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Just got back from 11 days in BOG, I spent two weeks in CALI back in June, so I wanted to experience the Big City scene in COL. Meet up w/ fellow poorbuthappy poster (Tone2) for a weekend, had a blast partying with him. This was my first time in BOG, this report is my own personal opinions and observation, if what I post is wrong, please feel free to correct the information. But please do it in a constructive way. No flaming please! Hopefuly this will provide information for people who have not been to BOG or even COL to get a general idea. I took quite a few fotos, they will be posted when I figure out how to post it. to the report...
I arrived late Sat(11/13) night into BOG, navigated the DAS fairly easily, AAirlines paid the departure tax as part of the ticket. Went outide and took a taxi(use the taxi counter) to the Suite Real Hotel in Zona Rosa. The taxi ride was fairly quick 15-20 mins.
On Sunday went down to the Blvd MALL for lunch then meet up with an amiga in the evening for dinner. She recommended the famous Viejas restaruant(expensive), I was a littled peeved that my friend took me here. I wanted something more authenic family style colombian food, what locals would goto, not some fancy restaurant. The food was OK, price for two people w/ bottle of wine was 100k peso, cheap compare to USA. Now, can someone help me out here?
In USA, when you go to dinner with a friend or date, and order appetizer, it usually to share(especially when portions are huge), but 3 times in COL, my friend/date would order the appetizer for themselves and not to share, THEN they would order the main entre. And the appetizer in these restaurants are entre size portions! So is this normal dinner etique not to share appetizer? I tried to explain that in my USA, we share our appetizer with our dinner guest so both people can try different dishes. Only after I started sharing the appetizer I chose, did she started sharing hers. Afterward, we went dance and end the night on the high note.
Saga continues with some major discoveries on the differences in cultural regarding women in COL...
By caslug on Nov 25, 2004, 10:21 in Friendly Talkzone.
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Dan says on Nov 25, 2004, 11:49: restaurants The last time I went to Bogota, I visited a place around La Calera that looked out into Bogota. At night it is beautifull seeing all the lights of the city. Anyway, My girlfriend told me this place was expensive and that she doesn't go there much because of that, Just for the two of us, the bill was 143K pesos. well... she warned me about it before hand but I didn't have a problem with it. God Bless America! 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mr. Hollywood says on Nov 25, 2004, 13:25: Blvd Mall? Do you mean the Zona T, where the streets are closed and it's a pedestrian area with lots of restaurants?
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caslug says on Nov 25, 2004, 14:04: I don't know exact location... It's a big inside mall, the local taxi driver just called it Boulevard Mall, But it had Hollywood Casino inside. Where's Zona T? I stayed near carrare 15 & calle 85(carulla supermarket) in zona norte. I remember they close on sunday carrer 15 to cars so people can walk and bike around.
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juanalejo says on Nov 25, 2004, 14:41: Appetizers It is absolutely normal to order an appetizer per person and then a main course. Most appetizers are main course style in smaller sizes. It is a family dinner it is not badly seen to share but you actually change plates, if it is a date you might share a bite, just to try it out, in a formal dinner it is completely out of question.
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litost says on Nov 25, 2004, 14:51: I think caslug is talking about the Bulevar Niza shopping mall, which is on the calle 127 with avenida Suba (northwest Bogota). It's an ok mall, but not what you would usually show to a foreigner in Bogota.
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caslug says on Nov 25, 2004, 15:32: I agree, It's an ok mall.. I only went there because an amigas lived close and we wanted to meet somewhere close to her. But as mall goes, I lived in orange county, CA which has malls and malls, and then you have LA. I like checking out malls in different cities or country to see how locals look like and how they shops. I actually prefer to shop in little stores on the streets. Near where I stayed, there was a little swap meet going on in front of the carulla supermarket, with little stalls of merchants selling knick nacks.
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cremaster says on Nov 25, 2004, 15:54: What did you expect? "She recommended the famous Viejas restaruant(expensive), I was a littled peeved that my friend took me here. I wanted something more authenic family style colombian food, what locals would go to, not some fancy restaurant."
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Lionheart says on Nov 25, 2004, 15:55: appetizers and etiquette It seems the Colombian customs are the same as in Europe. Normally appetizers are not shared, espcially when you order a full menu, where the sequence of dishes is matched. Some restaurants offer special mixed appertizer plates for several people, where you pick and select the appetizers you want. Within the family or with close friends you can exchange plates, but never at a formal dinner. Shoving food off the plate onto somebody else's plate is considered extremely rude.
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caslug says on Nov 25, 2004, 16:26: Great comment!.. but, we're not talking about a full menu...like you would order in a 4/5 star restaurant, or what we americans call a pre-fix menu. I have eaten at those and paid quite a lot of money for that. Vieja is a upscale(very) colombian restaurant, but it is not a pre fix menu. the appetizers are not match to the meal(ie, 5 course meals).
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kernow62 says on Nov 25, 2004, 16:34: Good questions Lionheart Table manners may indeed differ in different areas of Colombia too. I imagine Cachacos are more European in their table manners. I noticed that they do not put elbows or arms on the table as per the norm in Europe. Alos curious what if any foods are supposed to be eaten in the fingers. In Europe I eat pizza with a knife and fork, but in the US it is perfectly acceptable to pick it up and eat it in the hand. My wife who is from Bogotá does not even pick up a rib or a piece of chicken with her hand, I am not talking about food from a street vendor, but in more formal family or restaurant settings.
