well, I'm 21 , i've lived in the states for 7 months now, i came with a cultural exchange visa, i'm supposed to stay for a year, although i can ask for an extension of my visa , and stay for 6 months, 9 months or even another year.
i'm living with an american family, and they are very special people, they have made me feel like at home! i really feel i love them.
Yesterday, Jennifer (my host mom), ask me to stay, and study here in the states,she told me i can ask for a student visa and that in my case is easy to get it, she also said she could help me to find a job, and i could live with them.
the problem is that , i've been majoring, Industrial design In Colombia, In "Los Andes" for 4 years , i'm a year away to get graduate... I love my career , my country...
so now, i Don't know what to do ?? ... till yesterday i had clear that i wanted to leave by the end of my year living here, but now i'm really confused...there's people that would love to at least have the chance to come to the states... and now i have this oportunity and i don't know if i should stay or leave....
what do u think i should do????
By MaG on Aug 19, 2005, 09:16 in Friendly Talkzone.
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kernow62 says on Aug 19, 2005, 09:28: I think only you can answer that question.
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viewpoint says on Aug 19, 2005, 09:43: The answer to your question must be with you desire for upward mobility in your future and career. If I was twenty-one again and faced with that choice the answer for me would be to stay in the USA and pursue my education in english instead of completing it in spanish. You know exactly what your options are in Colombia with a spanish degree majoring in "Industrial Design". There are throusands of graduating Colombian with this degree seeking too damn few jobs that don't pay all that well. If you have more ambition that settling for that go for this oportunity. Even if "in the end" you return to Colombia possessing that english language degree and being completely (total fluent)in english will open lots of doors for you at much higher compensation.
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 19, 2005, 09:43: Go back to Colombia! You will regret it for the rest of your life if you stay in gringoland. You will end up bitter and spend your time posting meaningless drivel on internet sites about Colombia and spewing hatred for gringos and the land they come from. There are over 600,000 Colombians now living in the USA and none of them are happy. Don't end up like them. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Sylvie says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:00: You're almost graduated at Los Andes (which is an excellent school) and you're thinking about staying in the states and going to an American school? No offence but that is a bit crazy! If you stay in the states you will probably lose a good part of your school credits that you earned in Colombia. That means you'll have to start them all over again. Do you really want to stay in school for another 2 or 3 years because that is a possibility? My friend completed 2 years at Los Andes and then went to University of Miami and was told she had to do 4 years because only few of her courses were valid on her American transcript.
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platano says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:09: I agree with Sylvie... Finish your degree in Los Andes. Then apply for a post-grad scholarship. My cousin just did that after graduating from Univalle. He got a full scholarship to work on a Master's degree in the USA. Don't throw away the chance to finish and be eligible for post-graduate work (in Spain, Argentina, Mexico or the USA).
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adrimm (☼Travelguide writer) says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:13: Question If one enters the US on a 2 year Visa, can one leave the country within the time frame, and then return (at a date before the Visa expires) to stay until it expires?
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Sylvie says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:26: Good thinking adrimm! I think you can do that. Atleast for Canada you can. One of my cowokers is doing that with her working visa.
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aztec says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:38: Review all your options We need more information re. your circumstances.
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Neonovo says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:40: Mag, so what did you decide? I say is a toss-up; Cara o sello?
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poco says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:40: Key word - Haunted Haunted by missed Opportunities, not something you need 30 years from now. Especially the one you describe. "When you men get home and face an anti-war protester, look him in the eyes and shake his hand. Then, wink at his girlfriend, because she knows she's dating a pussy." Quote - General Tommy Franks 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jbk0904 says on Aug 19, 2005, 11:59: Your country needs you.... Go back to Colombia... for the future of Colombia, your country needs many highly educated technocrats like you. You have very high education in both countries. Now go back to Colombia and contribute to her. There are not many educated people over there. You can go back to school to teach students like you and work in the private company or work for the government. Colombia needs professional mind young technocrats for the her development. Do it for your people. Reform the system of country in a positive direction. President Uribe needs more people like you...God bless you and Colombia
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viewpoint says on Aug 19, 2005, 12:05: The pitfall that Sylvie, Platano and Adrimm point out about the inability to transfer the spanish lanuage credits to an english language university (after four years of study) is something I never gave enough weight to. Regardless of what you do their advice is probably correct that you should finish the last year in Colombia even if you pursue your further education in the USA.
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kernow62 says on Aug 19, 2005, 12:09: Not many educated people in Colombia?
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jbk0904 says on Aug 19, 2005, 12:13: yes Yes..there are many educated people in Colombia..but..for example..there are so many CPA in Bogota.. but their education level in college is little more thank book keeping. I am talking about professional technocrats.. Love Colombia
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jbk0904 says on Aug 19, 2005, 12:14: correction little more thank book keeping...=== a little more than book keeping.
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adrimm (☼Travelguide writer) says on Aug 19, 2005, 12:20: Really? So how then do you explain that there are Colombians with Colombian undergrad education doing grad studies outside of the country?
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Sylvie says on Aug 19, 2005, 12:28: Viewpoint, you're girlfreind got lucky with 27 credits. My friend only got 9 credits transfered out of the two years she did. She was really disappointed because she wasted her time.
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kernow62 says on Aug 19, 2005, 12:29: The number of universities alone is quite impressive, just look how many there are in Bogota alone.
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viewpoint says on Aug 19, 2005, 13:46: Sylvie The only reason she got that many credits transferred was because of my personal and business contacts at the "caribbean" university and the fact that she was a mostly "A" student on their honor roll.
