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A question for Colombians who live in the U.S.
What are your life's like now that you live in the United States.
By chad on Nov 29, 2005, 15:16 in Friendly Talkzone.
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morphus says on Nov 29, 2005, 15:30: i'm not Colombian but i know a lot in the U.S. according to them, the U.S. has "opened" their minds.
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MaG says on Nov 29, 2005, 15:32: almost the same! well, my life has not changed that much! i mean i'm still a positive and nice person. *MaG* 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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chad says on Nov 29, 2005, 15:42: ? If you don't mind me asking. How have your eating habits changed.
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juanalejo says on Nov 29, 2005, 18:13: Life Well I lived in the USA for a total of 5 years. I enjoyed 2 and hated 3. Found a country that was totally the opposite of what I expected, unfortunatelly for the bad, ended at the end disliking most of what could be seen and done. Finally ended travelling around the country extensively, saw nothing that interested me, moved to England, loved it but finally decided I could have a much more enjoyable life in Colombia and so came back and live here happily.
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elmodefoque says on Nov 30, 2005, 05:04: Hell, my life in the USA is a lot better, let me take that back, life in NYC is a lot better; there are places in USA I would not wanna go near. MY life changed drastically, as soon as I got here I now had shoes, I was eating every day and not once a week, I got here on a Friday and the following Monday I was in elementary school PS 192 Manhattan. I could not believe they actually gave me cookies and milk around 10 am and then for lunch, wow, I loved it, not because it was delicious but because it was free. But the most memorable most exciting thing about getting to NYC was that I was no longer un INDIO sucio like I was called in Colombia, now I was an EXOTIC beautiful kid. over 5 million colombianos in USA and only 27 barranquilleros, i'm one.Curramba, el mejor vividero del mundo! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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maraca says on Nov 30, 2005, 05:40: I think... I might have missundertood what you really wanted to say Morphus. But any way, if i got it right, its not moving to the states what broaden the mind is the actual fact of living abroad with an open mind and a humble heart wherever it is that you are going.
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maraca says on Nov 30, 2005, 05:42: hehehheheeh EXOTIC IN NY?????
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elmodefoque says on Nov 30, 2005, 06:07: my brother is much lighter than me, we call him cachaco. In colombia he was all that, had lots of colombianita grilfriends while i had to do burritas, but then when we got here to NYC he was just a run of the mill little spic, a nothing, but they thought i was hawaiian, nobody spoke spanish to me. I was nailing the hot little gringitas many times better than what he had in colombia, now he wanted me to hook him up, but i told him, hey we're not in colombia anymore here you're just a spic, i'm exotic. over 5 million colombianos in USA and only 27 barranquilleros, i'm one.Curramba, el mejor vividero del mundo! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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MaG says on Nov 30, 2005, 07:26: well, my eating habits have changed cuz i don't feel as hungry as i use to feel in Colombia every time i thought about lunch!! when i used to imagine a nice "Bandeja costena", o sopa de lo ke fuera!, o " bandeja paisa" , now i have to be happy and satisfy my apettite with a freaking frozen meal!!when i wanted something "light' i could find a nice empanada o arepa, here i have to try "Mcdonalds", and be "happy" with something that taste like paper food!! so basically, i eat twice a day, breakfast and dinner!! that's it!! so since i'm here i can no longer say " barriga llena, corazon contento" cuz even if my tummy is full my heart is not happy!!! *MaG* 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Rubiazo says on Nov 30, 2005, 08:44: Repatriation - the new trend? It's interesting to see examples of Colombians how have repatriated already (a la Webmanco, Juanalejo and some others I know) and those who are planning it (Colombiche, Litost, MaG). This is a trend I don't think you saw as much in the 70s and 80s as you do today. People used to come here with the idea of putting down permanent roots.
