. After all . . ..isn't that what this site is about?
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Jlove says on May 17, 2004, 11:09: Yeah you will receive your share of stupid comments. Honestly she could have been robed for her identification also. Actually she has had it happen a couple of time. girls are easy targets and will be robbed fast. It is easiest to send the money to the family she is living with. Go on the internet and file for her passport overnight. Fed ex it to her and send her the plane ticket. have her report the other passport stolen. The will question her but she should eb able to return with no problem
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ajayque says on May 24, 2004, 06:59: Watch out I am from cartagena, I live in USA rigth now. Dont ever think on going to the marinas and try to get aboard a yatch that is going out anywhere, specially USA. Favorite spot for drugdealers to send drug abroad. Marinas aja y que? 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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