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I didn't want to offend anybody

But your comments don't hurt my feelings because I don't know you guys and my comments shouldn't offend you either because you don't know me. I believe that not everybody that goes to colombia marry for selfish reasons or to get a green card and I believe in dating websites, I used to love those before I got married. And that's how I met my lovely husband and before anybody says anything he's not old or ugly or loaded in money. I married him because I'm in love with him and we respect each other. we even have a two year old boy. So I'm so sorry if I offended the nice honest people of this site. And I agree not all colombian women are beautiful and I don't think there's nothing wrong with the american women. You attacking me but you go and made those comments about american women, Ok! where's the study about that subject?

By sweetg30 on Dec 14, 2006, 19:59 in Friendly Talkzone. AddThis Social Bookmark Button


Plato says on Dec 14, 2006, 20:09:

O.K. SweetG30, welcome to the forum. It seems you started a little rough there, but there could always be misunderstandings. I'm relatively new here myself and this community has known each other for quite some time. I think some one advised you to check the terrain first and feel out community. That's good advice.

I'm orignally from Queens (Jackson Heights, Elmhurst, and Corona) - Old school, however. Queens has changed a lot since I've been there.

Regards,

Plato

The hottest places in hell are reserved for those [liberals] who, in time of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.--Dante Alighieri, (1265-1321)

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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 14, 2006, 20:14:

SG30.....welcome to PBH as well! i did not take offense to your questions...i took them as you wanted to know why some things here are the way they are here on PBH.....No harm, no foul, as they say..but i think more respect should be given to Colombian women, and women in general....but we are what out parents made us out to be....i would hope =)


...Just my opinion...

Miguel_Clavo.....Colombia es pasión!

"F.A.R.C..S.U.C.K.S"

"I would rather die living life, than to live a dying life."........ Oh, and my PM is always ON. Great Bumper Sticker: "Home of the Free, Because of the Brave"

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sweetg30 says on Dec 14, 2006, 20:18:

thanks plato "I think some one advised you to check the terrain first and feel out community. That's good advice."
Nobody advised me to do anything I just don't like to offend people for the hell of it. I'm not that bored or evil and I made a mistake by making generalizations about the subject, that's all. I have friends in real life that I talk to and care about so if you guys don't like my comments and I don't like it here I can always go somewhere else. I agree Queens has changed a lot but I still love it here, my husband doesn't like me going there because he thinks is dangerous but I don't care, I love Roosevelt I kind of feel closer to my Colombia.

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sweetg30 says on Dec 14, 2006, 20:25:

I agree Miguel and thanks More respect should be given to women in general.
"but we are what out parents made us out to be...." I agree with that too, so blame my mom for my big mouth y por no dejar que nadie me diga lo que tengo que hacer o decir :D

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Plato says on Dec 14, 2006, 20:29:

SweetG30, please stay. Like I said, welcome. People write crazy stuff here all the time. After awhile, you'll get to know some people here, and vice-versa.

I haven't posted for a while since I been busy. It's a cool site and very much focused on Colombia or all things Colombian. I like the common interest here. Much to learn.

I have family that live in Queens.

Plato

The hottest places in hell are reserved for those [liberals] who, in time of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.--Dante Alighieri, (1265-1321)

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goin_south says on Dec 14, 2006, 23:48:

I think you have offended... yourself, Sweetp

Where do we go from here?

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 05:19:

No my dear i did not offended myself not at all, "some of you guys were offended" I wasn't.
I was being my natural self when something gets me upset and I cannot help but "talk" or express my opinion.
cojanla suave gente no es para tanto, after all is just another crazy woman, :P

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 05:20:

I'm going to stay until I get bored and then I won't bother you guys as much.

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 05:24:

I agree I find this site fascinating, it's not like other colombian site.
so where are you now plato?

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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:07:

You met your husband on an internet site? You slut.

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:22:

What? does that make you feel like a man? to call me an slut? Was that meant as an insult? i don't know, but this is what I was talking about before.

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gringolondinense says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:27:

If UC called me a slut I would take it as a compliment. Cheers!

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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:30:

Uh, oh, I met my wife on the internet too. Damm, I guess that makes both me and her sluts too. Since we'll all sluts, Sweetg, how about it?

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:32:

mira bobo, let's just all be sluts if you're into that and that makes u happy

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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:34:

I thought you were going shopping today? Isn't trading insults with me going to make you late?

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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cali373 says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:36:

utopiacowboy I hope you were kidding. I am not sure how old you are, or what circles your in but the reality is that especially in the U.S. and Europe a large amount of couples meet online. How does that make a female a slut? If that is the case then the US is a nation of sluts because in Colombia most woman are not connected "online", whereas in the US much more are. The internet is the singles bar of the new millenium. Get over it. But I try to put myself in a position of some woman not only in Colombia but other latin american developing nations. Where they have a high proportion of "Machisto" woman battering men to choose from. Maybe a decent looking gringo would not be so bad. I would probably go for the gringo and increase my opportunities for a better life. We all try different ways to make our lives better. Some of us become better educated, but most colombians (especially) do not have that opportunity, so why not try what they can get. I will be honest, I would not want one of those women.

Smile if you are a thinker!

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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:38:

If I were a Colombiana I would disembowel myself in a ritual act of hari kari before I would marry a gringo.

