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Farewell

A couple of years ago I ditched Colombianblog after being hounded by the politically correct moderators and after having had enough of a particular poster's racist comments. Nobody would call her out on it except me and even though I received a lot of private email in support, no one supported me publicly.

Well, after many years on PBH, it's time to say to hell with it. The moderators have had a continued vendetta against me and refused to take action even against the lowest of the low. They justify this by claiming that somehow I deserved it. How about trying something new and just enforcing the rules regardless of whether you think the person being attacked deserves it or not? How about being impartial instead of partaking in these little battles? You think PBH is going to turn into a wonderful place in my absence? Good luck with that. The place will continue to be as fucked up as it's ever been but you won't have me to blame for the sorry state of PBH. Adios, amigos.

By john_stark on Jan 25, 2008, 22:23 in Friendly Talkzone. AddThis Social Bookmark Button


Robert Jorge says on Jan 25, 2008, 22:31:

Come on JS. And if you are talking about the person I think you are talking about on CBlog, she is one of the reasons I no longer participate there also. Is she the one who lives in the *self deleted* area and has a handle that resembles *self deleted*?

goin_south says on Jan 25, 2008, 22:40:

Farewell, brother.
And, that's a sincere wish, from the Duck.
I can't say I blame you.

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

Buongone says on Jan 25, 2008, 22:42:

What are we going to do without a Cowboy?

Robert Jorge says on Jan 25, 2008, 22:43:

Unlike a few others who publicly announced they were leaving, I hope you change your mind. But if you don't, I would like your Email address so I can shoot you an Email or question every now and then - if it's cool with you. Just PM me. I'll keep it confidential.

Robert Jorge says on Jan 25, 2008, 22:54:

Ooops, I meant to say *self deleted* - not to be confused with *self deleted*.

billyb says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:00:

RJ, I remember that thread and he doesn't mean her either, he means Reina, but he's making a bigger deal of it than it was. Having said that, I don't want to see Utopia leave either. In his own way, he does make sense (sometimes) and cuts through the BS.

billyb says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:04:

Who is JT?

goin_south says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:07:

whatever.. here's one for the cowboy:

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

goin_south says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:08:

and here's another...

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

billyb says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:08:

John Stark's initials are JT? Ok, if you say so, jajaja.

Monpirri says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:11:

John_Stark, don't mind any of them! I would like you to continue posting here on pbh.
I have now realized after all this time who is really responsible for not understanding one's point view regarding certain real experiences and you are NOT responsible for the ignorance of others and I include myself in it. (One day I would like to explain you without too much ambiguity my experience)

I therefore want to extend my hand and give you a firm hand shake as symbol of friendship.

Monpirri

Annette Taddeo for US Congress 2008

goin_south says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:14:

billyb, someone's drinkin, but it ain't Sailor Jerry...

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

eywed says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:20:

See ya J S , I supported bro .

Ay Hombe!!!!!

Robert Jorge says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:20:

Thanks Billyb. I really didn't know who JS was referring to. *self deleted* was the first one that came to mind to me, who was / is openly racist and bigoted; as well as just plain uncouth and *self deleted* like in her "I am right, you are wrong", holier than thou attitude.

eywed says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:21:

Send me your e-mail as well.

Ay Hombe!!!!!

billyb says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:23:

Looks like Fosstle went back and changed both his posts, how weak of him, jajaja. There should be a time limit on the edit function so fools like the above mentioned poster can't change the substance of their idiotic posts.

Monpirri says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:29:

I say there are more than two from co.blog who are really despicable creatures from the cyber gang.

Annette Taddeo for US Congress 2008

goin_south says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:33:

ESLuelita?

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

Monpirri says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:40:

We are all aware of the hyenas who confront other members in the open, but are we aware of the ones who operate or manipulate the show from behind the scenes in co.blog?

Annette Taddeo for US Congress 2008

Robert Jorge says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:52:

I am not aware - nor do I care to spend the energy trying to figure it out. I just know that the other site has become a sewing circle - a womens club at the hairdresser on Saturday, type of atmosphere. It is very elitist, and I am certainly not near many of the "regulars" level of intellegence: nor am I smart enough to be a *self deleted*.

travelingirl says on Jan 25, 2008, 23:53:

JS, I'm back! No need for you to leave now! :(

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

Robert Jorge says on Jan 26, 2008, 00:07:

Come on UTC, JS, EDLT, etc. You can't leave now. Even the hot chicks want you to stay.

RAAAY says on Jan 26, 2008, 00:10:

J.S.............I first stumbled on PBH when there was only three posts here...................it was sort of boring at that time.....................so....I would only check in from time to time........................as it became more popular, it also became more interesting.

I've had various " user names " because I would abscond for long periods and then return...........forgetting what my sign in name was............

Every time I returned I had to start from the beginning, with a new name..............I always found a new set of characters..................some I would like.........some I would'nt.......................but that's life..............................In my most recent re-incarnation I cane across this guy called John_stark..............what a prrick, I thought..............but shit, some of his stuff, is both infomative and funny..............................then you started throwing some of your clever insults my way.........................and I thought........Hey.......what a cheeky f**ker !!!.......but.......are'nt we all...............on this little community we are lucky to have him.....................................so...........don't leave..................where else can you be such a bad mannered, foul mouthed, cheeky fucker, and still have people read the shit you write.??

