Colombian girlfriend, should I be suspicious

Leeroy says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:15:

Man, I would run away from that as soon as possible.

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migringo says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:22:

But I *like* her. I can't just run away from her when she hasn't done anything wrong... How can I know for sure?

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robi666 says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:24:

Troll

"I am a citizen of the most beautiful nation on earth. A nation whose laws are harsh yet simple, a nation that never cheats, which is immense and without borders, where life is lived in the present."

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Medellin Traveler says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:26:

"How can you know for sure?" Simple, you can't.

The most important thing is for you to visit a doctor to make sure you did not pick up any STD!

Good luck!

"Huevos Rancheros en Medellin, No Quiero Taco Bell." - www.medellintraveler.com

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englishhunk says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:37:

how can you not be suspicious of a girl who DOESNT WANT TO WEAR A CONDOM !!! I never met a girl like that and if i did i would be outta there as quick as avoiding one of Art Brode's flat rentals !!!

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john_stark says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:41:

She doesn't want kids but she doesn't take any steps to prevent it? You're getting roped faster than a calf at the NFR finals in Vegas, dude.

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robi666 says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:43:

The most important thing is that she doesn't know your name, phone number, where you live, etc.
If she does and gets pregnant, call the boys and make her abort. Simple.

"I am a citizen of the most beautiful nation on earth. A nation whose laws are harsh yet simple, a nation that never cheats, which is immense and without borders, where life is lived in the present."

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junkyak says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:53:

Put the pregnancy thing aside and go get tested for STDs. Then kick this girl to the curb. She sounds scandalous to me

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scotty says on Sep 3, 2007, 16:55:

Is this pow wow? robi666 is right, Troll

Get Rhythm, when you got the blues. Johnny Cash

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calipro says on Sep 3, 2007, 17:02:

I don't think anyone can stop you from leaving the country for knocking up your girlfriend. The bigger question is do you want her to have one of your kids.

I was shocked when a colombiana tried to take my condom off during intercourse. I don't know what her problem was but I never did that again.

My wife says she doesn't want ahy children at the moment but she uses no birth control and I never use a condom with her. I think colombianas put a lot of faith in god or got brainwashed in the Catholic Church.

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englishhunk says on Sep 3, 2007, 17:17:

yeah, i would immediately be cacking my load about STDS , good point

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Medellin Traveler says on Sep 3, 2007, 17:51:

Calipro,

You are right. From my experience Colombians seem to put way too much faith in God. It seems so backwards to me at times.

This might not be a troll, maybe just a newbie making the same newbie mistakes many have made before him. You know what I'm saying?

"Huevos Rancheros en Medellin, No Quiero Taco Bell." - www.medellintraveler.com

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migringo says on Sep 3, 2007, 17:52:

Fair comments, but only calipro answered my question... about whether I could get hassle from the DAS, etc.

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brazilianhottie says on Sep 3, 2007, 17:54:

I think that the first thing you should do is get tested for any std's. It is very weird for a woman who does not want to get pregnant to not want to use a condom when having sex. Furthurmore, its not just about getting her pregnant but if she didnt want to use a condom with u theirs also a big chance she didnt use it with anybody else. My point is make sure the girl doesnt have any STDs. Their have been cases where women/men know they have AIDS or any other STD and they dont tell the partner so that the partner can get it. And thats what they do. So be careful. As to ur question about you getting her knocked up and not being able to leave I dont think thats possible, atleast from what i know.

Ricardo Izecson dos Santos Leite

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robi666 says on Sep 3, 2007, 17:57:

"This might not be a troll, maybe just a newbie making the same newbie mistakes many have made before him."
His only mistake was making the girl know his real name. Gringos bobos talk too much. You should learn from Colombians and have an alias ready when you go out cruising for girls.
"You know what I'm saying?"
No, we don't. Explain please...

"I am a citizen of the most beautiful nation on earth. A nation whose laws are harsh yet simple, a nation that never cheats, which is immense and without borders, where life is lived in the present."

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robi666 says on Sep 3, 2007, 18:36:

The guy is a troll... stupid question = stupid answer

"I am a citizen of the most beautiful nation on earth. A nation whose laws are harsh yet simple, a nation that never cheats, which is immense and without borders, where life is lived in the present."