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:39:

yes you're right. I'm already late, shoot. And I have to go to the gym first, now I'm really late. Your fault, Slut!

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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:40:

Oh yeah, well I'm late for class too. So there! And so's your mother!

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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cali373 says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:44:

I am confused. Who is the slut now? i cannot beleive all of you dragged me along in this meaningless thread. Well it's a slow day at work.

Smile if you are a thinker!

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billyb says on Dec 15, 2006, 06:56:

UC, see what you caused now? made one late and confused another so they couldn't get their work done. Are you happy now? That's ok, I know the answer.

BillyB

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TioJoe says on Dec 15, 2006, 08:26:

Internet Dating Meeting a possible wife or husband -- lets see they could try to hook up at the local bar however a little risky and not very romantic. Another option could be to try to meet a religious righteous fanatic at the Sunday social at church. Then of course the person could make the ultimate mistake of trying to connect with someone they work with and take a run at sexual harassment and the daily hell that no doubt would follow if they ended the relationship. Suddenly the thought of internet dating doesn't look so bad.

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goin_south says on Dec 15, 2006, 10:08:

'US is a nation of sluts'... and, the world is a ghetto.

Where do we go from here?

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Desideria (Moderator) says on Dec 15, 2006, 13:44:

internet dating II "where no one is who their picture seems to be... jaja"



Cheers,
Desi







«Sé que los seres humanos y los peces podrán coexistir en paz». ( George W. Bush, Saginaw 29-09-00)

"When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth)

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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:08:

Dangers of Internet Relationships....heres my favorite... i used it presentations at local high schools to illustrate a point about internet perverts..




Just my opinion...

Miguel_Clavo.....Colombia es pasión!

"F.A.R.C..S.U.C.K.S"

"I would rather die living life, than to live a dying life."........ Oh, and my PM is always ON. Great Bumper Sticker: "Home of the Free, Because of the Brave"

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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:16:

Good posts above and probably fairly accurate about PBH posters as well. Which is why it's a hoot when people actually believe the nonsense posted here.

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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utopiacowboy says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:32:

Odd. My experience is the complete opposite. The hot 16 year old chicks always turn out to be old guys or women. I guess I deserve it for being a congenital liar.

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

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johnarizona says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:36:

Like they don't misrepresent theirselves in person also...it's just obviously more subtle.

SweetG, couldn't you love and respect this guy if he was old, ugly or loaded in money; or all three at once...?

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Desideria (Moderator) says on Dec 15, 2006, 14:45:

I've met lots of people that I've first met on forums and chatrooms. All of them have been just like they said they were. No misrepresentation whatsoever. Now, I admit, I'm not one to hang out on chats finding a novio on the other side of the globe, but I've made lots of new friends on the net and the ones I've met in real life have been just as I expected them to be.

I know, however, that there's a lot of weird things going on and lots of misrepresentation and bluff, but mostly on dating sites and chats.

Cheers,
Desi

«Sé que los seres humanos y los peces podrán coexistir en paz». ( George W. Bush, Saginaw 29-09-00)

"When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth)

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 17:49:

What's wrong with the pic of the guy? I once had a professor that resemble that overweight guy and I though he was so nice and sweet. if i wasn't married already I would marry that man. maybe i can track him down and talk to him

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sweetg30 says on Dec 15, 2006, 17:50:

What's wrong with the pic of the guy? I once had a professor that resemble that overweight guy and I though he was so nice and sweet. if i wasn't married already I would marry that man. maybe i can track him down and talk to him

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billyb says on Dec 15, 2006, 17:58:

SweetG, he goes by the initials of UC.... that might help you in your search for him.

BillyB

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chrispej says on Dec 15, 2006, 18:54:

I know your type, Sweetg Your are having fun with us, aren't you? You are a sweetheart!

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elchantajista says on Dec 15, 2006, 18:59:

i move that If u stay we rename this the SWEET TALK ZONE and then u can tell us what bad gringos we r, oye ducle that 30 means a usted tiene 30 anos o a usted nacio en 1930
anda de parranda Y buscar la concha en Cali
"Vicente"

anda de parranda al Juanchito "Vicente"

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goin_south says on Dec 15, 2006, 21:38:

"if i wasn't married already I would marry that man." Sg_30? You might get lost in that fold between his 'side & thigh' and never be able to get to a computer again.

Where do we go from here?

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TioJoe says on Dec 15, 2006, 23:42:

SweetG -- the refrain is getting old peace and a smile

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Miguel_Clavo says on Dec 15, 2006, 23:58:

Mario..."details, details" dont tell anyone else, ok?? =) Just my opinion...

Miguel_Clavo.....Colombia es pasión!

"F.A.R.C..S.U.C.K.S"

"I would rather die living life, than to live a dying life."........ Oh, and my PM is always ON. Great Bumper Sticker: "Home of the Free, Because of the Brave"

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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 06:51:

elchantajista, eres demasiado gracioso, estoy que me muero de la risa aqui donde estoy sentada, el 30 significa que tengo 30 años, no puedo creer que tenga que estar explicando estas clases de cosas, por favor.

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sweetg30 says on Dec 16, 2006, 06:53:

galecito i'll be more than happy To get lost in all that fat, what's wrong with that?
that's always been my fantasy.

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