Getting engaged -> married... HELP

I hope someone can give me a little advice on this topic from a colombian viewpoint.

In June I am going to see my novia in Cali (and ask her to marry me). I have known her and her family for many years and stayed with them several times while in Colombia. I am of the impression that to "follow the rules" I must ask her parents for permission whereafter we hopefully will acquire their approval. Is this correct ??

Ok, now we assume that this went well.

Should the marriage be held within a certain time period after the engagement, like 3 months or ???

Does colombianas wear engagement rings ??

If there is something typical colombian I am missing in the process of getting married... please let me know.

Gracias,
Valdemar

By valdemar on May 29, 2006, 00:47 in Friendly Talkzone.

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gringolondinense says on May 31, 2006, 06:34: i cant personally help but why dont you try asking your colombiana about what she or her family expect? Sure, Ive heard stories about asking the family for permission first but everyone is different........shit I sound like Riikkkkii Lake or someone. I need a beer! 0 funny, 0 helpful.

lpdiver says on May 31, 2006, 06:58: Sorry...there is no help for you You got yourself into this mess and you have to deal with it!!! Seriously as mentioned above..ask your novia. T "cook some rice!" 0 funny, 0 helpful.

valdemar says on Jun 6, 2006, 21:04: excellent ! thanks Brody, I appreciate the input. I may consider starting with your #6 ... Chao - Jens Chao - Jens 0 funny, 0 helpful.

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