This might be a difficult question to answer but I figure someone has to know. So my fiance is pregnant (according to my other post some people not knowing me or girlfriend want to suggest that I get a paternity test would be a good idea suggesting the baby might not be mine which is the rudest thing you can say to someone) we starting the process before the pregnancy and it will be a real tight squeeze with her getting here before. I think that we most likely will get the k1 before but the question is with my insurance at my work it is going to be tough for me to marry her, get on the plan and wait out the waiting period for the insurance to approve it before she gives birth what are our other options? I live in San Francisco, California which has a bunch of government programs (i plan on researching them) also thinking maybe we should wait it out in Colombia and she can have the baby there with the insurance she is under. I just wanted to see what other people thought.
By njtea5 on Oct 5, 2008, 12:43 in Friendly Talkzone.
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Gator says on Oct 5, 2008, 14:02: You have six months to use the K-1 (this is NOT the time period, 90 days, you must marry after being admitted to the USA.). That, coupled with the normal wait for the K-1 to be issued, the rational, to me anyway, would have her have the baby in Colombia. I doubt if your US insurance would cover. She will likely not be eligible for US government benefits until she receives her provisional permanent residency. "Credidi pretio parvo emere et magno vendere tibi in animo fuisse!" . 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Corey3368 says on Oct 5, 2008, 14:17: I was able to file the paperwork to add my wife onto my health ins. prior to our marriage although it was not in effect until the date of our marriage. I did have to send in a copy of our marriage certificate to validate the ins.
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Corey3368 says on Oct 5, 2008, 14:19: I wonder if the health ins. company would cover the delivery or consider it a pre-existing condition? Never know with these companies.
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Robert Jorge says on Oct 5, 2008, 14:24: And my apologies njtea. I was the dick who suggested the paternity test in the older post. I am personally getting burned right now - so I can be a little harsh with my words. And several other guys here on PBH have gotten hurt real bad too. I was just trying to suggest that you be careful. But you are correct, we don't know you or your lady. Only you know what's going on. He who farts in church, sits in his own pew. 0 funny, 1 helpful. |
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ujay says on Oct 5, 2008, 14:36: i still say take the test,your in the usa ,she is here ,get real..... http://www.jukelightning.com 0 funny, 1 helpful. |
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ujay says on Oct 5, 2008, 14:56: and one more thing , http://www.jukelightning.com 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Oct 5, 2008, 14:57: Ujay - I am not a big Micheal Moore fan. I'll pass on the video. Plus, I don't want to start a thread hijacking by getting into healthcare and politics. He who farts in church, sits in his own pew. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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ujay says on Oct 5, 2008, 15:10: well its healthcare hes asking about is it not . http://www.jukelightning.com 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Robert Jorge says on Oct 5, 2008, 15:15: Correct ujay - but I have that wierd feeling the OP doesn't necessarily need us discussing politics, world healthcare, and that crap in this thread. Anyway, I am off to Friday's for a couple of cold beers. I'll be back later. He who farts in church, sits in his own pew. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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ujay says on Oct 5, 2008, 15:21: tgi ,great order me one ,longisland on ice. http://www.jukelightning.com 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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njtea5 says on Oct 5, 2008, 18:20: Ujay I never said I didn't plan on being there when my child is born if it is in Colombia or in California I plan on be there. It wasn't planned but we have been together for 3 years and for 2 1/2 years we lived together in Medellin so I know her a lot better then you do, and that is my child. I got her pregnant when I was there for 10 days visiting.But anyway thatnks for your concern but "get real" and you shouldn't make allegations when you don't know anything about us. Also I don't under the whole condom thing and living in San Francisco? What does living in SF have to do with having sex with my fiance without condoms?
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Gringo Spy says on Oct 5, 2008, 18:26: njtea5: Don't feed that disrespectful punk!
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njtea5 says on Oct 5, 2008, 18:30: How is that disrespectful? And why the name calling? PUNK are serious?
