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Love & Aguardiente Cristal

It was a perfect night. The stars were out,the weather was nice and the drive from Manizales to Pereira airport was long,
and lonely. As my girlfriend drove she played a variety of music "tu amor me hace bien" by Marc Anthony, "Increible" by Cabas, "Cuando te vayas" by Los Inquietos
& "Virgen" , at least those are the songs that I remembered.Every now & then I glanced over & was moved to see those crystal tears streaming down her cheeks,
not knowing what to say, only I knew that a simple te quiero,te amo,no te preocupes, this time would not suffice. She was silent the entire drive.

Cuales tu fantasia? Three nights ago fueled &
emboldened by guaro she asked. Dos mujeres pero ella tiene que ser una mona
& bonita como tu was my response. Tu lo mereces, after which she looked at the yellow pages to order a stripper,dialed some numbers without success. So we got
on her car and with both of us drunk I offered to drive. We went to Cassashow in
Manizales ordered some more rounds of Aguardiente Cristal, some chicas to give
me a private dance, the fourth chica una mona like her, so she whispered that we
can take her to a motel for a more "private" dance, "no te preocupes me amor",
yo soy colombiana were her words before she went & talked to the manager.
Off we went to Motel Arizona on the outskirts of Manizales, the dancer proceeded
to give us a great show, things heated up,more guaro was ordered, and before you knew it I was doing a 'Toro' as we call in the philippines - a live sex show, we did
everything in front of my girlfriend. We dropped the girl off & it was now 10 am.
At this point she was visibly upset, drinking & driving at the same time. I asked her que te pasa? Utter silence...

When we got to her house that's when she blew
up, she accused me of failing her and cheating. A fight ensued she was punching,kicking,throwing things,on my part I was just trying to parry her blows,avoid the flying things & explain to her that this was a great misunderstanding, that in the philippines when a girlfriend agrees to this sort it means a license to go all the way. This seemed to fuel her anger. After she calmed down she threw me her house/car keys then left the house. I did not see her for two days.
"Que dios te bendiga y proteja""te amo tanto" were her
parting words, dios le pague, te qiuero mucho, eres mi vida, mahal na mahal kita.
I responded. She gave me a golden chain, a cross with emerald in the middle. I
gave a phillippine black pearl necklace of white gold. A hug. One long passionate
kiss. We have not seen each other since. 10 mos have passed, I've received e-mails & phone messages. I did not respond. I do miss her a lot..

By lakbaydiwa on Aug 28, 2007, 15:59 in Friendly Talkzone.

RJQuilla says on Aug 28, 2007, 19:56:

Dude if she is your girl why would you do such a thing. You were asking for it on that one. She feels that she was not good enough for you so you had to get someone else or it can be a multitude of things cause I am no expert of the female mind. American, Latin or whatever the nationality of my girl is, I would not even think of bringing in a third wheel. You can only do one at a time and you did the dancer not your girl. That is your fault. Now if you dont give a snot about her then get freaky but if you do then you mess up major.

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houstongal says on Aug 28, 2007, 20:18:

I don't get it....if she's sent you emails and left you phone messages, why haven't you responded? You seem to care something about her and you say you miss her, yet you don't do anything but write a post about what happened? What's stopping you from responding to her? She may be offering you an olive branch.....

"It is now official: there's no place on earth where you will not find a Peruvian band." David Sedaris

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Man Tequila says on Aug 28, 2007, 21:30:

Hmmm... you could try taking the ecstasy AFTER you post?

Aunque no me creas/ si me lo propongo/ lograre olvidarte/ porque a fin de cuentas/ no soy tan cobarde./ Y termino todo una de estas tardes/ no sera dificil buscar algún sitio donde refugiarme/ donde nunca mas vuelvas a encontrarme. (Polo Montañez)

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Robert Jorge says on Aug 29, 2007, 02:01:

Fell out of the chair laughing ManT. Spot on. PBH is almost like the twilight zone; when I get up this early to work the freight truck, and sip on coffee and check out the late night crowd at PBH.

He who farts in church, sits in his own pew.

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LA_MONA says on Aug 29, 2007, 02:43:

Don't ever believe a woman if she say's she is ok with that.

Para volar, es preciso tener resistencia. -M.Lin

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panthdave says on Aug 29, 2007, 03:30:

So True La Mona..I only have learned that with age and experience..That is tricky when your wife or GF says its okay you really have to double think and read inbetween the lines I really hate that....Strangely the GF I am with now is pretty straight forward but she still has female hormones..and always read inbetween the lines.which is difficult..

panthdave Miami

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droble77 says on Aug 29, 2007, 07:24:

Sounds like you screwed up what could have been a fun experience. Yeah, three-ways are the most popular fantasy for a man but you didn't handle it properly; in addition, you let the little head and the guaro take control of the situation.

I would have emphasized the lesbo aspect of the 3-way, letting your girl set the pace so to speak. Instead, you TOTALLY HUMILIATED your girl by f***ing this puta right in front of her face.

Let's put the shoe on the other foot: how would YOU feel if you conceded to your girl's fantasy of being with two men. . . and then she lets this hot, young studly colombiano the two of you picked up f*** her brains out right in front of you?

Damn dude, you messed up big time. . .

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MaSep says on Aug 29, 2007, 21:58:

so if you miss her call her back then.. try to talk about that night and manage the situation to avoid for everrrrrrrr to talk about it again.

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slguy says on Aug 30, 2007, 07:44:

Jesus H. Christ.

1. I admire your forthrightness. Is weird, but cool.

2. NEVER EVER leave your woman out of a threesome. You made her a spectator. What did you expect her reaction to be?

3. She has called/written - and you IGNORE her???? Whine about missing her if you want to- but from where I sit- you are doing her a favor. She's a lot more woman than you deserve, amigo.

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

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