My husband and I are in the process of adopting a child from Colombia. We are working through an agency called Children's Hope International. We live in the U.S., we have adopted one child domestically. This will be our second child.
Has anyone on this forum had experience with anthing related to adoption in Colombia?
By julie on Dec 29, 2004, 20:16 in Friendly Talkzone.
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Save the Wildcats says on Dec 29, 2004, 20:18: Julie.... I'll send you a message; please check your inbox.
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Peter (Moderator) (Trustee board) (Dev team) (☼Travelguide writer) says on Dec 30, 2004, 06:00: Hi Julie, if you try a search you'll find stories like this one about adoption. Good luck! Poor but snappy 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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anaiza says on Dec 30, 2004, 18:28: Colombian adoptions Congratulations....Guess what, I am also in the process of adopting a child from Colombia. I would love to exchange stories, email me.
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kitsmom says on Feb 18, 2005, 19:08: We too are adopting in Colombia Julie, My husband, who is Colombian, and I are presently adopting from Colombia. After looking into several adoption agencies in the US, including CHI, we chose to do a parent-initiated adoption. I would be happy to share any info with you about our experience since I did ALL the paperwork myself. Except for the home study, of course. We just received notice from ICBF we are approved to adopt a 4 year old child. We have a wonderful translater and lawyer in Bogota about 20 blocks apart.
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Sarah in Mexico says on Mar 9, 2005, 07:31: To kitsmom I was interested to read that you have handled all paperwork for adoption yourself. Was that very complicated? We are a British couple living in Mexico. We have one 6 year old biological daughter and are considering surrogacy or adoption to extend our family (a second pregnancy is not an option for us). We plan to visit Colombia in May. What would be our first step in finding out about adoption in Colombia? Does our home study have to be done here in Mexico? If anyone can help please feel free to write to me.
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kitsmom says on Mar 28, 2005, 18:03: The Colombian Adoption Process The Adoption Process in Colombia
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juanalejo says on Mar 28, 2005, 20:05: Sarah I know you are living in Mexico, but since you are British I would like to give you some information that should be pretty accurate but must be confirmed up to date. The Colombian and British legislations are not in accordance as to the information and contact that the adopted child can know about the birth parents. Colombian law prohibits such contacts up to a certain age, and British law encourages such contacts. This according to some close friends of mine who adopted a child and were unable to adopt a second one when the law changed in Britain, as the Colombian government would not allow any more Colombian childs to be heading to Britain.
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ColombiaAdopt3 says on Apr 4, 2005, 06:14: question for kitsmom Thanks so much for posting all that information about parent-initiated adoption. It's extremely helpful. I went to the ICBF web site but I couldn't find the list of attorneys that they recommend...do you have a link to that? Also, where did you find a list of translators in Colombia?
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ColombiaAdopt3 says on Apr 6, 2005, 12:48: Parent-initiated Adoption KitsMom,
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skkrumwiede says on Apr 23, 2005, 09:45: Hi Claudia,
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adornsamudio says on May 17, 2005, 09:28: RE: Colombian Adoption Process Thank you so much for taking the time to put all of this information together. Our situations seem very similar---passionate about adopting from Colombia, married to a Colombian, etc. I really appreciate your efforts in organizing this step-by-step process.
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kitsmom says on May 17, 2005, 21:56: Parent-Initiated Adoptions First, let me say that I will gladly answer any questions you have along the way that may stump you. We don't leave for Colombia until next week! Next, you ask great questions!
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Lincoln says on May 20, 2005, 05:57: Medical check-up Just a word of advice once you bring your child back to the U.S. As part of the child's medical check-up, you might consider asking your doctor to check for stomach parasites. It's a very simple test, and if parasites are found they can be eliminated by medication. We adopted our child in Colombia when he was six months old and returned a couple of times for family visits. When he was 8 years old he complained about stomach aches and I took him to the doctor, he had two different kinds of parasites--who knows for how long! This is virtually unknown in the U.S. but fairly common in developing countries. I wish I would have had him checked before, but this never entered my mind. Just wanted to pass this on.
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kitsmom says on May 20, 2005, 20:51: Checking for Parasites This is a great piece of advice. We will definately do this. My husband said that when he came to the United States he had parasites! Also, I was wondering if you had your child tested for HIV/Aids?
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Save the Wildcats says on May 22, 2005, 08:48: May I please ask a question? We are working with an agency, but my husband is wondering if we are allowed to have some basic lab tests ordered (such as a complete blood count). We have lost a son before (2 years today), and while there are no guarantees, my husband especially is wary of adopting a new child that has cancer (weird fear, I know, but I'm trying to humor him). Are the doctors receptive to running a CBC? I know the kids are tested for HiV and Hepatitis, but other than that, I don't know, and the agency is trying to get me a sample medical report.
