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GoodBye Hillary

In her last post (which is now locked), this gringa attempted to lay the blame for all of the problems of Colombia on male tourists. Normally, I would just laugh this off as just another pathetic attempt to blame men for everything, but she is just soooo far in left field that I decided to respond.

First of all she mentions that most prostitutes don’t really like their jobs… yeah, so what ? Do men really look forward to going to work in a coal mine or a steel mill or digging ditches or hauling garbage or pouring concrete or fixing toilets ? Most of the time prostitutes just sit around on their ass, but when they do work, they make far more money than most of the women who choose “honest� work. And if they are lucky enough to work in a high-class escort agency, they can make more than most of the men who go to them. So I’m supposed to feel sorry for someone who has no real training or talent, but makes $50,000 or $100,000 a year (tax free)? I don’t think so. And what about dancers or models or other entertainers ? Are we supposed to feel sorry for Sofia Vergara or Shakira who have both made a ton of money selling sex ? She can revile tourists all she wants, but their money does more to help those women and their children than anything their own government / community does.

Then she has the nerve to blame us for everything from poor Colombian mothers to the ongoing civil war, and voicing disgust that we would take advantage of the situation; “That you would go to Colombia to pick off its bones like turkey vultures is just despicable�. That is just crap, plain and simple. If a family travels to Cartegena for a cheap vacation are they taking advantage of the country ? If they buy emeralds or gold or any other souvenirs to take home are they picking the bones of the country ? And what about the Colombians and others who go to the U.S. or Europe just to make money (and send it to their family back home), are they despicable vultures also?

The current swell of ignorant, sanctimonious people rising to power in the U.S. is extremely dangerous and is driving the U.S. back into the dark ages. They won’t be happy until we return to burning heretics.

By Albatross on Jul 8, 2005, 09:53 in Friendly Talkzone. AddThis Social Bookmark Button


Albatross says on Jul 8, 2005, 09:59:

Thread name The thread I was referring to is titled

"Hey Moderator..Three's been Whole lot of deleting going on.. on this forum.."

“Democracy - a pathetic belief in the collective wisdom of individual ignorance." - H.L. Mencken

caslug says on Jul 8, 2005, 10:18:

Hey Moderator.. If you notice that thread PRIOR to Hilary entering it we WERE NOT TALKING ABOUT HOOKERS! Then she accuse GRINGOS of the following:

What's my point?
Submitted by Hilary05 on Fri, 07/08/2005 - 02:39.

What's my point? What's my point? What is it... Oh yeah, que el site no es de Colombia es de ellos. Cuando vivi alla no sabia nada de toda esa cosa de dating y las chicas. Lo que quiero decir es eso - para una persona que trabjaba, que vivia alla - si esa cosa realmente no existia - entonces realmente es una cosa - perdon, es un COMERCIO - de los gringos losers - buscando gatas alla. En otras palabras ES COSA GRINGA - no es cosa Colombiana. Estan operando en un PLANO A LADO de Colombia - no adentro de Colombia. And every once in a while you reach in with your disgusting hands and foul up the place. And you think you're rock stars. Es cuando alguien va a Jamaica para ir a Club Med. No ven jamaica - la verdadera jamaica. Ven club Med - a silly resort that uses Jamaica for a parking spot. Pero en este caso sera club puta pa ustedes. Eso no es vida Colombiana. Es vida estupida gringa. It's sex tourism. Eso es.

MY REPLY..

Hilary..
Submitted by caslug on Fri, 07/08/2005 - 03:03.

Bashing gringos is JUST as bad as any sterotype. I've met all types of Gringos from the ones that chase chicas to ones that help build church. Most of the guys that chase chicas are COL. AND we're NOT talking about sex tourism/prostition, which also has WAY more COL customer than GRINGOS.

Poster wonder why we can't ask questions about cultural differences and sterotype, and unfortunately those sterotype about COL are USUALLY negative. BUT By asking questions and have people answer them with their own POV/experience everyone benefits. For example, i once ask if being COL women are GENERALLY LATE arriving for a date/meeting, the general consensus was YES, it happens a lot, BUT not with EVERY women.