Without you, and a few other f**kers, this board would disappear into a place of peace and harmony..................and who wants that....???

I vote........bring back J.S...............cheeky f**kers are hard to find..................



....

.........Its useless to argue with ignorance

scotty says on Jan 26, 2008, 00:22:

hey JS, dont feel like the lone ranger man, several of us have been abused by moderators, its a shame that a moderator would use their position to control or attack a fellow member but thats just the way it is sometimes believe me i know this first hand.
you have posted many informative and entertaining posts, i dont think you should leave , stick around.

Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash

travelingirl says on Jan 26, 2008, 01:32:

Okay, John... you leave me no choice but to post my newest picture from Colombia.
Photobucket

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

scotty says on Jan 26, 2008, 01:48:

why do people keep making monuments to me, its embarrassing.

Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 26, 2008, 01:50:

Oh, just don't say thatI'm calling you something now :)))

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

scotty says on Jan 26, 2008, 01:55:

Desi are you going to ask JS to stay?

Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash

scotty says on Jan 26, 2008, 02:00:

geez i have to get to bed its 3:00AM

Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 26, 2008, 02:01:

John,
it'll be farewell, then. I'm sorry that you have taken that decsion; it was an easy one to figure out. I have struggled long and hard to keep you here on the board, with all the negative vibes you've been spreading, with all the vulgarity, obscene, offensive behaviour you've had (pretending to be sarcastic, humorous, whatever). Perhaps you belong to worldsexguide and need a firm hand to moderate you, because you don't take well to friendly reminders.
I didn't bring your wife into this discussion, it was you yourself who did that, from the very first. At the begining, in a ggod way, like many of us do with our families and spouses, but your got out of hand. But you do not accept your own responsibility but keep on harping about wrongs committed against you a year, two years, three years, four years ago. Your fight has always been us women: on cblog it was a college girl from California, here it has been with me. Bad female mods. Why is that, John? Just remember that I was always your friend, from the very first here. Still am.

Let's try a new approach, John. Leave that angry, bitter, foul-mouthed John-stark in the past, come back as a yourself, a normal person, as my friend, like you were once. And don't kiss and tell. Keep your private life that, private.
A big hug from me to you.

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 26, 2008, 02:09:

Robert_Jorge, monpirri,
hey let's not gossip or point fingers . About 90% of memberships on PBH and Colombianblog overlap; I'm also a mod there, albeit one in a big team. Cblog has a lot of good things going for it; it's small, friendly (most of the time), user-friendly format, basically troll-free and has some great people contributing on regular basis.

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

webmanco says on Jan 26, 2008, 04:19:

Utopia don´t go. You had made good friends here. Trust your password to someone so you would not have to re enter with new handles. If you lost your Utopia password I wonder if there is a way Peter would recreate that account.

I know you will do good hiring Colombians as English teachers. :-)

You had been called many names you are right even Patito.

But, I'm going to start making some assumptions here.... Which means I might actually end up making an ass out of myself ..........Thu 04 17, 2008 11:34 am

jake074701 says on Jan 26, 2008, 06:22:

Utopia, I hope you would reconsider as you are sort of like MAD magazine in the past, you seen things in a different sort of weird way, but off the beaten path. As through the years, things have changed here on PBsH and sometimes not for the good. As one moderator does not like your sense of humor, especially if you have fun with the female gender side, usually with tongue in cheek humor. Yes, outside of GIB being stalked by a certain group, you probably rank as number 2 in being stalked by another klan. You have always been very helpful in opening some people eyes about Colombia, life, law, etc. PBsH would not be the same, I hope you reconsider and just fight back with your wit, as I think not many people can match. Good luck in whatever you decide

Never argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

jake074701 says on Jan 26, 2008, 06:30:

UTC, Please do not give in, just fight back with your wit, experiences of life, as certain stalkers can not match. Outside of GIB, you are number 2 as in being stalked by a certain klan of members. You have been very serious and at the same time, sort of like MAD magazine in past, alittle ahead of your time. I hope you do not leave, but if do, wish you well, enjoyed your help and knowledge through the past 5 years, vaya con dios,

Never argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

webmanco says on Jan 26, 2008, 06:34:

I don´t believe anyone is beein stalked there are a few paranoid that is way different.

Utopia, para atras ni para tomar impulso.

Amigos de Colombia

But, I'm going to start making some assumptions here.... Which means I might actually end up making an ass out of myself ..........Thu 04 17, 2008 11:34 am

Monpirri says on Jan 26, 2008, 06:39:

Robert Jorge, I hear ya! And I'm with you.
Desi, you got to be kidding, co.blog is a club where "some" elite members gang up against the ones who offer complete different point of views about Colombia.
The ruling gang are not even from Colombia, the owner consider himself a gringo, the patriotic lady thinks she is a native American, the other lady is a self proclaimed ambassador for the rest of the continent, the scholar who favors FARC activities as to kill a pastor, has an elite status in the organization and the list goes on for the small and friendly cult.