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Lincoln says on May 23, 2005, 10:30: checkups No, this was 10 years ago and we didn't at the time although it is an excellent idea. My son has an excellent pediatrician, and I could see he was very surprised with the parasites, as this was quite unknown in the U.S. Fortunately our son has a clean bill of health! Again, I just wish I had been aware of the possibility of parasites sooner but it never, ever crossed our minds that this could be a problem. There was a special news program on the other night about an increasing number of tourists visiting Mexico returning with parasites, and that reminded me to send this message.
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3minivans says on Jun 2, 2005, 06:00: Adoption Questions I have a few questions about adopting from Colombia.
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kitsmom says on Jun 16, 2005, 18:56: Yes, You Can Order a CBC! My husband and I just returned from Colombia where we completed our adoption of a 4 year old boy. While the paperwork was in the final signature process, he stayed with us at our hotel in Medellin. We took him to a well-regarded physician who, among other items, ordered a CBC. This doc's opinion was that it is better to find out if there was something wrong with our child while he was in his country of origin. Fortunately, our son's tests came back and were all clear. Additionally, we did have him treated for parasites. Most children in Colombia have parasites and are all treated for the "condition" prior to beginning school.
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kitsmom says on Jun 16, 2005, 19:08: Ages of Qualification based on your age Here is how ICBF determines the age of the child approved for your particular circumstance for those of you over 40 years of age:
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kitsmom says on Jun 16, 2005, 19:20: How Long Does the Placement Process Take? Well, lets see....
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kitsmom says on Jun 16, 2005, 19:29: Places where the adoption is free. No. Adoption is never free! However, we did a parent-initiated adoption and payed our attorney $1800.00 (max. fee attorney's are allowed to charge for an adoption in Colombia).
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kitsmom says on Jun 16, 2005, 19:55: Less time to complete ICBF or Private Adoption. Well, I can't speak to private adoptions other than to tell you that everything you do related to your adoption is based on child availability. Whether you apply with ICBF or a private orphanage, it does not insure that the child you hope for is available when your dossier is approved. Within 4 (December to April) months of our dossier being approved by ICBF, we received a letter telling us about our son.
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3minivans says on Jun 18, 2005, 11:44: Parent-initiated adoption. Oops! I posted in another area by accident. I'll try again here. First of all congratulations on your new son Kitsmom! and welcome home!
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Hilary05 says on Jun 20, 2005, 10:54: Wait Time for Colombian Adoptions/ETC Hi Kitsmom:
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kitsmom says on Jun 22, 2005, 21:12: ICBF Adoption Criteria Well, let me start by saying "thank you"! We've been home for a week and it seems like our child has always been a part of our family. It has been a very smooth transition and we feel so lucky.
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Desideria (Moderator) (Trustee board) says on Jun 23, 2005, 11:03: I have a question for all you people who have adopted a child from Colombia: does the couple who adopts have to be married? "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Hilary05 says on Jun 23, 2005, 13:17: ICBF Wait Times Hi:
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Save the Wildcats says on Jun 23, 2005, 16:25: Thanks Kitsmom... I appreciate the info about the CBC!
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kitsmom says on Jun 26, 2005, 22:07: Do you have to be married to adopt from Colombia? Well, I think unmarried couples can adopt older and/or "special-needs" children. I believe the ICBF booklet states the couple must be married for at least 5 years. However, I was with my husband for 16 years and only married for the last 3. This is a "Catholic" country. Marriage is very important in this culture.
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kitsmom says on Jun 26, 2005, 22:09: Any questions, don't hesitate. Wonderful! Don't hesitate to contact me if I can help. I learned a lot throughout the process. It seems a shame not to put it to use and share it with anyone wishing to give a loving home to a child!
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kitsmom says on Jun 26, 2005, 22:29: What is a "REP"? Hmmm. Since we did a parent-initiated, I am not familiar with the term "Rep." According to all the documentation I have seen from ICBF, you must have your attorney file your dossier with ICBF. I don't understand how you receive a referral from ICBF without providing the name of the attorney who represents your family. If you don't know who the attorney is that you will hire, how do you know they will cost you $500? Maybe we saved ourselves $500 by not having a Swedish Rep.
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Hilary05 says on Jun 29, 2005, 10:51: A Rep is...and other info a representative. You need a representative in Colombia - yours was a lawyer. When we get a referral for a child - YOU DON"T NEED A LAWYER to file an application with ICBF - my representative will hire a lawyer from whichever region the child is from. The lawyer costs about $500. That's the standard fee. Your lawyer charged for her services not only as a lawyer but as your representative that's why you paid 1800. The standard fee for the the ACTUAL ADOPTION in the court, etc. is $500 more or less. So we will pay our rep 600 and the lawyer 500. Total - 1,100. But i wonder if your 1800 fee also includes translation of the documents in your dossier. That cost us 350. Total for us w/ document translation = $1,450.