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utopiacowboy says on Nov 30, 2005, 11:58: Data from the USCIS regarding immigration from Colombia to the US: Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Nov 30, 2005, 16:11: They were judicially deported. In 2004 there were also 919 Colombians who were stopped at the border and sent back to Colombia. For US immigration statistics see http://uscis.gov/graphics/shared/statistics/publications/index.htm#factsheet Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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juanalejo says on Nov 30, 2005, 19:07: Gringo de Lousiana What I enjoyed was real college life, it was nice seeing college football, I even joined a Fraternity for 1 year, interesting opportunity, loved having a car I could not afford here at the time, liked the seasons, and the snow. After that those things wore out, could care less if the car I had was new or not as long as I liked it, but found really difficult living in a place you seem you can not have a conversation about the world, it seems not only nobody knows anything about it, but they simply do not care and that I found disgusting. I disliked not being able to call a friend to go out, everybody is too busy and you have to program to see a friend with lots of time in advance. I disliked not seeing people at night in the streets, only cars and cars and more cars. I disliked the lack of urban life, that suburban homes are all alike, that a cities seem not to have their own character, they seem all the same, I disliked travelling for hours and seeing basically the same scenery, and if the scenery changed some, the same restaurants, hotels, malls and stores are found everywhere. Travelling lost its appeal. I hated winters after a while, the snow becoming mud. I disliked people smiling to you and then frowning when they turn away (this specially true in restaurants where waiters seem overfriendly when they talk to you but it seems so fake). But my worst dislike was the condescending way Americans look at the rest of the world. I am somebody that loves travelling and loves all places around the world, and the permanent bitching of everything foreign drove me up the wall. And the drop that filled my cup was having more than one person tell me I should not give my opinion on the US government or US policies. I was told more than once that if did not like what I saw I should leave the country. So I did, as my freedom will never be compromised. I found the US a country where the citizens police on behalf of the government, and I did not like that.
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Lisa Zee says on Nov 30, 2005, 20:16: Colombians in the usa I have soooo much to say: I live in California longer than Colombia, and I NEVER feel like home. This is a beautiful country, and I travel everywhere, the people are very nice, very honest, however it is not Colombia. I stayed for so long, because I have a son, I did`nt want to leave him without his dad or that I go back, then he will have no mother. It is very hard to make friends here, you meet someone and they are very nice, polite but, very rare they REALLY stay friends. Life is hard here, everyone is in a hurry, you can`t drop by at your "friends" you have to call ahead of time, in Colombia you show up anytime, and there is a party in few minutes, WE ARE A POOR COUNTRY, BUT WE ARE ALWAYS HAPPY, THERE IS ALWAYS TIME FOR RUMBA!
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utopiacowboy says on Nov 30, 2005, 21:27: All I can say is, it doesn't sound like you guys have lived in South Texas. Maybe the Latino majority here changes the dynamics of the culture. Everybody knows everybody else's business and nobody thinks twice about dropping in on everyone else. It's my wife who wishes that people would respect the boundaries more which is interesting coming from a Colombiana. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Tyrell says on Dec 1, 2005, 01:06: Oz aint the cause juanalejo:
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litost says on Dec 1, 2005, 01:32: No need to get on the defensive Tyrell, juanalejo is simply responding to the original question and giving his opinion based on his experience. Sorry you don't like it, but I have to tell you that as a colombian who spent many years in the US as well, he is not exaggerating or representing an isolated experience. It doesn't mean there aren't nice people and places in your country, of course there are, but if you're looking for a place that's full of people who are natural and warm, and where they're curious and interested in the rest of the world, most of the US is not a very compatible place. For many colombians just being able to make 5 or 10 times what they would make working in Colombia and driving a new car is enough reason to stay there, but we are not all like that.
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juanalejo says on Dec 1, 2005, 03:46: Tyrell All countries in the world have good and bad, fun and boring. But for me the not so nice in the USA would be less than the nice and therefore I left. Never said I did not enjoy, I simply disliked some of the things. And as I also said, what I really did not like is condescending attitude and the uncapability of understanding that the world is all a wonderful place, and that many places for many people are much better than the USA. So just look at your answer, and that exact attitude typical of a large portion of the population, that drove me out of there.
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Rubiazo says on Dec 1, 2005, 04:13: so in other words OH MY GOD everything I hate about Canada and the US is the SAME THING Colombians here hate too!! It's very typical that SOMEONE has to jump on the bandwagon and criticize Juanalejo for honestly expressing his opinion.
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elmodefoque says on Dec 1, 2005, 05:18: Among many things I liked about coming to the USA was BROADS, BROADS, BROADS!! keep in mind, I’m talking back in the stone age, sixties, NYC sex, drugs, rock and roll. The grils were stunning, eyes of blue like the waters in Lake Wachapango, La Guajira, yellow hair like the gold the Spaniards plunder. These grils were like nothing I’ve seen before and they wanted me, could not get enough of me, and did not matter if they had to share me with another. Threesome :) . I could bore you to tears if you had to sit and listen to me telling you why and how my life changed so drastically. over 5 million colombianos in USA and only 27 barranquilleros, i'm one.Curramba, el mejor vividero del mundo! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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elmodefoque says on Dec 1, 2005, 05:25: hey dumb modefoque, one last question. Is life all about RUMBIAR to you? damn right, I'm already one old modefoque and my destiny is to die just like my granfather, holding a bottle of cheap ron in a bar in el barrio abajo, barranquilla. over 5 million colombianos in USA and only 27 barranquilleros, i'm one.Curramba, el mejor vividero del mundo! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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caslug says on Dec 1, 2005, 06:08: One thing i find a bit sad about COL.. is the difficulty of having a female friend(just friends) that is equal. In other words, we can go out once a month and chat and they´ll buy me dinner, because last month i bought dinner. The economic disparity between gringo wages and COL wages, kinda of pressures you into paying all the time. Also, the culture here is alittle bit machista, so the women are not as indepenant. Sure they´re are a small minority that are economicall/emotionally independant, but they are very few and it´s definitly hard to meet them. In the US, since there are more economic opportunity, most people make the same as you so the economic disparity is a lot less.
