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Something that I have had a lot of trouble with in my life is renting apartments. The problem is that I am quite sensitive to noise. Where I live is like my refuge. It doesn't need to be big. In fact I prefer small in some ways. A small bedroom (just enough to fit a bed and a computer desk), a small kitchen, and a bathroom is all that I need. I just need it to be quiet and private. And in many parts of the world that can be VERY difficult.
I have worked in residential construction a bit and I have some idea how difficult and expensive it is to build an apartment building where the apartments are genuinely acoustically isolated from each other. It is a real challenge. And it is very difficult for a potential tenant to tell the difference between a well designed building and a poorly designed one in terms of sound isolation without living there for a while first.
I can think of only 3 apartments that I have rented in my life where I wasn't disturbed by noise issues enough to feel forced to leave, often breaking a lease in the process. All 3 were in the US (in boston, florida, and california).
Because of this I generally prefer to live in a house. Although even then there are no guarantees of peace and quiet. Especially if there are many children in the neighborhood.
I spent about 2 months in bogota in a nice 2 bedroom apartment in Cedritos (an estrato 4 neighborhood that I really liked). The problem was that, even though the walls were built of concrete, there were various vents and holes that seemed to allow sound through between the apartments. The sound was so clear between the bathrooms for instance that I could hear the neighbors brushing their teeth. The dog in the other apartment would bark at me through the wall whenever I entered my own bathroom or bedroom. Almost like I was a stranger entering his space. That always startled and disturbed me.
And the kitchen didn't have windows but instead had open slats or louvers leading directly into the hallway. So if anyone had conversations in the hallway (which was mercifully infrequent) it was like they were in the same room. And so there is no real privacy except visual. I could hear their conversations quite clearly through the walls. Like they were in the room with me. Although at least my spanish isn't good enough to understand all of it. And when I was talking on the phone I was all too aware that my neighbors would be able to clearly hear every word I said. I know everyone is different in this regard and many people probably wouldn't care. But it bothers me. A lot.
I have lived in worse apartments in this respect. One apartment in montreal seemed to have the most paper thin walls I have ever experienced. If someone was sleeping in the bedroom in the next apartment you could hear them *breathing*. I had to escape that place in just a few weeks. I found myself actually wanting to whisper to people when I talked on the phone.
However, I know that quiet apartment buildings with good sound isolation between apartments *do* exist in the world. I have lived in some. But finding them can be very difficult. I would actually prefer to live in an apartment in Bogota if I could find a genuinely quiet building. I am concerned however that the same careless construction techniques that I noticed in my Cedritos apartment building would be prevalent everywhere else as well. Even in estrato 6 neighborhoods.
If I can't find a truly quiet apartment building in bogota then I will try to find a house, but I have seen how rare houses are in that city. Almost everyone lives in apartments. So finding a house for rent. In a quiet neighborhood. Within the metro bogota area. From a owner that will rent to a foreigner with no cosigner. And for a relatively affordable price (no more than 1,400,000 pesos). Etc... Is going to be a goose chase of the highest order. I already found what seemed like a perfect house. For the right price too. With no cosigner required. But I missed my chance. It was rented to someone else. Any practical advice to this situation would be appreciated. Or if anyone can relate to what I'm talking about.
By the way, I am not really bothered by city noises like traffic etc. It is really only people noises like children yelling, or music, or people talking etc. that I find disturbing. And the lack of privacy due to inadequate sound deadening between apartments is surely the thing that bothers me the most. For many noises I can wear a pair of earplugs for instance, but that won't help me as far as my neighbors hearing me. I really want to spend a year or two (at least) in Colombia, but I need my refuge from noise and other people. And of course I find myself afraid to invite people over :). So it is a very practical problem. Even if it is a purely psychological one. I guess I may be completely crazy, but I can't help it. It's just how I am. If I have a private space, no matter how small, then I am fine. Sometimes I wonder if I would be better off going completely in the opposite direction and just renting a room in someone else's apartment or rent with several roommates so that there would be absolutely no expectation of any privacy at all.
By pariahdog on Mar 16, 2008, 04:42 in Friendly Talkzone.
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gringoloid says on Mar 16, 2008, 06:20: i'm also very sensitive to noise and will be moving out my current address because of a dog, car alarms, school busses, and this one particularly loud bird by window.