I'm just pointing facts!

MAC

Annette Taddeo for US Congress 2008

tejasmarcos says on Jan 26, 2008, 06:55:

pbh is like the hotel california - you can never leave..............

even when you are gone, you are still here, wanting, watching, listening, believing.......

god is in your head

Chelesupercono says on Jan 26, 2008, 07:01:

JS.....I hope you reconsider but I do understand and agree with you.....PBH has now become so PC....not much different from the OPRAH show, run by a bunch feminist......I find that interesting considering that according to what I see in Colombia is that 95% of the expats that live here and visit here are MEN !!! So how did this happen? Yea, it's now a site for eunuchs and men who don't the decisions.......how sad

never go to bed with someone crazier then you are, you will do it and you will regret it.......

nueva york bombero says on Jan 26, 2008, 07:17:

I think you left out a few words, but I get your point.
God, I hate the oprah show!!!!
Why can't this place be more like Dr. Phil?

wendell13 says on Jan 26, 2008, 07:18:

Don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out...good grief. How many people have made a big scene of leaving some internet board and then have come back under a new handle? It is like Nixon said after losing the California governor's race in 1962. "you won't have Dick Nixon to kick around any more". I am sure you will be back under some other name.

Please JS come back. Come back. This board will suffer and disappear if you don't come back

Robert Jorge says on Jan 26, 2008, 07:26:

I don't want to hijack but just wanted to publicly state that I edited any reference to any particular person in my posts in this thread. I apologize Desi; I wasn't thinking that it might be somewhat inappropriate.

nueva york bombero says on Jan 26, 2008, 07:32:

And we must be appropriate at all times......
Dr. Phil's coming out in 5 minutes......

calikitty1 says on Jan 26, 2008, 07:59:

Amazing! You left the other board and it continues on without up. When you leave this board it will continue along without you. Did you ever think maybe it is YOU?

P.S.
How long before you return with another handle?
says on
wendell13 summed it up: Don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out...good grief. How many people have made a big scene of leaving some internet board and then have come back under a new handle."

sloopskipper says on Jan 26, 2008, 08:14:

paranoia

(par-a-noy-a) A mental state that includes unreasonable suspicions of people and situations. A person who is paranoid may be suspicious, hostile, feel very important, or may become extremely sensitive to rejection by others.

goin_south says on Jan 26, 2008, 08:46:

Just want to remind everyone here, lest you begin to believe your own perception of reality:

UTOPIACOWBOY WRITES EVERYTHING ON PBH.

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

goin_south says on Jan 26, 2008, 08:48:

My bet is....J_S has everyone blocked now,..... but Travelgirl... ;-)

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 26, 2008, 09:11:

goin_....
you can't take the credit for that observation....I said it first.:)

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

webmanco says on Jan 26, 2008, 09:23:

A diversity of opinions and very active.

When things started going south???

Amigos de Colombia

But, I'm going to start making some assumptions here.... Which means I might actually end up making an ass out of myself ..........Thu 04 17, 2008 11:34 am

tomtom33 says on Jan 26, 2008, 09:53:

I enjoyed UC, until he took it upon himself to fix PBH. I will not miss the fixer.

juli says on Jan 26, 2008, 09:56:

Some people think I'm paranoid.

CEO Fajardo´s Fan Club, Medellín, Colombia

nueva york bombero says on Jan 26, 2008, 09:59:

Why's that?

juli says on Jan 26, 2008, 09:59:

Ask them.

CEO Fajardo´s Fan Club, Medellín, Colombia

goin_south says on Jan 26, 2008, 10:14:

Para....noid....
en Colombia, does take on.... A WHOLE 'NOTHER MEANING...jajj

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 26, 2008, 10:21:

Juli dear, if you want to talk about you and your paranoia, please start your own thread.
This thread is dedicated to John_stark's paranoia.

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

juli says on Jan 26, 2008, 10:27:

I never knew him to display paranoia - just one liners. This thread is dedicated to his paranoia? Who's UTOPIACOWBOY. I have to get out of here before they get me too.

Pssst - what's he paranoid about? John I'm talking about.

CEO Fajardo´s Fan Club, Medellín, Colombia

goin_south says on Jan 26, 2008, 10:29:

he's not

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 26, 2008, 10:39:

Juli, Utopia Cowboy was a nice guy, a good contributor to this forum and a friend of mine. Then he decided to become John_stark and a dozen other people and only talk BS here, because we were not worthy of anything better.

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Man Tequila says on Jan 26, 2008, 10:45:

Well, John, you´d be missed.

But I´ve never understood the point of these farewell threads. If I leave here, it´ll be with the words ¨Do what you have to do. Just get out of my sight.¨ ;)

I´d split the difference in my opinion on your battles with other folks here.

I´d give 3:2 odds you´ll be back under a different name. I hope this is the case. I presume ¨The Banker¨ would have kicked us all out ages ago.

pues se me antoja que sus cantares son de una tierra desconocida, y yo le dije si a usted le inspira, saber la tierra de donde soy... con mucho gusto y a mucho honor...

juli says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:16:

"Utopia Cowboy was a nice guy...then he decided to become John_stark and a dozen other people "

So why are you slandering and mistreating him by calling him paranoid? Clearly he has a schitzophrenic multiple personality disorder.