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kitsmom says on Jun 29, 2005, 20:10: Kim's off and running! While you’re starting your homestudy, there are several things you can do to proceed. You will need a binder to keep track of everything you are working. Get one right away. If you are organized from the beginning, it will help you immensely! If you already know what you need, just ignore me!
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cmurnan says on Jul 21, 2005, 15:56: ADOPT columbia Hello kitsmom, my husband and I just started the adoption process. I would love to know all the info you have. You seem to be ahead of the game. I have read all of what you submitted on this site but would still like to know more. My email is cmurnan at itxnetwork.com THANKS
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kitsmom says on Jul 21, 2005, 20:19: ADOPT Colombia Hi there CMURNAN! I understand from your posting that you are intersted in adoption. I'm not really sure what you need. What is it you would like to know more about? Do you have a specific question about something I have posted? Or, are you just getting started and are looking for more general information? We just completed a parent-initiated adoption for a child from Colombia. Everything I have posted is relative to this process. We did use/pay an agency but only to do the Home Study and Post-placement follow-up visit. All other documents I collected and processed myself. Maybe you can drop me another private message and tell me more specifically what it is you have questions about with regards to this process. Best wishes. KITSMOM
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jcapilla says on Sep 20, 2005, 12:17: ICBF Kitsmom
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kitsmom says on Oct 15, 2005, 17:25: ICBF Send me a private message on this site first with your e-mail address and I'll be happy to help you with the process!
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kitsmom says on Nov 3, 2005, 19:51: Anything I can do to help, just let me know! I couldn't remember if we chatted, or not! Please feel free to drop me a line with your e-mail address if you are still interested and have questions!
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JohnAH says on Dec 15, 2005, 13:09: Parent Initiated Adoption Kitsmom - I sent you a private message asking for any additional help or advise you can offer with a Parent Initiated Adoption from Colombia. My wife and I are going to get started very soon and have been making good progress with all of our research and agency discussions so far.
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lesecrits says on Feb 19, 2006, 18:01: Problems with Agency I am a single woman of 41 interested in adopting a child of 4-8 years old. I am interested in Colombia because I have visited there and my best friend (and ex-husband) is Colombian. Though it seems that I can adopt from Colombia as a single older woman so long as I am willing to parent an older child, I was recently very surprised and disappointed to find that the leading adoption agency in my state would not consider an application from me mainly because I had a two-day mental health hospitalization a number of years ago (they indicated that, given the stigma attached to mental health problems in non-Western countries, none of the more than a dozen countries, including Colombia, that they operate in would place even an older child in my care). I cannot erase my past, but I am very financially and personally secure, have been employed for 14 years as a university professor, and can obtain excellent references and a letter from a physician certifying that I am physically and emotionally capable of parenting. I had hoped that a homestudy would provide a positive holistic assessment of my suitability as a parent.
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Lucia Rojas says on Feb 20, 2006, 14:31: Check out Kits mom post on adoption. They give you all the information step by step. Good Luck!!
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markandchariceholtsclaw says on Apr 3, 2006, 12:59: Whta is Parent Initiated Adoption Mark Holtsclaw e-mail: mark.holtsclaw at us.army.mil Mark Holtsclaw e-mail: mark.holtsclaw@us.army.mil 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Olgalu says on Apr 21, 2006, 08:44: Interested in Parent Initiated Adoption Hello Kitsmom, Wow! you are really verse in this area. My husband and I have JUST started this process and are really clueless about the whole thing. I have a dual citizenship Colombian/American....born in the States to Colombian parents. My husband is American. I'm really overwhelmed by all the forms and procedures required. I understand why it's important, but had no idea. My parents live in Colombia and are working on their end to find out at much as possible. I would like to know who you used as an agency here in the states. I live in Texas. I have contacted 4 agencies so far...two were out of my area, one will not do the PIA and the last one might consider it, but the cost is roughly $6,000. Taking into account your posting on this issue, that didn't sound right to me. Also, I looked up the I600 requirements. I see they require fingerprinting. Is this separate from the FBI information you talked about? Any light you can shed would be helpful. Olgalu 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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mariasman says on Apr 21, 2006, 14:09: Wow!!!!! Me and my wife are considering adoption also and the reason being is that for us to adopt here in Cali is free since she is a Colombiana. The other thing that really made us think was when we went to a recent party from her job, we met one of her friends that had adopted a beautiful little girl that was the sweetest thing that you have ever seen. She was so sweet and plyful and my wife and I both wanted to take her home with us. They actually helped this lady find a little girl that was similar to her looks, I guess to make it easier on the little girl. We have discussed many options as far as looks,gender and age but I really don't care. Our only worry was that someone in the family wouldn't treat the child as one of ours because we do have some ignorants in both mine and hers. I guess that I will have to lose my Mr. nice guy image if any of that stuff happens. Good luck with the adoption. mariasman 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Olgalu says on Apr 21, 2006, 14:22: Adoption in Cali Hi Mariasman, Olgalu 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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dosmilagros says on Apr 22, 2006, 08:46: What happens if you are denied adoption by ICBF? We are in a very serious situation. We are in the process of adopting 2 children who we already know. Our dossier went to Colombia and was denied because we are both on medication for anxiety disorders. Our lawyer pleaded with ICBF, and they have agreed to consider more evidence of our mental stability, but they are telling us it will not be easy to convince them. The US embassy in Colombia told us that no one has ever been denied, and our lawyer has not had experience with this. Does anyone have any suggestions?