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IMorcombe says on Dec 1, 2005, 06:27: A question for Colombians who live in the USA I have been in the USA for 25 years, how my life has changed? whatever happens in the USA I feel much safer here than I ever did in Bogota. I can wear gold necklaces and nice earrings and nobody scratches my neck or tears my ears to steal them. Still, we are planning to go back to Colombia in June for good; can't afford medical care here... :-{ unless I work for the rest of my days, which I am not planning to do. Maria Ines 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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paisa29 says on Dec 1, 2005, 07:33: caslug "is the difficulty of having a female friend(just friends)"
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paisa29 says on Dec 1, 2005, 07:43: I don`t have that problem anymore because actually I`m 31, hahaha
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elmodefoque says on Dec 1, 2005, 07:52: "I find it frustating sometimes that i can´t take girl from poblado to el centro or some divey place to eat and hang out." calug over 5 million colombianos in USA and only 27 barranquilleros, i'm one.Curramba, el mejor vividero del mundo! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 1, 2005, 08:25: I looked for some voluntary repatriation numbers on the net but I couldn't find any, Rubiazo. A better man than me, maybe Tinto, might be able to find some data. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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morphus says on Dec 1, 2005, 08:41: Centro Medellin is'nt so bad at night. usually the worst that will happen is a drunk might fall on you. one night i wanted to go to a movie theater in Centro near Parque Bolivar with a girl. it was real sleazy looking. i thought it would be fun and it was only 5000 pesos. i think they were playing that Bruce Willis movie "Hostage". she said "no way" and wanted to go to the movie theater in El Tesoro.
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morphus says on Dec 1, 2005, 08:49: Caslug, if you are hanging with girls from Poblado, they should be able to buy you a meal once in a while. i met girls from Poblado/Envigado and they bought me food...lol.
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Rubiazo says on Dec 1, 2005, 11:07: I don't think they would track repatriation from the US HERE at all, it is not a figure of much interest to them. Historically repatriation has been pretty low, but I can see that changing a LOT.
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Thededalus says on Dec 1, 2005, 12:00: Juanalejo I relate to your frustration you experienced when you were told to leave the US if you're going to be critical.
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Thededalus says on Dec 1, 2005, 12:52: Anyway... to share my two cents…
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juanalejo says on Dec 1, 2005, 19:34: Thededalus I am sorry if I got back at you one day, but reading being on this site and keeping composure as a Colombian is not easy, specially when you have many of your compatriots bitching about everything Colombian.
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juanalejo says on Dec 1, 2005, 19:52: And by the way When you read most of the long threads around are always made long because of the constant bitching about Colombian things. Then you guys complain when some of us try and put some comparing notes on what things are not good else where.
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 1, 2005, 19:54: I certainly wish that a rule could be enforced which would limit discussion to Colombia and things pertinent to Colombia. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Save the Wildcats says on Dec 1, 2005, 19:55: That would make too much sense, UC.
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juanalejo says on Dec 1, 2005, 20:03: So Colombians giving their opinion on the USA is not about Colombia and Americans giving their opinion on Colombia is? So having a Colombian nationality is not Colombian enough? Wow, what a surprise, but I could have imagined this type of idea poping up at some time.
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 1, 2005, 20:16: Good question, Juan. What is the purpose of PBH? Is it just supposed to be a sounding board for anyone about anything? So if you happen to be Colombian, you can post about any topic no matter how unrelated to Colombia? Hell, I've got 4 Colombians living in my house, my wife and my stepchildren. Is that enough of a Colombian connection so that I can just start random topics or post any rant that pops into my head? Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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juanalejo says on Dec 2, 2005, 04:56: Colombia Well I would imagine this site is about anything Colombian, which for some people who want to come here it could be opinions on the country, or for others living abroad and coming in contact with Colombians, could be trying to get the perspective by Colombians on things abroad.
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Thededalus says on Dec 2, 2005, 07:33: Juanalejo I agree a Colombian's opinion of the US, or anywhere else for that matter, is fair game...
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