CEO Fajardo´s Fan Club, Medellín, Colombia

kalder says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:19:

So long old bean.

Thanks for the link to that Colombian porn site.

"kalder- have you ever had a woman?"--Sam Salmon

sloopskipper says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:32:

Paranoid is more benign than schizophrenic. Although it seems there is diagnosis of paranoid schizophrenia.

But maybe just a little mean spirited is more accurate.

slguy says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:36:

"Clearly he has a schitzophrenic multiple personality disorder."

hmmm. a successor to the crown in the making? opinionated sufficently, for a good start. jajajaja

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

sloopskipper says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:37:

We crown thee, Mad King Ludwig!

podborski says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:38:

"Thanks for the link to that Colombian porn site"

How come I didn't know about this?? Uh, please pm me with that vital info so I can continue my in depth study of everything colombian, and also see how many of my exes are on there

slguy says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:39:

"and also see how many of my exes are on there"

I see you're in fine form today! jajajajajajjajaa

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

podborski says on Jan 26, 2008, 11:50:

thanks slguy, I actually think I had a funny post going with some troll the other day, but it got demoted, shame, it was my best stuff

So the boat's going? Damn, I had big plans for a week in cartagena I'll tell you. If I ever get my place open and start making some money I'll contribute to the next one. I could probably afford a cleat.

juli says on Jan 26, 2008, 12:18:

"Utopia Cowboy was a nice guy...then he decided to become John_stark and a dozen other people " - Desi

"So why are you slandering and mistreating him by calling him paranoid? Clearly he has a schitzophrenic multiple personality disorder." -me

Don't edit and quote my posts, clouding the original context. I was joking with Desi - specifically with her "then he decided to become John_stark and a dozen other people "

I don't know John Stark from Adam

CEO Fajardo´s Fan Club, Medellín, Colombia

kalder says on Jan 26, 2008, 12:23:

Pod- certainly. Check your inbox.

Be warned- it's more comic than titillating.

"kalder- have you ever had a woman?"--Sam Salmon

manINred says on Jan 26, 2008, 12:27:

Damn, now who is gonna back me up about the true nature of Mango's and the paradox of staying in Poblado but knowing absolutely everything about Medellin/Colombia?

goin_south says on Jan 26, 2008, 12:32:

jus because someone changes names, can mean other things...hard to read.

Hey, there was one guy on here almost three years ago who started as GringodeLouisian and kept changing his name ONLY by ONE or TWO letters every 6 or 8 weeks, until two years later, he'd EVOLVED into El_Feliz

..to my knowledge, he's still a happy colombian camper....
(no reference to La_Campina)

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

aztec says on Jan 26, 2008, 12:56:

john_stark, I have been posting here for a long time. In that time I have read almost all of your posts through several of your moniker iterations. Most of us long timers believe you are making a mistake in leaving.

My observation is that your judgment of Desideria is incorrect. While she may see the world from a different perspective than I do on several philosophical issues, I still respect her and can't question her integrity.

For your information, I also had a problem with the "college girl from California". Upon reflection, I am embarrassed I let this isolated, young and inexperienced kid get under my skin. I over reacted and now am almost a pariah "over there". I am grateful the owner suggested I cool down and remain a member.

I thus learned one must not pay much attention to some things. There will always be some one on these sites with wildly differing opinions. Many are insults but one has to learn to consider the source and their level of intellect, education and experience. I for one have endeavored not to allow any person on the site again provoke me into an argument.

slguy says on Jan 26, 2008, 13:11:

I was kidding, too, juli. easy on the defense, por favor....

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

gringoloid says on Jan 26, 2008, 13:30:

cmon JS.........I would sorely miss your perspective of the world.

slguy says on Jan 26, 2008, 13:59:

"So the boat's going? Damn, I had big plans for a week in cartagena I'll tell you. If I ever get my place open and start making some money I'll contribute to the next one. I could probably afford a cleat."

careful, pod. you can't believe how much a decent sized cleat can cost these days. about a year ago I bought six hefty ones - and lightened my wallet in excess of a grand.

The good news is - the replacement boat is in my sights. ;) 3' shorter, but almost new engine, new spars, new sails. she's been sitting out of the water for 5 years, so systems need reviving/restoration (hoses, clamps, etc) but she's even saltier looking than Querencia- for roughly 1/3 of the proceeds from the current sale.

Hmm. I just reminded myself why boats are always referred to in the feminine....

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

msaucey says on Jan 26, 2008, 14:38:

J_S..... Farewell my friend.... I'm going to miss my 3 dollar friend....

Chao Pescado....