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Lostgringo says on Mar 16, 2008, 08:13: I think you should start looking for the Golden Fleece in Bogota as you may have a better chance of finding it. Not meaning to be funny paria, but some of the noise drove me up a wall too. And, what makes it worse is Colombians seem to LOVE noise. I asked a Colombia why there was so much noise, motor cycles, cars, fire crackers, loud music, dogs continually barking, car alarms and the list goes on. He said Colombians feel they are alive when there is noise. I don't know how true that is but I have never seen a Colombian shy away from noise. And many of the apartments you rent do have ventilation in them where you can hear your neighbors. Your Home Away from Home:http://www.welovebogota.com http://www.apartmentinbogota.com "Luxury apartment and rooms Cheap" Only 2 blocks from the American Embassy! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Lowell says on Mar 16, 2008, 08:24: I found a place where the master bedroom is all the way in the back, Also none of the bedroom doors (solid wood) focus towards the front. The back of our house has undesireable to develope land. Hence no neighbors there. Both neighbors don't play music loud or cause nosie problems. Sometimes I here a neighbors rooster very faintly. Kind of living by farm. Only on rare occaions does the bass sounds penetrate enough to notice a bit. I sleep with a fans (celing and fan on stand) going so that also provides a bit of "white noise". Alfred E. Newman. "What. Me Worry?" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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poco says on Mar 16, 2008, 09:10: Quote: It may sound crazy but another trick is to glue or tape egg cartons to the windows. This is also great for accoustics in a room from what I have been told. "Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Lostgringo says on Mar 16, 2008, 09:43: those kind of ear plugs never worked for me. I always get mine in a drug store and they are kind of like wax and easy to use. Check this out regarding noise: Your Home Away from Home:http://www.welovebogota.com http://www.apartmentinbogota.com "Luxury apartment and rooms Cheap" Only 2 blocks from the American Embassy! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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jonas says on Mar 16, 2008, 10:06: Here´s a tip on a barrio which I believe must be the quietest in town and it´s beautiful, too. What I have, I do not want to lose, but Where I am I do not want to stay, but those I love, I do not want to leave, but those I know I no longer want to see, but Where I die, I do not want to go;I want to stay where I have never been 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sloopskipper says on Mar 16, 2008, 10:35: Lostgringo says on Sunday March 16th, 2008 8:13:
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poco says on Mar 16, 2008, 11:40: Cars roaming the streets announcing sales, water system to be out of service, lottery winners etc. are an eveyday occurence. "Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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sloopskipper says on Mar 16, 2008, 11:55: It is sitting in front of the Capital Building in San Juan, prior to a political rally, if I recall.
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poco says on Mar 16, 2008, 13:26: Quote: COOL, paco. Is that Colombia? "Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Atrevido says on Mar 16, 2008, 17:51: The quietest place in Bogotá is the botanical garden. Of course I don´t think you can sleep there.
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poco says on Mar 16, 2008, 18:31: Horse drawn buggy sound system. "Violence is the first refuge of the incompetent" - Isaac Asimov 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Alma del Norte says on Mar 16, 2008, 19:06: Howzabout the US Embassy basement? Bet that's well insulated, quiet. La vida es una rutina 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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pariahdog says on Mar 17, 2008, 01:28: Thanks for all the replies and thanks for the tip, jonas. I sent you a pm. Those pics are funny. Latin America can definitely be loud. The only other Latin American country I have spent a lot of time in was Cuba (a total of about a year). For some reason, I didn't have so much trouble there with noise leaking between apartments. Maybe it's because the buildings in Havana are just so old that they built them to a different standard in those days. Or maybe it was because it was so easy to switch apartments after the first night or two if there was any noise problem at all. One of the few quiet apartments that I lived in (in Boston) was also very old.
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badboy says on Mar 17, 2008, 09:51: pariahdog: have you ever hear of "white noise'? get an electric fan that produces a good amount of blower noise and your problem will be solved. a honeywell super turbo works great for this purpose. can be bought in states for $12-$20. you can block the air from the fan in a number of ways or place it against the wall if the air circulating is too cool. i've drowned out significant outside noise with these. you get used to the hum and don't hear your neighbors.
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Lostgringo says on Mar 18, 2008, 17:11: badboy that's a great idea. I am going to have to try that sometime. Your Home Away from Home:http://www.welovebogota.com http://www.apartmentinbogota.com "Luxury apartment and rooms Cheap" Only 2 blocks from the American Embassy! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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adrimm says on Mar 18, 2008, 18:53: To be honest I would suggest you try lots of buildings. Ask your Colombian friends if you can visit them and "listen" to see what it sounds like inside once all the neighbours are home. This might give you some idea of which buildings to target as you search for a new place to live.
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