Is it normal for a Colombian to...

ACBlessing says on Jan 15, 2005, 16:48:

Damn Why couldn't you have married me instead?

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caslug says on Jan 15, 2005, 16:52:

BIG QUESTION!!! Is it normal for straight COL women to do threesome with their boyrfriend and a girlfriend!!! TONS of guys are waiting for that answer!!

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oldbongo says on Jan 15, 2005, 16:52:

okay.. thats it... you're invited to the yachtparty...

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juanalejo says on Jan 15, 2005, 16:53:

???? I have heard on W radio a huge discussion about swinging clubs and threesomes etc. in Bogota as a catching trend, but I am yet to meet anybody that has been there or anybody even cosidered it. So on this one, my opinion we are still quite consevative about it. At least publicly.

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caslug says on Jan 15, 2005, 16:57:

OOPS sorry, my questions still stand BUT.. WHAT about POL women, are they open to that??? If yes, i'm heading to poland for next trip!!

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maria1234 says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:04:

Eastern European I think in general Eastern European are very comfortable with their sexuality. Before I was maarried I was with some Polish women but I preferred Slovakian. They are much taller and much prettier and a lot more experienced.

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Gomezman5 says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:07:

Hollywood???--Why not Chgo---I'll find you ...... those 3 or 4 women, Colombian, Mexican, Puerto Rican....you name it
You will just have to invite me to the party.

Really, I don't know what happened to your hubby. It is not a Colombian male thing. I can assure you, there are many Colombian husbands that would have been more than happy to take you up on your offer.

By the way, did you know that Chicago is the second largest populated city of Polish people outside of Warsaw????That is correct. After Warsaw, Poland does not have a city with as many Polish people as Chicago does. We have dozens of Polish restaurants and delis and Polish whatever. We even named a street after Cashmir Pulaski

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Gomezman5 says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:10:

By the way...after Lech Walesa..... was elected president in 1990, Chicago was the first city he visited to honor Chicago's huge Polish community!!

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maria1234 says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:28:

That's nice and all... But how the hell is that helping me with my problem?

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caslug says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:31:

Maybe you can break him in w/.. just one friend first, then bring the second. And assure him that any and all "toys" will NOT be used on him.

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oldbongo says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:37:

maria.. we will splain everything to you on the boat

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isaactraveler says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:41:

if I go on this trip, can i put my face in Marias a** too? dammit, why do I always find out about the parties by accident?

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Mr. Hollywood says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:48:

Honest answer Maria, I've known a few guys who had issues with this kind of fun. I don't know why they feel this way but some guys are so insecure that they think that if their wife/girlfriend brings a couple friends to bed that it's "cheating" on him. I don't think it's a Colombian thing but just an unfortunate mismatch of needs between you and your dude.

Personally, of course, I think he's nuts.

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isaactraveler says on Jan 15, 2005, 17:51:

i couldnt make it with more than one woman at a time I had a chance once for a menage a tois, but they didnt take American Express. Anyways, I get scared enough when I am having sex by myself, much less with an audience.

I would however volunteer to bring popcorn to the show.

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Katjie says on Jan 15, 2005, 18:14:

Maria...Que barrrrbara Maria, I think your situation is a matter of where to place you. You see, a Colombian man would do a threesom/foursome with his girlfriend (which he considers a fufurufa anyway). But if you are his WIFE (and if you have or plan to have childern), then that's a totally different animal. His SENORA must be respectful enough to mother his children, and introduce to his friends and family. His favorite pet, (la fufurufa)...He figures, who cares? I have seen relationships change drastically because in the back of his mind, the husband resented the wife for accepting group sex. They see her as a slut who can't be trusted. (my male cousins would love to invite you, as some guys in this forum. But, only for a little while. Colombian men are machistas. Don't believe otherwise.
Katjie.

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maria1234 says on Jan 15, 2005, 18:19:

But I don't want to be... with any other guys. Just girls. I can't help myself that I find the Colombianas attractive and want to share him with them. However, I won't be share with any other guys but him. That's where I'm I had to ask the question.