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gabolicious says on Sep 3, 2007, 18:37:

if she would get pregnant, migringo, would you stay with her?

Elección no canonización....

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goin_south says on Sep 3, 2007, 18:40:

If it's not pow wow (he would likely be a bit more involved and complexity to his story,...maybe), then these are the kind of newbies that maybe should rank high for consideration of being put instantly on 'ignore'. No?

I'D RATHER BE.........IN COLOMBIA :-))

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gabolicious says on Sep 3, 2007, 18:45:

the thing GS is that he ALREADY knows the answer.. isn't it funny?

Elección no canonización....

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goin_south says on Sep 3, 2007, 18:52:

'the condom broke'! jejje... better invest in better condoms;

better yet, go get the v-cut now;
the world likely doesn't need any more of 'this kind of thinking....jejjje

I THINK YOU'RE HEADED FOR CANDIDACY FOR:

THE DARWIN AWARD!

jejje

I'D RATHER BE.........IN COLOMBIA :-))

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gabolicious says on Sep 3, 2007, 18:54:

QUE PATICO TAN MALO!!!!

I THINK YOU ARE DUCKULA NOW!!!!

ERES MUY MALO!!!

LOL

(but I agree with you)

Elección no canonización....

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gabolicious says on Sep 3, 2007, 18:54:

QUE PATICO TAN MALO!!!!

I THINK YOU ARE DUCKULA NOW!!!!

ERES MUY MALO!!!

LOL

(but I agree with you)

Elección no canonización....

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Man Tequila says on Sep 3, 2007, 19:25:

I've had Colombianas try to take off the condom before. Don't know if it is faith or to let you feel more, but it is asking for trouble. HIV, Hepatitis C, syphillis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, LGV, genital warts and molluscum contagiosum are varying possibilities if she hasn't been checked recently -- you could get it checked out. The rhythm method does not prevent pregnancy, as you should know, but taking 2 Ovral birth control tablets within 3 days (sooner the better) of a broken condom is helpful, repeating the same dose in 12 hours. Use a condom, next time, and the peace of mind is worth the lost sensation.

As for your ACTUAL question, it's been answered. But if you care about her and think she did nothing wrong, you might act accordingly. Now what type of ice cream do trolls eat for dessert?

Aunque no me creas/ si me lo propongo/ lograre olvidarte/ porque a fin de cuentas/ no soy tan cobarde./ Y termino todo una de estas tardes/ no sera dificil buscar algún sitio donde refugiarme/ donde nunca mas vuelvas a encontrarme. (Polo Montañez)

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droble77 says on Sep 3, 2007, 19:49:

Hmmmm, interesting anecdotes. Maybe the ladies are so used to the local men not using condoms that they think the gringos are the weird ones for insisting on them. It's a funny world. . .

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migringo says on Sep 3, 2007, 19:57:

OK a lot of people have jumped to rather odd conclusions. The fact is, my girlfriend and I were intimate for a while before we made the decision to forgo the condom. Then I became worried later.

My main regret at this stage is airing my dirty laundry in public. If you look at the thread above, you'll see what happened is that one guy made a rude comment, then a bunch of other guys decided it was safe and jumped on the bandwagon. Of course none of you would have the guts to make comments like this about my girlfriend to my face, but this is the Internet so that makes it ok, right?

Let this be a lesson to anybody else posting a problem of a personal nature on this forum. For every one guy who wants to offer some real advice, there are going to be about six guys who just want to sneer and say they know better than you without offering any actual fact to back it up. In Colombia itself you don't get so much of the sneering crowd, one of the reasons to love this country.

MIGRINGO

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brazilianhottie says on Sep 3, 2007, 20:08:

Migringo: look I have seen that in several occasions where newbies ask questions and a few people start accusing them of being trolls when in reality u are a person in need of listening to peopls opinions in regards to ur personal situation. On the other hand, there are ppl in this forum who give helpful advise. So dont get discouraged. It happened to me when I first came in and it really bothered me, but dont put too much mind to it.