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JohnAH says on Apr 22, 2006, 09:53: Parent Initiated Adoption Group Mark,
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Olgalu says on Apr 26, 2006, 08:43: Parent Initiated Adoption I just had an agency tell me that Colombia is not accepting parent-initiated adoptions. Can anyone confirm this? If it's untrue, please give me the name of an agency in the states (Texas preferably) that will accept this type of adoption. Olgalu 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Caribe says on Jun 15, 2006, 09:48: HI Frank,
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lawyerincolombia says on Jul 14, 2006, 09:05: Lawyer in Cali Colombia I am a certified lawyer in Colombia. My name is Carlos Arturo Dorado and I can help to you about inmigration and legal problems in Colombia.
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Cartagenera says on Jul 14, 2006, 16:29: Hi! Woman, you don't know how nice is it going to be to have a colombian child. As a colombian all I ask for him/her is that you never take away his identity, because after all, he carries colombian blood. Anyway, I'm sure you will give him/her the life he never had in here. Thank you for doing this, it's good to know about it!
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lawyer says on Aug 6, 2006, 12:05: adpotion colombian attorney Well I decided to enjoy this community because i saw many legal question needing an answer.
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lawyer says on Aug 6, 2006, 12:06: LAWYER Well I decided to enjoy this community because i saw many legal question needing an answer.
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lawyer says on Aug 6, 2006, 12:07: ADOPTION Well I decided to enjoy this community because i saw many legal question needing an answer.
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JohnAH says on Aug 9, 2006, 21:07: Colombian Identity Cartagenera,
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cajares says on Jan 19, 2007, 16:38: adoption John,
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goin_south says on Jan 19, 2007, 20:54: I am glad this thread reappeared. I am a bit older, and 'dis-connected' and my novia/fiancee has playfully suggested we have a child, after she arrives in the EEUU, even though she is on the far side of child-bearing age. But, between us, we have 5 siblings, 4 of which should be here and nearly grown (out of the house) in the next two or three years. So, rather than adding another soul to the population of the world, I would perhaps be more interested in adopting a Colombian child. Why Not Colombia?..........Stay Tuned, for more.... utterly worthless, self-indulgent gobbets of nonsense. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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goin_south says on Jan 19, 2007, 21:44: not really; I was just trying to be nice guy. Es el año, 2007: "El Año de Los Santos!" Why Not Colombia?..........Stay Tuned, for more.... utterly worthless, self-indulgent gobbets of nonsense. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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JohnAH says on Jan 30, 2007, 20:32: Parent Initiated Adoption Caren & Carlos,
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neka says on May 22, 2007, 12:50: Adoption Hello,
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sarahmom23 says on Jul 18, 2007, 06:37: To JohnAH and Parent Initiated Adoption Caren and others:
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sarahmom23 says on Jul 18, 2007, 06:39: From Sarah and Chris M. again--forgot to leave our email address if someone wants to email us the above answers directly instead of posting on here....it is csmechler at yahoo.com Thanks!
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JohnAH says on Aug 20, 2007, 13:47: Sarah,
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happymom says on Oct 16, 2007, 13:55: I can't believe the last entry in this site is August 20th! I am sure there are more questions to ask about adopting in Colombia, and helpful people like JohnAH and Kitsmom to help answer them.
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happymom says on Oct 16, 2007, 14:38: This message is for JohnAH: I can't find the Yahoo small group you talk about. Has it been formed already? The only one that I could find was "Colombian Connection." Is that the one?
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JohnAH says on Nov 16, 2007, 09:44: Happymom,
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