The trouble about trying to make yourself stupider than you really are is that you very often succeed. - CS Lewis

sloopskipper says on Jan 26, 2008, 15:59:

Boat, a hole in the water into which you shovel large sums of money?

tomtom33 says on Jan 26, 2008, 16:11:

Fresh water boats are not quite so bad.

sloopskipper says on Jan 26, 2008, 16:26:

Yeah, I never spent much money on my Kells or Catalina. Only one new main. But they were toy boats, a 23 and a 22.

sloopskipper says on Jan 26, 2008, 16:29:

Photobucket

arthur brode says on Jan 26, 2008, 17:12:

dont go out like that John
what would PBH be without utopiacowboy,bueno_pues,elreydelostrolls ect.ect.
but i bet lisa zee will be relieved lol

http://www.calirentals.net/

goin_south says on Jan 26, 2008, 17:41:

that's right....
just take a 2-week vacation...
God Damn It!

ESLuelita, whose most common and frequent contributions lately are telling others to 'suck d*ck' in 'her' most perfect epanol, was throwing PERSONAL, physical threats around here about three weeks ago... without cause, and Desi should have thrown 'her' out ... POR ... SIEMPRE!

But... ... What the Duck???

A.B., I believe I recognize those headlights

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

arthur brode says on Jan 26, 2008, 18:22:

GS,the reason you recognize them is because those are classic Caleña headlights straight out of Chipichape Mall

http://www.calirentals.net/

billyb says on Jan 26, 2008, 19:55:

Although, as i said above, I'd rather see JS stay as much as wanker as he sometimes could be, he was (is?) intelligent and knowledgable. But in no way can you blame Desi on his leaving (she was actually very tollerant of his insults towards her), he left on his own because he has too thin a skinned to handle the blowback that will inevitably come back to you when you talk as much shit as he did. Like they say, if you can't handle the heat, get the hell out of the kitchen.

goin_south says on Jan 26, 2008, 19:59:

Another One for the Exodus:



con mucho amor, Caballero de Utopia
pero...no besos...

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

scotty says on Jan 27, 2008, 03:01:

Duck...thats excellent!

Im trying to remember did i hear that song in a movie? Urban Cowboy ...maybe?

Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash

scotty says on Jan 27, 2008, 03:04:

I cant believe all these guys are leaving, whats with that? come on JS you can handle a little mod pressure.

Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash

arthur brode says on Jan 27, 2008, 03:49:

have a drink John lol

http://www.calirentals.net/

arthur brode says on Jan 27, 2008, 06:45:

i cant wait for the next reincarnation:)

http://www.calirentals.net/

nueva york bombero says on Jan 27, 2008, 06:46:

Who gives a shit?! See ya already......

Brians says on Jan 27, 2008, 07:34:

I agree nueva york. UC and JS always announce they are leaving. I get a kick out of that when someone announces they are leaving. See ya!! Move on.

GregYohn says on Jan 27, 2008, 08:07:

Hola Brian!

I think I know that person you mentioned before on CBlog.

12VOIP.com gives free calls to Colombia.Greg

robi666 says on Jan 27, 2008, 08:43:

http://www.colombianblog.com/... he he he ColombianMike on cblog... LOL

"I am a citizen of the most beautiful nation on earth. A nation whose laws are harsh yet simple, a nation that never cheats, which is immense and without borders, where life is lived in the present."

podborski says on Jan 27, 2008, 11:10:

you mean cmike didn't know about cblog until now? you've been slacking mikey!

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 27, 2008, 11:46:

is fosstle1 cmike?

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 27, 2008, 11:46:

well?

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

goin_south says on Jan 27, 2008, 12:10:

hey, this is 'goodbye john_stark',
not' Hello ColombiaMike!'

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 27, 2008, 12:17:

Touché

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

podborski says on Jan 27, 2008, 12:21:

my guess is yes!

but my track record has been poor lately. give him a little more time and we'll see : )

Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 27, 2008, 12:40:

ok, thanks

"None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free." —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

goin_south says on Jan 27, 2008, 13:57:

a.b.... I thought those were classic headlights, right out of La Pizzeria

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

arthur brode says on Jan 27, 2008, 14:09:

lol gs
close to it though

http://www.calirentals.net/

rocinante says on Jan 27, 2008, 15:04:

UTC, sad to see you go. For someone who doesn`t live here you got the picture really quick. Then you`ve got guys here 3, 4 years that have no clue.

Whatever it is that ills you, get over it and come back with a new moniker. It wouldn`t be the first time. If not, you will be sorely missed. PM me.

"World economic indicators point to a democrat winning 2008. It will surely be Obama. Peso 1400 by November" Feb 5, 2008

arthur brode says on Jan 27, 2008, 15:21:

John,come back as "elreydelostrolls"
Image and video hosting by TinyPic

http://www.calirentals.net/

rocinante says on Jan 27, 2008, 15:25:

"Hey, there was one guy on here almost three years ago who started as GringodeLouisian and kept changing his name ONLY by ONE or TWO letters every 6 or 8 weeks, until two years later, he'd EVOLVED into El_Feliz"

That guy was nice but never said anything worthwhile. Just basically one liners. I think he was bored waiting for a wife to arrive. Now he´s probably in the 2 year bliss period.

A lot of people have bid farewell and then came back.