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oldbongo says on Jan 15, 2005, 18:31:

maria.. ask your guy if maybe he would feel a little more comfortable
if he just started with the burras and then worked his way up.

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utopiacowboy says on Jan 15, 2005, 20:46:

And remember, Maria, doing a burro is a two person job so you're going to have to help him.

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Gomezman5 says on Jan 15, 2005, 20:57:

Ok Maria...you don't like my Chicago idea but... Maybe, even though he is Colombian, and he has the chance of a lifetime to fool around with a bunch of other Colombianas and his wife, he just may not want to see you fooling around with other women.

What if after this affair, you decide that you no longer have any use for him or any other man for that matter?? In his heart, he may think that this may turn into more than an experiment, but the begining of a whole new sexual lifestyle that will ruin the time and effort that he has dedicated to making a future with you.

In summary, you need to sit down and have a heart to heart conversation with him to determine why he backed out, what exactly his fears are....make sense???? Think about it. Good Luck

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umm says on Jan 15, 2005, 21:05:

I heard that the people from eastern europe are a bit strange with respect to sexuality. I didnt know it was soooo bad.
If you are out for group-sex why marry a colombian. Get yourself a greek or one from eastern europe. We Colombians are also no sooooo dirty.

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maria1234 says on Jan 16, 2005, 07:02:

Is not that... We are strange. I just think that we like what we do(sex) and we open about it. That's all.

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umm says on Jan 16, 2005, 07:09:

BUt, you have nocied, there are always somewhere certain limitations.
I also absolutely dislike group sex.
For me that would be a reason for divorce.
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maria1234 says on Jan 16, 2005, 07:11:

UMMM... Not even if I was to bring my two sisters along?

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umm says on Jan 16, 2005, 07:13:

Nope,
I am always 'fiel' and I expect that also from my girlfriend or later wife.
Fact is, everyone has own sexual preferences. If they match with the partners preferences, then it is likely that both stay together.
If the preferences dont match then relationships can only last for a while, until one wants back to the own preference.
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maria1234 says on Jan 16, 2005, 13:33:

Well I just talked to my husband and he has agreed to have a foursome of three girls and him. Does anyone one to take bets on whether or not he will go through with it?

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oldbongo says on Jan 16, 2005, 13:41:

what about the poor burro? without him, all bets are off.

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utopiacowboy says on Jan 16, 2005, 16:52:

Been there. Done that. Sex is much better one on one with my wife.

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carldecolorado says on Jan 16, 2005, 16:54:

I agree I must say I agree with Utopia on this one, sex is better with the one you love and no one else.

Carl

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Lionheart says on Jan 16, 2005, 17:19:

been there, done that as UC and Carl said, in the long run stay with what you've got, there is nothing more satisfying than a trusting one-on-one relationship.

I had two relationships break up because of that. My partners were bi, wanted to add the experience, and got used to it. Both wound up prefering real lesbian types, who obviously had no use for me, causing problems and jealousy.

To be honest, it was interesting to try once, but nothing I would want to repeat. The inimacy of one-on-one is much more intense.

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umm says on Jan 16, 2005, 17:23:

he ahs agreed????...so, he was drunk then.
I have also agreed one time but at that time I was joking and thought the entire matter was a joke.
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skyblue says on Jan 17, 2005, 06:28:

Chasing Amy Check out one of the last scenes in the movie "Chasing Amy" when the main characters discus the idea of a three-some. It is an interesting scene, that reminded me of some personal experiances. It might be a Pandora's box that the husband isn't interested in opening.
Also, the person that talked about the Madona-whore syndrome might have a valid point.

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Albatross says on Jan 17, 2005, 06:57:

Regrets ? If you wanted group sex, then you probably should not have gotten married...

