Colombian Women....why so serious, so quickly?

Leeroy says on Sep 28, 2007, 17:51:

I have not seen many of the casual "we're sort of friends but we have sex occasionally" type relationships here. In fact, I have not seen any.

Why?

I would put it down to Catholic influence on society. While people may not be thinking (explicitly) "Oh I must find someone to marry before I can have sex and have babies", I'm sure that message exists subconsciously in a lot of people.

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Chelesupercono says on Sep 28, 2007, 17:54:

Yes I agree with that, but they certainly are promiscuous while they're looking for something SERIO....also I think it is the favorite catch a gringo tactic because it rarely works with a Latino......

never go to bed with someone crazier then you are, you will do it and you will regret it.......

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lfsr1544 says on Sep 28, 2007, 18:31:

Colombian women have pride and a super EGO. Not a bad trait, but one that isn't easily manipulated. in fact, most of the time, 'they' are the manipulators. I would say down to the biggest whore without trying to be too vulgar. They are usually well educated, and brought up with high 'catholic values'. Even at their 'worst' they know they have something men want. When you come in as a foreigner, even with time spent in Colombia, you're at a disadvantage. All things being the same, most Colombian women are much more attracted to Colombian men.

I don't know how you 'look'? But you have to ask yourself, would you even have a 'shot' at this type of high calibre 'hot' chick in the States? Why would you think all of a sudden you're 'hotter' in SA?

"Solo se que nada se"

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Plato says on Sep 28, 2007, 18:51:

Listen, it's hard to say this but - I have to! Venezuelan women are not caught up as much with that nonsense as Colombian women are. They're much more care free and into having a fantastic time without the immediate "I'm looking for something serious" bit. Good, I seriously want to screw you too!

Plato

The hottest places in hell are reserved for those [liberals] who, in time of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.--Dante Alighieri, (1265-1321)

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robi666 says on Sep 28, 2007, 18:58:

Come on Chele, do you think that they would say: "come on, I am whore, just screw me"?
Colombianas always talk like that and Colombianos go "si mi amor, voy a dejar mi esposa y mi familia para vivir contigo, te amo" and they use each other for sex, but she saves her face. It's a love game...

"I am a citizen of the most beautiful nation on earth. A nation whose laws are harsh yet simple, a nation that never cheats, which is immense and without borders, where life is lived in the present."

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calipro says on Sep 28, 2007, 19:05:

Chelesupercono

Your experiances with Colombianas has been very different than mine. As in the vast majority are willing to get romantic before a serious commitment is made.

Just curious.....what city did you meet these women in?


Leeroy says on Friday September 28th, 2007 17:51:

"I have not seen many of the casual "we're sort of friends but we have sex occasionally" type relationships here. In fact, I have not seen any."

Leeroy haven't you ever heard of the term "amigos con derechos"?

There are plenty of "we are friends but we have sex occasionally type relationships here". hehehe !!!


lfsr1544

Haven't you been reading Elmo's posts?

All colombianas love pasty white gringos. jijiji

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capitan_centella says on Sep 28, 2007, 19:13:

Hum, some women (not all of course) see men like "gringos" (almost any stranger), as their "salvation table". Especially on lower estratos. So you have to be extra carefull, becouse you´ll never know the intention of a girl, and in here they are "locals", so don´t be so naive that you´re chasing her. . usually it´s totally the contrary. So made a friend quickly (a truly female friend, they are loyal and smart in 99% of the cases) and ask her for a piece of advice regarding women. Your female friend, can spot a golddigger miles away, becouse she is a "local" too. Maybe you can predict her behavior, but never her seconds toughts. And it´s not only SA girls, Almost any girl who wants something from any man.

Still is nice have that extra attention, isn´t it? But be cautios. . . a marriage can last two years, but alimony can last forever. I see it all the time.

;-))

"When you open your eyes, you turn around with the world, But it can change, if you only close it, and see a dream to yourself." Me.

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capitan_centella says on Sep 28, 2007, 19:15:

Elmos is right. . . sadly.

"When you open your eyes, you turn around with the world, But it can change, if you only close it, and see a dream to yourself." Me.

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lfsr1544 says on Sep 28, 2007, 19:18:

Plato -- I spent 10 days in VZ recently. Per capita, the most beautiful, well kept women I've ever seen (y eso que soy Colombiano)-- but "care free"... you gotta be joking. I've never been in a country where EVERYONE had a political agenda.

"Solo se que nada se"

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Plato says on Sep 28, 2007, 19:27:

Ifsr1544,

All right - I accept that just about everyone has a political agenda. My family is/was with COPEI - the losing party to ADECO took over in the early 90s. I lived in Venezuela for six months.

But, come on dude, the women are beautiful, hot, and just nice! You know, everyone has expectations, but I find Venezuelan women a tad more subtle about it than Colombian women. Colombian women KNOW they're beautiful and hot and use it purposefully to gain the upper hand. I'm not saying Venezuelan women don't, but I just think it's not as common.

Plato

The hottest places in hell are reserved for those [liberals] who, in time of great moral crisis, maintain their neutrality.--Dante Alighieri, (1265-1321)

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Chelesupercono says on Sep 28, 2007, 23:06:

Come on Chele, do you think that they would say: "come on, I am whore, just screw me"?


Hey robbi666, that's not what I am saying, but how about if they wait at least until they know my name and if I have any Pesos.....you know how about some form of foreplay before we sign a contract! In the end we both usually get what we want,,,,but please why the drama.....after all people do meet as perfect strangers.......algo serio? absurdo!!

never go to bed with someone crazier then you are, you will do it and you will regret it.......

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