"World economic indicators point to a democrat winning 2008. It will surely be Obama. Peso 1400 by November" Feb 5, 2008

MaFe says on Jan 27, 2008, 16:11:

Since I am fairly new, I really don't know what is going on, but I don't think you should leave..many people here want you here..
so...don't go!

"No comment" is a splendid expression. I am using it again and again." -Winston Churchill

Monpirri says on Jan 27, 2008, 18:26:

That guy was or is the most entertaining member I had met in pbh, he has lots of female friends as well and he has visited more cities in Colombia than the average Colombian exiled in a foreign country.

Annette Taddeo for US Congress 2008

sloopskipper says on Jan 27, 2008, 18:42:

?

morphus says on Jan 28, 2008, 06:31:

Weird!

Albatross says on Jan 28, 2008, 07:38:

Wow... I’ve often wondered what happened to Utopia Cowboy (along with Kernow, Gomezman, Rubiazo and a few others)... UC was one of my favorite posters when I first joined PBH... his sarcastic comebacks, observations and one-liners were hilarious. I would never have guessed that John Stark was/is the same guy... I really don’t see any similarity between the two.

Anyway... buena suerte… whomever you are.

“Democracy - a pathetic belief in the collective wisdom of individual ignorance." - H.L. Mencken

Man Tequila says on Jan 28, 2008, 08:08:

Never would have thought JS and Monpirri would have made peace, but didn't see it with ManInRed either after he didn't know a barrio name.

I don't see that if five years ago JS made public comments about his wife that that would give anyone the right to do so now. He does the same to Kat1, but this is a long-standing joke and she clearly likes it.

pues se me antoja que sus cantares son de una tierra desconocida, y yo le dije si a usted le inspira, saber la tierra de donde soy... con mucho gusto y a mucho honor...

Colombiche says on Jan 28, 2008, 08:23:

JS, Utopia,

I really got along with you over the past two years, until one day you started waging war on the world.

You are a hip guy deep down. Just chillax and enjoy PBH for what it is - a big group of strangers around the world exchaning opinions anonymously. Sometimes it's going to be nice, sometimes it's going to be ugly and in an ideal world we wouldn't need to have thick skin. Generally, how people react to you is a reflection of how you treat them to begin with. The world is one big mirror. Everybody we meet, especially the aholes teach us a lesson.

The mods here try to do a good job keeping the site clean and deleting obvious insults, but we cannot be caught in the middle of every little squabble. Some trolls disappear and come back again, these guys have more lives than any cat I've ever met.

I attended one of my best friend's funeral this weekend. Died of cancer at age 38. As I watched the car drive off to the crematorium I though "life is wayy to short to sweat the small stuff".

Hope you stay and play but if you don't I hope you do well.

ciao

No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy)

seabass says on Jan 28, 2008, 10:58:

Farewell ole Salt
I always envied UTC/JS and his situation . He had a hot Paisa and an inflatable doll at home and the comfort of knowing if the missus ever closed the gate on him and the doll sprung a leak, Boystown's only a couple hours away.

manINred says on Jan 28, 2008, 11:26:

"but didn't see it with ManInRed either after he didn't know a barrio name"

ummm, am I missing something Man Tequila? lol!

morphus says on Jan 28, 2008, 11:33:

podborski says on Jan 28, 2008, 12:29:

jeje good one morph

Man Tequila says on Jan 28, 2008, 13:46:

Maybe a year ago, MIR? I could be confusing you with a Canadian-English poster with a similar name.

You were deeply insulted by a comment from one of JS's troll names (bigfoot wallace? kingoftrolls? so many others). He made fun of you for not knowing the name of some obscure barrio in Medellin and you left the board angry, as I recall.

pues se me antoja que sus cantares son de una tierra desconocida, y yo le dije si a usted le inspira, saber la tierra de donde soy... con mucho gusto y a mucho honor...

Man Tequila says on Jan 28, 2008, 13:49:

John Stark would know Utopia Cowboy very well. Here was your good-bye. ;)

http://poorbuthappy.com/colombia/post/-i-am-leaving-poorbuthappy/

pues se me antoja que sus cantares son de una tierra desconocida, y yo le dije si a usted le inspira, saber la tierra de donde soy... con mucho gusto y a mucho honor...

webmanco says on Jan 28, 2008, 13:52:

goin_south that half back on your avatar means you are "medio pato" ???? :-)


:::::::::::::::
As I watched the car drive off to the crematorium I though "life is wayy to short to sweat the small stuff"
___________________________________________

But, I'm going to start making some assumptions here.... Which means I might actually end up making an ass out of myself ..........Thu 04 17, 2008 11:34 am

kalder says on Jan 28, 2008, 13:52:

I'm sorry to hear about your friend Colombiche. I extend my condolences. I buried my best friend, 42, a couple of years ago. Cancer too. Rotten business.

"kalder- have you ever had a woman?"--Sam Salmon

Colombiche says on Jan 28, 2008, 13:55:

Thanks Kalder. I am just very fortunate to have known her.