Also, I lived in Prague for a year and didn't notice that people in "eastern europe are a bit strange with respect to sexuality". However, prostitition is legal there and sex is generally more out in the open than it is in more conservative areas like the U.S., Great Britain, Canada (except Montreal) and South America (except Brazil).

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umm says on Jan 17, 2005, 07:05:

You dont see everything if you stay only for a year in Praha.
go to Japan and your eyes will fall out if you are Japanese...as foreigner you will never be aware of it what's going on behind some walls.
It often just depends on if you are foreigner or local.
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Albatross says on Jan 17, 2005, 07:10:

. That's why I used the word "notice" as opposed to saying that it wasn't there.

Also, kudos for using the the correct name: "Praha"... Mam rada Prahu.

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maria1234 says on Jan 17, 2005, 09:36:

I don't need to... have group sex. I just want it once in a while. It's fun. I just thought it was something that we could both enjoy. Sometimes is really sexy having so much skin rubbing up against each other. Don't you agree? That's where the difference between making love and just having some good old fashion hammer pounding sex comes in.

I would only make love to my husband and I would love to have six with him and other women.

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nanis says on Jan 17, 2005, 10:37:

maria i understand where you are coming from I have had relationships with a few Europeans and they are very open minded about everything and are not intimidated take this for instance my ex boyfriend who is Colombian is very into his looks and into what people think about him his fantasy was to have a threesome (2 girls and him) which is every man's fantasy is it not?

well when it came to it he couldn't handle it and backed out at the last minute too the reason being that he was not in control anymore and felt a bit insecure because it was a girl who was gonna give me pleasure and not him! i think that he thought that i was going to choose being with a girl over him..

I’m happily married now to a gringo i call him gringo but in fact he was born in Colombia and he was raised as a gringo, he loves me to bits and lets me get away with murder! He says that the reason for letting me go wild from time to time is that he enjoys it too and that he wouldn't have me any other way! so i told him that i wanted to be with my female friend and he said that he wanted to give me everything that i wanted so he was happy by just sitting back and watching he was not jealous at all in fact he was happy that I was enjoying myself and I was even happier because he was there to give us a hand!

He is very different to my ex; my husband thinks about my needs don't get me wrong! he still has his macho ego but he is not insecure, he will go mad if I cheat on him with a guy but has not problem with me flirting he knows i wont cheat on him and says that i can flirt and then go home and eat him alive not like my ex who was only thinking about his feelings being to wrapped up in his own little world always putting himself first and thinking of what people said about him i really hated that!

people who give a damn about what others say about them are not living their own lives they are living how other people want them to live (in my ex's case it was his male friends!) I think many Colombian guys are like that they care too much about what his mates think of him call it Colombian macho ego!

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Albatross says on Jan 17, 2005, 11:10:

Ahh... Memories of Praha... There are many reasons people avoid “group encounters”, but if you still want to pursue this avenue, try getting them all together into a hot tub or a private spa somewhere. After a little conversation and a few glasses of Champagne, lose the swimsuits and see what happens...

If he’s not into it by then, he’s hopeless.

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jccg says on Jan 17, 2005, 12:07:

You must take several talking sessions Colombia is a too Catholic countri, and the people still been so "machistas", spetilly women. The argument about the "fufurufa" is quite right, there are too many men here that think that the girl that have sex is not good,then the most of the girls do not have sex for fun (which is too bad for me, I love to have sex for fun!!). But, even though I do respect the sexuality of women (and I want the women to enjoy when I have sex), I will love to have sex with two or three women, but I will not have that kind of pary with the woman I love (I am just not ready for that). You have to open the maind of your houseband, and it took time...

This is just the true!!

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maria1234 says on Jan 18, 2005, 08:12:

Well it's allset.. My husban has agreed to tak on the challange next week when he comes home. Any girls want to join us?