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Mongo says on Oct 5, 2008, 18:42: nitea5, I think Gringo Spy was trying to tell you that ujay is the disrespectful punk and that you shouldn't "feed" him by responding to his posts. "Here in Colombia, it's about adding life to your years, not years to your life." Brian Andrews 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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miamimike says on Oct 5, 2008, 18:44: For Medical Procedures in Colombia, You need to ask your US Insurance company if you or the wife are covered, as in some cases, the coverage is good for Colombia. They(US Mailhandlers insurance) paid for 75% of my Dental work in Colombia. Do you think the Bogota US Embassy workers go back to the USA every time they need medical care? Of course not, they use their US based health Insurance in Bogota. They may, like I had to, prepay their bill and have the dentist/medical provider provide Documentation of their work you can submit when when you return to the US. In my case, I received my money($1500) within 2 weeks of filing my claim. Give it a try and ask but don't assume just because its US based they won't! Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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njtea5 says on Oct 5, 2008, 19:00: Oh ok now I get it sorry about that Gringo Spy, my mistake, thanks for the backing.
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Gator says on Oct 5, 2008, 19:09: Problem is, he is not married yet. Again, most US Policies will not cover a preg. "after the fact." "Credidi pretio parvo emere et magno vendere tibi in animo fuisse!" . 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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njtea5 says on Oct 5, 2008, 19:16: Well I really don't have to worry about coverage in Colombia, she is covered and we upped the health care so she has really good insurance, the thing is if she was able to come to the states before what can I do about getting her insured here. I think the bottom line is waiting for her to have the baby in Colombia which is sad because I miss her and I want her here asap and if we have to wait thats another 3 months which doesn't sound like anything but after all the bull shit that we have been through to get her here 3 extra months will feel like a year.
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Mongo says on Oct 5, 2008, 19:24: I wish I had the answer for you njtea5. I just don't know anything about insurance... "Here in Colombia, it's about adding life to your years, not years to your life." Brian Andrews 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mongo says on Oct 5, 2008, 19:30: No hay problemo, amigo. "Here in Colombia, it's about adding life to your years, not years to your life." Brian Andrews 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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ujay says on Oct 5, 2008, 21:42: When the cats away the mice will play,how many guys you know play away when not at home ,I don't think women are any different than us ,and not Colombian women any way ,but it was meant generally not aimed directly at your girl. http://www.jukelightning.com 0 funny, 1 helpful. |
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miamimike says on Oct 5, 2008, 22:52: I have to laugh at McCain saying his plan gives a $5000 Tax Credit for one year of Health insurance coverage. Here in Miami, you can hardly touch a Barebone family policy for $13,000 from Blue Cross/shield. For a healthy single, age 50, NO pre-existing conditions, you are looking at $900 monthly for a half-decent Blue Cross plan. McCain needs to provide the same kind of coverage he receives from his Government policy that we the taxpayers subdize. No money for universal coverage but he finds $2 Billion weekly for the Iraq War and $700 Billion to bail out his Wall st buddies he helped deregulate. Avatar Legend: Bush "If any of you Reporters are wondering, it was a Size 10" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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lpdiver says on Oct 6, 2008, 05:23: Although it doesn't apply to the OP others may find it useful. In my case my insurance WOULD cover my wife in Colombia. It had a default of 70 % coverage. As it turns out we never needed it. "cook some rice!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Bunyipcatcher says on Oct 6, 2008, 13:28: Njtea5,
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lpdiver says on Oct 7, 2008, 03:29: Precisely HOW does Australia control EVERY other country in the world and whether or not they will issue someone a passport. Inquiring minds would like to know? "cook some rice!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Bunyipcatcher says on Oct 7, 2008, 08:48: Ipdiver, they dont. Where did you come up with that from?
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lpdiver says on Oct 10, 2008, 08:35: Bunyipcatcher said on Oct 6, 2008 at 13:28..."But in Australia a child born there can only have an Australian passport." I came up from that in your post. "cook some rice!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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