No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy)

Colombiche says on Jan 28, 2008, 13:58:

This was JS' former goodbye:

http://poorbuthappy.com/colombia/post/time-for-a-new-reincarnation/

We say our loud goodbyes, whine loudly about why we are leaving, bitch, hate the board and come back. I will bet the bag of frozen arepas I bought this morning that JS is reading this thread dying to reply, biting his virtual lip........ PBH is just one big ridiculous lover's quarrel!

No me den trago extranjero, que es caro y no sabe a bueno.... (Rafael Godoy)

Man Tequila says on Jan 28, 2008, 14:13:

It's sad that it sometimes takes something like cancer to make people realize what should be their priorities. My condolences on the death of your friend as well.

pues se me antoja que sus cantares son de una tierra desconocida, y yo le dije si a usted le inspira, saber la tierra de donde soy... con mucho gusto y a mucho honor...

CatGirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 14:14:

JS: I know there is some history here that I don't know. I am truly sorry to hear this. Never had any problems with you and liked your off color jokes at times. I really like you on this site and hope you have a change of heart. again - I have no idea what you are talking of..and I am truly sorry for you having a bad experience. I still need to check out this world sex thing jaja. I know less of this than the history behind this all...Kitty is very sad for this..please don't go amor

TravelGal: jaja - LOVE the Pic. Is there enough to share with all ??

ooops! ....Did I say that?

slguy says on Jan 28, 2008, 14:36:

"TravelGal: jaja - LOVE the Pic. Is there enough to share with all ??"

I'm pretty sure arthur brode's avatar pic has enough for alll.....

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

CatGirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 14:54:

I must have missed it

ooops! ....Did I say that?

manINred says on Jan 28, 2008, 15:00:

Oh wow, how embarrassing! I didn't realize that John_Stark was the same guy who pissed me off then. Oh well, I seem to agree with much of what he writes now, just goes to show. Man Tequila, spot on as usual!

"We say our loud goodbyes, whine loudly about why we are leaving, bitch, hate the board and come back."

Yes, guilty as charged, but I never hated this site, nor did I try and make a loud goodbye. It seems I was just angered that my opinions were being lambasted, and thought that if I was to be mocked as I shared my views, there was no point in being writing here. I did not know how to express this to the moderators, so I just wrote a thread. I'm not arrogant enough to think anyone would care if I left ;)

It is ironic that the same man who annoyed me enough to leave is now leaving because of harrassment.

I can almost guarantee that john_stark, just like I was way back last year, was just trying to express a point to the people who run the site, rather than asking for trumpets to be blown, etc... and is probably, if reading, annoyed and amused to see people say "no one cares, just leave, don't annouce your departure" when it actually turns out to be one of the most responded to threads. If people really didn't care, they wouldn't take the time to say "we don't care..."

Again, it all just goes to show.

Man Tequila says on Jan 28, 2008, 15:07:

You just got to love the irony, eh?

pues se me antoja que sus cantares son de una tierra desconocida, y yo le dije si a usted le inspira, saber la tierra de donde soy... con mucho gusto y a mucho honor...

robi666 says on Jan 28, 2008, 15:10:

Sam Salmon is well alive in another thread! i knew that it could not stop himself from posting in a thread about Monteria. :-)

"I am a citizen of the most beautiful nation on earth. A nation whose laws are harsh yet simple, a nation that never cheats, which is immense and without borders, where life is lived in the present."

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 15:51:

wow, those old 'Farewelll's are fun to read.
In those comments, on manINred's farewell..
that must have been La_Campiña
(if not, Sailor Jerry) 'speaking thru me'. jaj
Who can find the farewells from GIB and GD?
Hey Peter, maybe pbh needs a new classification
for New and/or Final Posts:
.... FAREWELLS.

You all are really full of it today,...
and I get slammed for all the one-liners.

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

manINred says on Jan 28, 2008, 15:54:

Hey goin_south, I'm always extremely full of it ;)

slguy says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:04:

am I the only one who has NOT written a farewell post- but understands the sentiment behind writing it? there's something very therapeutic about telling a crowd to kiss your ass. and expressing exactly WHY they can kiss it.

come to think of it, I think I'll break the seal on a bottle of Mt. Gay and start my rough draft....

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

podborski says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:08:

hey slguy we should all write the post we would WANT to write as our farewell, sort of like our own eulogies.

or we could write them for other people, so clyde's might be:

"I'm leaving this freak show for good. I hate you all. Papi says #$ at %! you!"

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:08:

slguy....seems to be plenty of 'templates', should you need help on top of Mt.Gay ;-)

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:10:

So, I-pod, then it might be even more therapeutic, if we can write ''others' farewells''... jaja

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

slguy says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:13:

jajajajajajajjajaja

"all you homos can go jump. me and papi are buds now, so we don't need you! but keep it on the down low, ok?"

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

podborski says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:15:

let's see who is creative here g_s. we need man t and kalder to do this justice.

slguy says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:17:

"I finally learned that the hooliganism in my neighborhood is because of hijacked threads and my colombian wife's lack of orgasms. I have decided that my website is more informative, and with fewer hijackings. bye"

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

slguy says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:18:

who was that anyway, that did such a great powwow impersonation?

