I have been reading several threads on this site and some people have said one thing they like about Colombia is that Colombians are not materialistic. I have had some interesting conversations in the past few days with some Colombians and I'd like to share what I've heard and get some imput from you guys.
In Colombia, garage sales and second-hand clothing stores are almost non-existent. My friends say that there are a few secong-hand stores but a Colombian would not shop there unless he/she really had to. I hear that having brand name clothes is very important, especially for young Colombians and that there is a lot of peer pressure for them. Same for adults that many are very concious of "la moda" even to the point where individuals will be very well dressed "pero sin un peso en la bolsa." Still a lot of people living thinking of the "¿Qué dirán?" and people living above their means.
Now here's my personal experience...I live a middle class life in the States, granted I'm not in New York, Miami, or LA. I live in the Midwest, and I know there are some people here that are materialistic, but for the most part people don't really care what you wear as long as it looks decent and clean. I sometimes shop garage sales or second-hand clothing stores and find some neat stuff. I personally could not buy a pair of $100 jeans when I could get a nice looking pair for $20. When someone compliments me on a shirt, I have no problem saying I got it on sale for $5, not only will they not look down on me, they will probably ask me where and if the sale is still going. I live a simple life and try to keep to the basics. While some people seem really concerned with material things, others are not and people don't bother others about it. I don't feel pressure to conform.
So? I'm wondering what do you guys think about the whole materialism thing? More pressure in Colombia or here? Does it differ from city to city in Colombia? in the states? I would appreciate opinions, stories, experiences, etc.
By corazon en colombia on Jun 3, 2006, 07:42 in Friendly Talkzone.
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caulfield2 says on Jun 3, 2006, 08:01: Definitely. The irony is that a lot of my students never wear make-up when they come to school, but they always look nice when they go out.
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morphus says on Jun 3, 2006, 10:04: oh yeah A good example: everybody has a cell phone but most can't afford to make the calls...ha ha
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webmanco says on Jun 3, 2006, 10:27: Most colombians can afford to Most colombians can afford to make cell phone calls, we just don´t go paying the high charges when calling different operators. ...A yo, déjenme queto y no me jodan má! ... 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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caulfield2 says on Jun 3, 2006, 10:30: What always cracks me up is how many people call you, let it ring once, and then expect you to call back. Many don´t have contracts, so they´re always running out of minutes...so they can only receive incoming calls. It´s my gringo subsidization of the phone industry here I think.
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adrimm says on Jun 3, 2006, 15:23: Wow Now I *know* that I've been away awhile if I've missed threads here that say something to the effect of generally "Colombians aren't materialistic".. Either that or the person who wrote said comment comes from an even more materialistic (in general) society.
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Rubiazo says on Jun 4, 2006, 00:40: at caulfield Anywhere that you don't pay for receiving calls is like that. People in the UK do that all the time to each other too. Another great trick is to text somebody from the internet! You pay nothing, THEY pay 300 pesos or so to receive the msg, which says to call you hahahaahahahahahah!
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Atrevido says on Jun 4, 2006, 08:26: I would say the "middle/upper class" segment of Colombian society is extremely materialistic and it is all important to go about "todo plastico" and "dedi parada" in a "campero del ano" with a woman with breast implants. The really poor don't have the plata to be materialistic and the really rich are often too concerned about "secuestro" to show off material wealth. There is of course a huge segment fitting the first description above that are "nuevo rich" from narcotrafico.
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miamimike says on Jun 4, 2006, 09:34: Rubiazo I'll differ with you LOL But Ground Zero for materialsm is Miami. On Colombian Materialism,I see this in triplicate here in South Florida ranging from Kendall/Coral Gables through Weston, Adventura up to West Palm Beach. I agree 100% with Adrimm and the OP. This Materialism lands a lot of Colombians in BIG BIG financial trouble within a few years of their arrival here in South Florida. I shop reguarly at several Thrift Stores here in Miami and rarely do I see Colombians(I could add venezuelanos also but the topic is colombians)Rarely do I run into a Colombian but many Dominicans, Cubans,( even run into two women from Buenos Aires last week nd that was a surprise)Haitians and Central Americans are found. Funny, I see lots of Middle aged Americans pulling up in their BMWs and Mercedes, dressed down of course and later exiting the stores their arms full of purchases. These People have the Money to buy these Luxury Cars because they have learned to manage their money well and that includes not blowing the week's Paycheck on Expensive Foolish New clothing! I recently sent a box to Bogota of Very Nice Clothing(current styles also)with Brand Names such as Eddie Bauer, LL Bean, London Fog, Columbia(company), Pendleton-a large box full that cost me $45 used, new around $600 and in great condition.Cost me $30 to ship door to door by private carrier(Miami to Bog)! I rest my case. And the recipients were very happy. No stigma on used clothing for them. A family of Colombian Doctors, Dentists and Politicians..... "Wait a minute. What did you just say? You're predicting $4-a-gallon gas? That's interesting. I hadn't heard that." -- Feb. 28, 2008 --George W. Bush, Washington, D.C. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Rubiazo says on Jun 4, 2006, 10:43: Like I've said before you can not compare expats with people in their home countries. Many expats often have (and share) traits that are counter-cultural in their home countries, although I don't think materialism is counter-cultural anywhere on the planet these days, excepting maybe Cuba :P THAT is actually a perfect example, the Miami Cubans compared to the Cubans still living in their country, night and day!
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adrimm says on Jun 4, 2006, 11:53: Gringodiego Me?? kids?? Gads no. Love'em, but don't have them myself (not yet at least). It's the best of both worlds for the time being :)
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adrimm says on Jun 4, 2006, 12:39: Classes While bringing this whole post under a "generalisation blanket" I think that materialism in Colombia is probably more linked to geogrpahy (urban/not urban) than class.
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caulfield2 says on Jun 4, 2006, 13:05: It's the same thing as sales tax, it disproportionately affects the middle class and especially the poorest...those who can least afford it.
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Rubiazo says on Jun 4, 2006, 13:23: If somebody acted funny that I went to the plaza de mercado to buy my food instead of Carulla I'd tear them a new asshole. I'd actually LOVE the chance to let somebody have a piece of my mind for that.
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corazon en colombia says on Jun 4, 2006, 15:16: Food I totally agree about the food thing. What is the deal here in the states? Only rich people can afford food without the chemicals...so the rest of us just have to let our insides rot away slowly, seriously there is all kinds of toxins in our daily comida. My Colombian friend's grandma used to say to stay away from the apples without the worms! (Gross, but true.) Obviously if the bugs are smart enough not to eat them why are we!!! Colombia = paradiso 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Rubiazo says on Jun 4, 2006, 15:42: I have only been to Bogota and environs, so I don't know much about other areas or cities. Most Colombians would tell you Bogota is the most materialistic place in the country, which would make sense, because probably more than 1/2 the country's capital is concentrated there!
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