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Question: Am I, as a foreigner and legally still married in my country of origin, allowed to register my new born baby together with the mother in Cali at the NOTARÃ?A or REGISTRADURÃ?A in Cali (not at the US Embassy) ? In other words: is a married man allowed to (co-)register his kid by Colombian Law, even if he's legally still married, not to the Colombian mother of the new born baby? I guess the kid then also gets to carry my last name. All answers would be much appreciated. Thanks.
By BushLawyer on Dec 5, 2007, 18:46 in Friendly Talkzone.
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vicshere says on Dec 5, 2007, 19:53: married or not you are the father you are the father listo 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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BushLawyer says on Dec 5, 2007, 21:00: Vicshere: Married, but not to the Colombian mother of the baby, mind you. Can I still register the baby? So does the child get to carry my last name by virtue of me registering her, or does that happen by virtue of me legally acknowledging her as my child, or is it all considered to be the same (to register = to legally acknowledge?). In other words: can a married guy register or acknowledge a kid that was not born to his legal wife? Thanks again.
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dwmte7 says on Dec 6, 2007, 06:03: if you're a gringo and prove parentage, the child is eligible for status as "u.s. citizen, born abroad" need to do the registry at the u.s. embassy in bogota. dwmte 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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vicshere says on Dec 6, 2007, 06:05: bush i said listo 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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BushLawyer says on Dec 6, 2007, 07:51: Vicshere: Understood. I don't want to be bothersome, but I need to be absolutely clear on this: I take it that at the "NotarÃa" or the "RegistradurÃa" in Cali they will allow me to register the child despite the fact that I'm legally still married to someone else not being the Colombian mother of the child? That, for me, is the main issue. Thanks again, to dwmte7 as well..
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Gator says on Dec 6, 2007, 07:57: The name will be the same that on the birth certificate you must present, with other paperwork, at the consular section of the US Embassy.-Must notarized by a Colombian notary. You will need strong proof the child is yours, "Brevior Sltare Cum Deformibus Mulieribus Est Vita!" . 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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william_andrew_channell says on Dec 6, 2007, 08:46: It doesn't matter if you're married or not. You're the father of the baby. Who cares who you're married to?
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Gator says on Dec 6, 2007, 09:41: The consulate will want proof you are the natural father. It does not matter if you are legally married as long as one of you is the biological parents is a U S Citizen. A child is born abroad to a U.S. citizen father and a non-U.S. citizen mother, and the parents were not married at the time of the birth: The child will qualify for citizenship if the father was present in the United States for at least five years, including two years after the age of 14, before the birth of the child. In addition, the father must either legitimate the child under Colombian law, or sign a statement in front of a notary public or consular officer in which he acknowledges paternity and promises to support the child until he/she is 18 years old. IIf all goes well you will be issued a Consular Report of Birth Abroad which you must have before a US Passport is issued. "Brevior Sltare Cum Deformibus Mulieribus Est Vita!" . 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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GregYohn says on Dec 6, 2007, 12:50: Thank you for writing. Please see our website at http://bogota.usembassy.gov/birth_abroad2.html . 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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bufalo says on Dec 6, 2007, 14:10: Father, husband married to whoever, living with whoever but kids with other people. "If you don't like it - lump it, take it down the road and dump it." - Archie Bunker played by Carroll O'Connor 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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BushLawyer says on Dec 6, 2007, 14:32: See my edited post.
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GregYohn says on Dec 6, 2007, 17:36: Hola! 12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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lpdiver says on Dec 6, 2007, 18:02: What are the MOTHERS desires? "cook some rice!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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BushLawyer says on Dec 6, 2007, 18:40: lpdriver: the mother obviously wants the father to register the child together with her, to insure among other things that the child carries the father's last name, not so much about the child support since that's all okay, including college fund etc.
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lpdiver says on Dec 6, 2007, 18:46: It's not OBVIOUS from where I sit. But at least you are on the same page. "cook some rice!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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BushLawyer says on Dec 6, 2007, 18:51: lpdriver: Sorry about the 'obvious' part. The college fund was done through an insurance program for which the mother signed up, that's paid for. The child support is arranged in my will should I kick the bucket before the child becomes of age. So, any ideas about how much paperwork the Notaria or Registraduria is going to require from me? Thanks
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lpdiver says on Dec 6, 2007, 19:02: good planning on your part. I really don't know. But since you both seem to be on the same page I doubt it will be much. Make sure you register the birth as outlined by Gator above. I doubt that it will be a lot of money by US standards. Certainly not enough to worry about if you have already taken care of child support and education issues before the child is b "cook some rice!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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dwmte7 says on Dec 6, 2007, 19:09: yo, bush lawyer.....do you organize such so called illigitimacies for the bush family and their off spring with non-spousal, significant others? just curious. the whole bush, inc dynasty never ceases to amaze me. dwmte 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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BushLawyer says on Dec 6, 2007, 19:16: dwmte7: Not related to the bush dynasty, but i'm equally impressed (lol).
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dwmte7 says on Dec 7, 2007, 06:01: sorry b lawyer...just pullin your chain. no offence. dwmte 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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