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

podborski says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:22:

pow wow:

"I'm tired you people don't take things seriosly. Good bye. And why is there antisocial behaviour outside my house?"

sloopskipper says on Jan 28, 2008, 16:57:

He seems to still have an active profile to read all these syrupy slobberings, but says he is leaving, why doesn't he just DO IT?

Perhaps this group can struggle to survive without comments like "kill all the gringos!".

sloopskipper says on Jan 28, 2008, 17:10:

Personally, I came here because I wanted to learn about life in Colombia and although this guy has had things to offer of some value, it was diminished by his lame attempt to be a vulgar and hateful Jerry Seinfeld.

He seems to be a very unhappy and angry person, who I would certainly not miss.

billyb says on Jan 28, 2008, 18:54:

Maybe we should compile all of Utopia's farewells, both here and on Cblog and publish them as a book. There must be at least six chapters already.

manINred says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:15:

You know what, after today's "arguments" I have absolute sympathy with John Stark. He has the right idea, I'll take a piece of his advice.

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:23:

which piece?

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

MitchAlvarez says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:27:

i think pbh is awesome. it beats watching cnn's democratic cheerleaders and fox news republican puppets.

but i will say..........some people take this shit wayyyyyyyyyyy to serious.

you guys are the best.

Tengale miedo a una huelga de mujeres o a una escacez de aguardiente. :)

manINred says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:28:

Of giving up. Especially if racism and bigotry and fallacious arguments are condoned by who I once thought were respected members. Thick skin, yadda yadda, but it becomes personal when a member's family is attacked and no one gives a shit.

Why would anyone subject themselves to that?

eywed says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:30:

Your still here manInerd you tell us. Why do you subject yourself to this place?

Ay Hombe!!!!!

manINred says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:31:

Very good point eywed. And taken.

MitchAlvarez says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:34:

manred i missed that comment. who offended your family and when?

Tengale miedo a una huelga de mujeres o a una escacez de aguardiente. :)

eywed says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:35:

Take everything on here with a grain of salt. Dont let this place stress ya.

Ay Hombe!!!!!

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:39:

I agree with ya, Mitch! about pbh being aweful... 'r... awesome!

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:40:

GS, you missed the best girl talk session ever earlier!!! haha

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

MitchAlvarez says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:43:

travelin girl i miss you linda!! :(

Tengale miedo a una huelga de mujeres o a una escacez de aguardiente. :)

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:44:

Hey Tg, ... I'm checkin,... right now... and... as far as I can tell... I'm still a guy ;-)

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:45:

Mitch, I think she knows my real name, and knows I get invited to the N.O.W. meetings all the time.

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

slguy says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:46:

not according to clyde, GS. we're all homos in his book.

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:47:

Hey guys!
Mitchy poo, you've totally disappeared on me! What's happened? I miss hearing from you and deciphering your Spanish on MS.

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:47:

Now tell me... what would constitute "The Best GirlTalk Session Ever"???

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:47:

Yes, GS, you are still a guy, but it was still a fun 20 questions session we had earlier. Even talked about letting someone ELSE be the victim next time. haha

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:48:

you'll have to go over to the Off Topic session...
it included gossip (i.e. bombarding Dan with questions) and a little bit of fashion

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:49:

Oh! Helll! I shoulda been there!

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:50:

I honestly had to look up "N.O.W."

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:50:

I know!

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

MitchAlvarez says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:50:

Travelingirl ill be the victim anytime for you. Im all yours.

Tengale miedo a una huelga de mujeres o a una escacez de aguardiente. :)

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:51:

thankfully... an aging, hopefully antiquated organization... HOPEFULLY...EXTINCT!
Sorry, Saucey.

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:52:

Mitchypooooo, back off, dude!
She's all mine!!

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:52:

Ooo, I've already got a couple of victims lined up. Sweet! I'll have to inform HoustonGirl. ;)

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:53:

Hahaha, I can manage my time wisely between you two. :)

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:54:

Mitchypoooo, you think we can handle BOTH TG/HG ... ALL AT THE SAME TIME???

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:54:

By the way, GS... that's MY pet name for Mitch. I coined it, so I'm gonna have to say "step off" and ask you to stop saying it. hahaha!

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

MitchAlvarez says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:54:

GS please stop it with the mitchypoo.. only sexy tg can call me that. lol

but hey i wont fight for a beautiful women.......... in the end she'll pick me anyhow :)

Tengale miedo a una huelga de mujeres o a una escacez de aguardiente. :)

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:55:

uH... Mr. Mitch....

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

goin_south says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:55:

We've All.... Gone..... To Look For ........ Colommmmmbia!

why can't the freakin Chung King Chinese just LEAVE THE FREAKN DOLLY LLAMA and Tibet ... ALONE!

travelingirl says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:55:

Poo, I've never had a man fight over me.

"I'm just a backwoods Barbie."

MitchAlvarez says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:56:

GS I can definitely handle both sexy ladies. If TG/HG wanna double team on us... I'm ready. lol

Tengale miedo a una huelga de mujeres o a una escacez de aguardiente. :)

eywed says on Jan 28, 2008, 22:56:

Can I get in on the fight?

Ay Hombe!!!!!