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Miguel says on Aug 19, 2005, 15:41: UC Time to put your "disclaimer" back on stupid ass comments like the one about 600.000 unhappy colombianos here in the States. Y, aproposito, creo que usted no es muy contento aqui en mi pais.
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 19, 2005, 17:48: Damm, they're NOT all unhappy? Geez, you wouldn't know it from PBH. The gang here describe life in the USA like doing time in some kind of institution. Glad you pointed that out - I never would have known otherwise. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Sonny says on Aug 19, 2005, 17:58: UTC This is great. I love you attitude. Kinda reminds me of HULK HOGAN when he went from the great good guy to the very bad bad guy and then back to the good guy but what you say is true. If you read all the post then you would know that most people on this site hate the USA and can't wait to get away from it. You read the Visa side and they can't wait to get here. I think someone is very confused. It is kind of simple actually. Those that do not like the USA just leave and let the new blood that wants to come, come. That way the post here will be fresh and new. What do you think? 600,000 wow. Just think of all the new comments that lay ahead.
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 19, 2005, 18:36: What an honor to be compared to Hulk Hogan. Actually posting on this site is a lot like professional wrestling. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Sonny says on Aug 19, 2005, 18:48: UTC It is a good thing that Andre the Giant is not around. Hang in there UTC. It is good to know that you can speak your mind to some of this garbage. Good for you.
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platano says on Aug 19, 2005, 21:32: UTC, Don't make me start citing scientific studies about how unhappy people are in the USA...
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miamimike says on Aug 19, 2005, 22:17: Foreign College Transcript Evauluation in the USA This issue was discussed in depth in the very recent past; while there seems to be a debate on the process, "Communidad" lists steps for various professions and more or less, what the applicant needs to follow as far as validating and transferring credit. I don't think who you know, who your sponsor is, ect will influence the outcome significantly. Nor should it! It should be a transparent objective fair process so all are treated the same. The folks who really get a BIG break are graduates of Cuban Universities-their courses(at least nurses and Docs)transfer equally across the board. The debate over the fairness of this continues to this day but that is the law currently. Several AMERICAN MINORITY students are currently attending Medical School in Havana, Cuba and are being hosted by the Cuban Government-Free of Charge. Once they graduate, their courses will transfer 1 to 1 across the board. These students were unable to attend Med School here in the US, due to cost or maybe they did not have influence here in the US to gain entry. Family influence plays a big part in gaining admission to some of the better known Universities here in the USA such as Harvard, no matter what the grades were. Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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viewpoint says on Aug 20, 2005, 03:56: MiamiMike Interesting post !!! Are the Medical Courses in Cuba that can be transfered 1 to 1 (accross the board after graduation) taught in english ?
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aztec says on Aug 20, 2005, 05:00: Reference unhappy Colombians It is my observations that people who are unhappy in the US will be unhappy in Colombia. In other words people who have generally unhappy and unpleasant personalities will also reflect those personalities where ever they go.
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kernow62 says on Aug 20, 2005, 09:08: The way I look at thing is you can be unhappy with certain aspects of life in the US or Colombia or wherever, that doesn't make you an unhappy person, nor does it mean you hate the US. I just happen to know for a fact that some things are better in other countries, but I love the US all the same.
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 20, 2005, 09:24: With regards to whether a professional can practice in the US, there are some advantages to coming from another English country. Since we share the same legal system, lawyers from Canada, England, Australia and NZ will usually have no problems getting admitted to the bar here. I know several lawyers here who went to law school in Canada and were able to take the bar exam here just like the graduate of an American school. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Aug 20, 2005, 09:28: People from the US are much like Colombians in this regard. It's ok for "one of us" to criticize but "one of them" better not say anything negative. It's really a double standard but I guess it's understandable. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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miamimike says on Aug 20, 2005, 09:42: Viewpoint- beleive the School is taught in English because in the below attached article it says nothing about Spanish being a pre-Req. Furthermore it also says they are taught and housed apart from the other Cuban Medical Students though am not 100% sure if its in eng. or Esp.. Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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miamimike says on Aug 20, 2005, 09:49: BTW-Colombia also sends Medical Students to Cuba Colombian government sends Colombians to study in Cuba Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CaryGrant says on Aug 20, 2005, 10:06: MaG - ultimately, of course, you will have to decide what is best for you. Others can only tell you what they *believe* they would do were they in a similar situation. Life is meaningless if you are not happy. You can make millions in the US - or Colombia - and still be extremely unhappy.
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viewpoint says on Aug 20, 2005, 10:33: MiamiMike Very interesting posts !!! I had read (and heard) about Cuba medical schools but I had never realized that they were taught in english.
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miamimike says on Aug 20, 2005, 13:24: Viewpoint-the course is in Spanish! I was curious a so I checked into ita a little farther and Yes, it is in Spanish according to this article by the Canadian Medical Group: Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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miamimike says on Aug 20, 2005, 13:29: Can't undrstand that comment By Joe Garcia of the CANF as to these "Students probably never will be licensed in the US" And he's from Miami-home to 800,000 Cubans and Many Doctors were trained in Cuba and passed the USME here in Florida. Many also failed the Medical exam due to their lack of English.Many. This won't be the case with these younger students as English is their first langauge. Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CaryGrant says on Aug 20, 2005, 13:36: How can Americans study in Cuba? I thought is was illegal for Americans to go there, never mind live.
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miamimike says on Aug 20, 2005, 18:34: Not Illegal to go to Cuba Illegal to spend our money there. These students expenses are 100% covered by the Cuban Government so no law of any type is being broken.Some of the Right wing loonies here in Miami would differ but thats their problem. Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Hunter says on Aug 21, 2005, 03:19: Waivers are also given to certain American Citizens, tei groups that recently visit that come to mind are some Politicians and Grain exports.
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