I think if you were on this forum a year ago, you would see lot of sterotype being dispell(all COL men cheat, all COL r Drug trafficer, all COL women are visa ho, all COL is dangerous, etc.,) BUT if you constantly delete threads then those stereotype will cont. If notice most of us that visit/live in COL come away with a balance understanding of BOTH good AND bad of COL. So when some post generalization(both good/bad) we will counter it, to give a balance view.
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Then Cerealkiller asked "is prositution LEGAL in COL". I mention it's legal JUST like in MANY countries(incl, USA/Canada, etc.,)

Why is the post LOCK when ONE poster(HILARY) came in automatically "baiting" and "sterotyping" and another (CEREAL) asked a legitimate social question. Which was address. I think if you allow the thread to cont. it would either A) died out for lack of interest or B) cont. back on topic(to much censureship). Hence no need to lock the thread. EVEN the most divise thread(ie, racism in COL) eventually died out and in THAT thread it was LOT LESS CIVIL than this one.

caslug says on Jul 8, 2005, 10:24:

It's ELMO'S FAULT!!! LOL!! SO the ONLY thing i can think of is ONCE ELMO posted, the thread pass the "invisible" line. ESPECIALLY since he OUTRIGHT ADMIT to USING prostitute in COL. COULDNT YOU DELETE HIS POST ISNTEAD of LOCKING the thread? Of course ELMO is ELMO and he brings a quirky/vulgar sense of humor to any thread he post in.

WHATEVER HAPPEN to SENSE of HUMOR on THIS BOARD?

elmodefoque says on Jul 8, 2005, 10:39:

throw that sexist pig (elmo) out, all he talks about is sex, drugs, hookers, how colombianas don't like him and how muche he loves j-lo's ass to a point where he's willing to have her take a dump on him.
that guy is disgusting

caslug says on Jul 8, 2005, 10:45:

DAMM RIGHT ELMO!!! WE SHOULD BANNED YOU!! JA, JA.. Afterall you give COL BURRAS a bad reputation, next thing you know there's be TONS of HORNY, DESPERATE GRINGOS(lacking social consicous, or hygiene) coming down to BAQ to "take advantage" of poor, starving BURRAS. ALL BECAUSE of your post detailing and expounding on the pleasure one can get from that.

elmodefoque says on Jul 8, 2005, 10:51:

onece those burras see a blue passport they are all over you, hell, they also wanna get the f--k outta there, no aspca overthere to save their ass from horny drunken corronchos.

elmodefoque says on Jul 8, 2005, 11:06:

i think i bring valuable info to this site, how many here knew that poor colombian guys from the northern coast are having sex with donkeys? not many! my gringo brothers never get to see or learn about the real colombia which is 60% dirt poor. i lived that life. most tourist immediatly head to nice hotels and hang out with well to do and middle class colombians. shit, if i did not have to hang out in the poor side of town i guess i would not go there either but unfortunatly many of my family and friends are still there and i like hanging with those poor ass modefoques anyway. once a corroncho always a corroncho.

kat1 (Moderator) says on Jul 8, 2005, 11:06:

Gold diggers Burras I knew there were into something with you Elmo, just watch it Dear.

poco says on Jul 8, 2005, 11:22:

Transportation - No way prostitutes just sit around on their ass

I doubt that, they'd be bow-legged in no time. Plus the ass may be required for,,,, hauling ass ?

"Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov

tomtom33 says on Jul 8, 2005, 12:09:

Not locked - GONE There are Hilary's all over the world. I really enjoy pissing them off. But I don't let their narrow-mindedness bother me. Let them spout. Their opinions won't change nor will mine.

Me gustan las grillas.

elmodefoque says on Jul 8, 2005, 12:19:

i love strippers and hookers and when i aint got no money a blue eyed burra will do just fine!
i'm out! chaooo

paisa29 says on Jul 8, 2005, 12:30:

Why you moderators dont delete comments like this also?:

" love strippers and hookers and when i aint got no money a blue eyed burra will do just fine!"
Elmo

DayTripper says on Jul 8, 2005, 13:15:

Gringas crying tears over Latinas I also get sick of Gringas are crying tears over Latinas.
Albatros is right. Especially high-class prostitues have a very high income.
If they don't like their work why aren't they working in a shop or something simular.
Of course there is human tragedy in prostitution.
Old women or women with children who offer their body for practically nothing.
But there are quite a lot of good looking, healhty, young women that work as a prositute. They can have another job. But they like the money and the luxury.
What bothers me most is that especially gringas opposite things like this. Thank God there are still real Latinas in this world. I am happy that a live right. In 20 years also South America will be Americanized and there will not be any real Latinas anymore.

