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Don't know if anyone remembers me. If not-
I'm 20 and English, I have a Colombian boyfriend. He is going to visit Colombia with his sister and her children about June for two months. I want to go and have been saving up for ages. However, he told me there are elections on at that time and it will be quite dangerous. His sister is very worried, but they are both going because they need to see their family. He hasn't been for three years so he says he can't judge how safe it will be.
Speaking to his mother on the phone she said that a couple had been shot in broad daylight at the entrance of a shopping mall very close to his home in north Bogota. He says a few bombs have been going off as well. He is worried because he says if the guerilla saw me I might attract attention because of my obvious foreign-ness (very pale, blonde hair, hardly know Spanish) but then he says its ok cos the guerilla are never in the city.
If I go we are planning to go to San Andres for a bit too, and my boyfriend would like me to see some nature reserves.
What do you think? The furthest away from home I have been is Cyprus which is pretty British now, so I just.don't.have.a.clue. :/
If I do get kidnapped and they ask for a ransom I'm screwed cos I'm poor as hell and so are my relatives.
By Hyla on Feb 19, 2006, 10:25 in Friendly Talkzone.
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poco says on Feb 19, 2006, 12:58: Elections I've been to elections, Hell,, that is the safest place around. Lots of armed police, barricaded streets, no packages allowed in the perimeter, no cars, no motorcycles just a lot of people selling popsicles, ice cream, and treats. The hot dog and food vendors will be just outside the perimeter. "Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Hyla says on Feb 19, 2006, 13:09: You serious about the sex trade? :s I didn't know they used foreigners for that. I thought it was all ransom money.
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ColombiaBoard says on Feb 19, 2006, 14:42: Mmmm.... Ok, I'm going to assume that he loves you so much that he doesn't want you to be anywhere near any perceived or real danger so that's why he seems to be so overprotective, besides he hasn't been in the country in the last three years and there have been big changes in the security situation....here are some real facts:
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ColombiaBoard says on Feb 19, 2006, 14:49: Check this New York Times article about Bogota
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rocinante says on Feb 19, 2006, 16:40: Book the flight immediately I almost get the impression that he's discouraging you from going. He’s giving you conflicting sorts of info – mixed signals? He's not sure when the elections are? Maybe I mis-read between the lines. Anyway, it seems as if your mind is not yet made up as you say, "If I go we are planning to go to San Andres for a bit too ..." "World economic indicators point to a democrat winning 2008. It will surely be Obama. Peso 1400 by November" Feb 5, 2008 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Hyla says on Feb 19, 2006, 16:55: He was fine until his mother told him about the random shooting of the couple outside the shopping mall in daylight. Now he is getting the jitters and realising he is practically responsible for my safety over there :D
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litost says on Feb 19, 2006, 17:26: Well at least it's clear now that there aren't bombs going off in Bogota. Still, this thing about the "random" shooting seems strange... not that it couldn't have happened, just that even so I don't see why it would be a motive for not taking you or panicking. 9 out of 10 times, if this happened, it was something drug or politics related.
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poco says on Feb 19, 2006, 17:30: Don’t worry about the sex trade thing. I don’t know what comes over me. "Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Lionheart says on Feb 19, 2006, 21:10: too much info the shooting in front of the mall was probably a personal issue ... we all know the Colombians have short fuses concerning personal issues. If it was a political issue it would have made it into the news, the various groups make sure that happens.
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Colombiche says on Feb 20, 2006, 06:43: Hi Lionheart Great post! No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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tobntno says on Feb 20, 2006, 07:42: No elections in June Hi,
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Hyla says on Feb 20, 2006, 08:29: But he said there will be protests from the guerilla afterwards?
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Lionheart says on Feb 20, 2006, 08:53: remember European elections Elections in France and Spain also have brought protests and bombings in the past and they will happen again in the future.
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poco says on Feb 20, 2006, 09:11: A fact I had to give up my novia because she is a target, me being a gringo would have put her at more risk, including her kids. "Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Lucia Rojas says on Feb 20, 2006, 14:38: Come!!! You will have a ball!! all the previous advice is excellent. Dont worry and book your flight!
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