Ricardo Izecson dos Santos Leite

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goin_south says on Sep 3, 2007, 20:15:

yeah, bzhottie.....everyone does seem to get the 'baptism', one way or another, don't they?

but, really....everyone's thinking what GIB wrote:

what a life some of you lead to come to a site about Colombia and ask such a stupid fucking question. ... and, you probably have 'real' friend, not virtual advice, to help you out on this. wadya expect?

I'D RATHER BE.........IN COLOMBIA :-))

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goin_south says on Sep 3, 2007, 20:16:

(I think,... dogman = migringo = pow wow)

I'D RATHER BE.........IN COLOMBIA :-))

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brazilianhottie says on Sep 3, 2007, 20:32:

GoingSouth: Yea, I agree with what u said about asking a real friend. But i dunno, not all ppl are the same. and maybe he feels more comfortable getting virtual advise. My point is that not everyone who asks a "weird question" is a troll. besides theres no such thing as a stupid question. cut migringo some slack.

Ricardo Izecson dos Santos Leite

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Medellin Traveler says on Sep 3, 2007, 20:49:

Migringo,
I hear what you are saying. Yes, it also seems to me that there are far more negative post made by members without adding anything serious along with the ribbing. And I'm not just referring to your post.

I'm also a newbie on this board but have experience on other boards. It seems that from my experience whenever a newbie signs up on a message board that many serious experienced know-it-alls, are always quick to call someone out as a troll when in fact it's just someone who was asking for advice, silly as it may sound due to the naiveity of the poster.

I don't know why this type of behaviour exist. Everyone of us has learned something or another the hard way. Personally, almost everything I've learned in life I've learned the hard way.

I've never been one to rush to be the first to call someone a troll even if the questions seems absurd at times, mainly because I believe many have been in similiar situations but are afraid to ask due to fear of ridicule.

And, believe you me, you're not the first person in this type of situation. Don't let the others get to you. There's nothing wrong with a little ribbing every now and then.

"Huevos Rancheros en Medellin, No Quiero Taco Bell." - www.medellintraveler.com

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brazilianhottie says on Sep 3, 2007, 20:59:

Totally agree with medellin traveller. I couldnt have said it better. :)

Ricardo Izecson dos Santos Leite

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christobeldawg says on Sep 3, 2007, 21:00:

You already are suspicious. You said that. Only you know why you feel that way. You need to talk to her genuinely about this, and trust your call. I think some were turned off by your back and forth message, acting like you were ready to run and hide, and then you were turning around and acting like you had a serious relationship with her. I don't think you were giving enough honest information in order to get honest feedback.

admittedly, arriving can feel great too

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slguy says on Sep 3, 2007, 21:02:

"Of course none of you would have the guts to make comments like this about my girlfriend to my face, but this is the Internet so that makes it ok, right?"

Sorry, but I beg to differ. If you asked me this very question to my face, you'd get in response "You're f'okin kidding me, right?". If I saw that you were serious, I'd buy you a drink and give you the birds n bees spech I gave my 14 year old son...

Before you throw me out, make sure I pay my bar tab

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goin_south says on Sep 3, 2007, 21:23:

okay, Bzhottie and Med T.
You guys babysit for awhile.
and, go back and read j_starks comment...
LMao...

I'D RATHER BE.........IN COLOMBIA :-))

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Buongone says on Sep 3, 2007, 21:25:

Englishhunk. Why do you make the remarks about AB's flat rentals? Ever stay there before. Just Curiuos?

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goin_south says on Sep 3, 2007, 21:38:

migringo, last advice. rather than asking me and the rest of the bozos here.... I think you should get on a Colombian Chat site and ask a bunch of Colombianitas what they think.

You'll get the 'answers you wanna hear', there, more than here...
And, at least.. you'll be left in the end, with some more potential dates for next trip.

What a way to meet up with some more colombianas...
Let's go!

Hell, let's all go our own way into Colombian chat land, and use this story, and return and compare notes and chicas and future potentials....lol

I'D RATHER BE.........IN COLOMBIA :-))

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brazilianhottie says on Sep 3, 2007, 21:41:

goingsouth: ga naar hel ;)

Ricardo Izecson dos Santos Leite

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