Crazy4Cali says on Jul 8, 2005, 13:36:

Just follow the rules... You can talk about "strippers, hookers (and burras)" because you're not talking about dating them.

caslug says on Jul 8, 2005, 13:41:

Well ELMO..While I THINK you BRING.. A NEEDED perspective on COL, afterall 60% of the people there live in POVERTY and we dont get to many of those poster on this site(ELMO&MRS GOMEZ) are the only i know of. Unfortunately when you talk about poverty in COL, you also need to talk about factors that contribute to it or relate to it, lack of education, lack of opportunity, classism, war, crime, drug trafficing, prostitution, etc., Yet couple of those subject cannot be discuss in a academic setting without some posters feeling offended, because it potrays COL in a bad light.

If you talk about US, there's lots of good things BUT you can also dicuss bad things too(racism, religious extremist, intolarance, loss of individual rights, etc.,). I've read lots of anti-american rethoric yet i don't ask that they be censure. BECAUSE in all CASE poster come on and give a balance account to dispell outragously wrong thinking.

caslug says on Jul 8, 2005, 13:43:

I guess asking about getting some ASS.. in COL is OK, as long as it's the 4 legged kind!

Gomezman5 says on Jul 8, 2005, 13:56:

Albatross Superb Comment....Good Job! If I may add, like I said in the other thread, these crazy women think that it's the Gringos that keep the prostitution industry alive in Colombia. Sure, those honest sweet hard working Colombians never patronize the whiskerias in Bogota...only the Gringos do. How utterly absurd?

If another Gringo never got off the plane in Colombia, the prostitution industry would be live and well in Colombia. In fact, they should welcome the Gringos because they probably end up getting fleeced having to pay more for the girls than a Colombian guy would, and at the same time they contrubute to the local economy just by virtue of the fact that they are visiting the country.

BTW, Caslug and Elmo....good posts as well !!

kat1 (Moderator) says on Jul 8, 2005, 15:11:

i'VE NEVER SEEN A BLUE EYE BU I'VE NEVER SEEN A BLUE EYE BURRA

tomtom33 says on Jul 8, 2005, 15:26:

Rumor has it that drug-induced hazes can make brown eyes blue.

caslug says on Jul 8, 2005, 15:27:

Kat..it was probably.. an BLUE EYED, GRINGO ASS that took advantage or her mother, and like gringos that Hilary accuse us of being. That ASS of a gringo, tapped some other asses in the village. I'm actually suprise ELMO only found ONE blue eye BURRA.

kat1 (Moderator) says on Jul 8, 2005, 15:33:

caslug so gringos are not doing their job properly. uhm one blue EYE burra?....

utopiacowboy says on Jul 8, 2005, 15:37:

Unlike Elmo, we're not "big" enough to satisfy burras. Remember I lost a good three inches of solid mahogany when I was "mutilated" as a baby. Speaking of which, where's Platano?

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

caslug says on Jul 8, 2005, 15:41:

I don't know UC.. While maybe the TWO leg GRINGO might not be equip. I can't imagine a FOUR leg GRINGO ASS having that problem.

kat1 (Moderator) says on Jul 8, 2005, 16:03:

I haven't got a clue where is I haven't got a clue where platano is... btw uc I'm sorry about your loss. ;-) 3 inches?..well burras has to complaint no?

utopiacowboy says on Jul 8, 2005, 16:07:

Yes, Kat, I never knew that this was true until Platano pointed it out in an earlier thread how most North American men lose 1/4 to 1/3 of their original length being "mutilated" at an early age. I'm happy with the 9 inches I have left but when I think of the career as a porn star I could have had....

Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult.

Rubiazo says on Jul 8, 2005, 20:04:

Frankly I'm not interested in THE REAL COLOMBIA any more than I was interested in the real Canada I grew up in, or the REAL NEW YORK I live in now.

I'm a sex drugs and rock and roll kinda guy, and there's a hell of a lot more of all that shit going on in Colombia right now than there is here, that much I can guarantee you. If it weren't, my ass would never be getting on that plane.

I really don't give a damn that the average Colombian gets up at 4am or at 2pm or does or doesnt cheat on his SO, smokes weed or not, etc. I have my own tastes and my own lifestyle. It's not like anybody is going to put a gun to your head and do what everybody else is doing anyways, LEAST of all in a place like Colombia!!

I would like to meet Elmo's corroncho buddies, though. They sound like a lot of fun.

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