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elmodefoque says on Jan 18, 2005, 08:32:

I don’t know about Colombians, but if my wife told me that she had two broads for us, I said, “well, I just happened to have two more, for a total of six of us, let the party begin” Man, I will love her for ever and ever.
I had my first threesome when I was only 17 years old, and it was in a party in Soho, NYC. That day, up to then, had to be the best day of my life.
My wife is a stunning woman and will be more than welcome at any wife swapping event, I, on the other hand might be a difficult sell, but once I pull down my pants is a different story, what the creator took away in looks and brains it gave me in other things, ok, so I go one ball way lower than the other but what counts is what’s in the middle. In prison we were always paraded naked, and let me tell you, ugly modefoques always won hands down. Man, that Isaac is gotta be hung like a burro.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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maria1234 says on Jan 23, 2005, 12:25:

Let me just say That it was probably one of the most erotic experiences I've had. After my frineds left, my husband and I still kept going. My god I can barely walk.

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oldbongo says on Jan 23, 2005, 12:28:

do you think.. you will be able to make it to the yacht party??

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maria1234 says on Jan 23, 2005, 12:41:

Only If can.. I'll com to the party only if I can bring a couple of girlfriends with me.

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ACBlessing says on Jan 23, 2005, 12:49:

By the way Will whomever goes to the party please take pictures so I can link to it from my site? ;-)

Alex Blessing, Spokane, WA USA
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Lionheart says on Jan 23, 2005, 12:54:

AC, maria I think a live webcam link would even be better

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oldbongo says on Jan 23, 2005, 13:14:

maria... you and the girls are in..

and just to make things a little clearer,
all the guys except elmo and me will be seated
in the peanut gallery,led by our moderator, tinto.

and you don't have to worry about me, because la commandante
has plans of her own.
just make sure you know how to harness the burro.

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Save the Wildcats says on Jan 23, 2005, 13:27:

One man, one woman... I don't judge people but I know I must be getting old because I am old-fashioned.

Kim

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oldbongo says on Jan 23, 2005, 13:32:

that's fine..kim.. you stay home with arnold, or is it jackie, tonite,
and us oldfolks who don't know it, will have to party
without you. where is mrs.gomez??

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Save the Wildcats says on Jan 23, 2005, 13:39:

That's ok, have the party, have a great time, and have a couple of drinks for me! Don't feel too sorry for me, my hubby's a hottie, but you're right, we'll probably camp in front of the TV tonight. ;-)

Take care,

Kim

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maria1234 says on Jan 27, 2005, 23:15:

An interesting thing has happen Ever since my friends and I had our way with my husband I've been getting 6/7 times per day. Is that normal for a Colombian? What gives? I wish he would have done it sooner.

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umm says on Jan 27, 2005, 23:55:

you have been getting 6/7 times per day????
WHAT?
Sugar Cubes? jajajaja
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oldbongo says on Jan 28, 2005, 07:35:

maria....... as the oldgringo is very busy making arrangements...
for the yacht, the burro, the burritos, the favors,...

let alone, psyching up elmo for his performance,...

could you please take charge of sending
invitations out to the appropriate ladies.
the queen is MIA and the others are laid out hethinks.

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elmodefoque says on Jan 28, 2005, 07:41:

maria, porque carajo no me case contigo. tu eres la mujer perfecta para mi.

I'll get there, when I get there!

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maria1234 says on Jan 28, 2005, 08:26:

elmodefoque I think is because your too much of a modefoque...

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nanis says on Jan 28, 2005, 09:18:

maria are you in colombia soon? i'll be there in 2 months or less and need some help with my sexercise fitness video tape may be we can hook up what do you say?

elmo would you be my director? may be OG can be the camera men?

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utopiacowboy says on Jan 28, 2005, 12:04:

I can't say what's normal for a Colombian man but 6 to 7 times a day sounds about a little low. I usually try for the double digits if I have time.

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YEP says on Jan 28, 2005, 13:05:

UC and hope you get lucky half the times ;-)
or do you persist on the full double-digit adventure and "stress" on some parts of skin ;-)


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maria1234 says on Jan 28, 2005, 16:53:

Mrs. Gomez CAn my husband play a part?

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