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Mr. Hollywood says on Nov 25, 2004, 17:24: Zona T If you stayed at 85th and 16th then you were very near the Zona T. That's between 84 and 82 (Calles) and 12 and 13 (carreras). Also nearby are the Atlantis and Andino shopping malls. The whole area there is the Zona Rosa.
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juanalejo says on Nov 26, 2004, 06:46: Etiquette Lionheart, I was taught to change fork to the right when eatting and to the left when cutting, but it all seems so complicated. I do not know when in my life I changed to keeping the fork always in the left and I have noticed a lot of people do it now a days. About the free hand when eating, it is to be kept visible on top of the table, my father used to teach me via the rudest way possible by asking me in public if my b.... were itching if my hand was on my lap instead of on top of the table.
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poulet says on Nov 26, 2004, 08:22: yep, you use the fork with your left hand when cutting and with your right when eating. If you're just using a spoon your left hand goes on the table. You NEVER EVER place your elbows on the table I find it extremely rude.
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Nov 26, 2004, 08:51: fork and knife We don't change fork from left to right as we eat. We don't cut up our food first, only the portion we put into our mouths. It's considered bad table manners here to first cut up all the food and then eat with only a fork. The fork is always kept in the left hand, and the knife in the right hand. The fork is never used as a ladle or spoon to bring the food into your mouth. You cut up the food and pile it daintily on the top of the fork holding the meat or other solid pieces attached in the teeth of the fork. Elbows on the table is an absolute no-no. "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Nov 26, 2004, 10:19: what unoccupied hand? I only have two of them, and they're both occupied when I'm eating, except when I'm eating soup or dessert:) Just to be argumentative: fork always in the left hand, knife always in the right hand. When eating soup: spoon in the right hand, left hand rests easily on the wrist supported by the edge of the table, not in the lap! "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Nov 26, 2004, 10:45: that's the only way we've been taught. It's neat and very easy, once you get used to it. When I was in Colombia with the kids last time I had drilled them thoroughly to mind their table manners at the grandparents'. When the old folks grabbed greasy chicken legs with their hands and started munching them my children could not hold back but started laughing...saying..."Mommie, and you were worried about OUR table manners!" "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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caslug says on Nov 26, 2004, 10:53: ahh, the lost art of dinning etiquette... I can see from the post here that americans are very lax in our table manners. I attend luncheons/dinners with business owners, company executives all the time, and we always cut food w/ our fork&knife then use the fork to put in our mouth. I agree that formal dinning etiquette is a lost art(especially in USA), it's really not something that is taught anymore plus there are some many different type of cusines that don't use the standard fork/knife/spoon settings.
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Lionheart says on Nov 26, 2004, 13:09: mmm, rather the lost art of etiquette in general When I was growing up in Germany my German step-father was very strict about manners in general, not just the table manners. How to shake hands correctly, in which sequence to sit down at the table, etc. Also the art of being a cavalier has been lost in the USA. Holding the door open, taking her coat off and hanging it up, pulling the chair back a bit, sitting down after her, standing up when she goes to powder her nose, and other endless little things to show attention ....
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Nov 26, 2004, 13:45: good manners I believe the virtue of having been raised up traditionally is just that you always "know" what's the right thing to do at any given situation. It becomes an instinct rather than something you have read inthe books You can break the rules of the etiquette just as easily if you think somebody is receiving a shabby treatment. All this "good manners" is just a code of behaviour that takes into consideration the feelings of everybody else. It's not pleasant sitting at the table with a sloppy eater, or somebody who picks his teeth, makes disruptive noises, chews with an open mouth showing the contents inside his/her mouth, talking loudly, spilling or knocking over things...it's very basic, indeed. "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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caslug says on Nov 27, 2004, 10:46: concept of time... it took me a while to figure this one out...I would agree to meet my friend at a certain time, BUT she typically would be 1-3 hrs late w/o calling. Couple of times, I would call when they are 30-45 min late and they are still at home. I asked the hotel manager about this and he told me this is normal in BOG/COL. As a vacationer w/ limited time, this becomes and issue, but i can see that if you live there then it wouldn't be a big issue. The best way I find to avoid this is if I offer to go pick them up in a taxi...
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Nov 27, 2004, 11:04: concept of time No Colombian woman would ever be that desperate as to show up at the time that has been agreed upon. It's understood that if you say, for example, at 8 p.m. it only means that it's not going to be before that. It can be anytime after. "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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toneloc24 says on Dec 2, 2004, 15:32: Question to Desi then re: punctuality "Don't tase me, bro!!!!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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utopiacowboy says on Dec 2, 2004, 15:38: We used to call this Indian Time when I lived in Oklahoma. What time does the Pow-Wow start? The Pow-Wow starts when the Pow-Wow starts. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Atrevido says on Dec 2, 2004, 16:02: Good one utopia! I prefer time measured in moons. Desi don't forget to mention one should never place their knees on the table. Dating various Colombian women I had one who consistently arrived two or more hours late. I really couldn't figure what she was trying to prove but on the second date (there weren't many more) she told me "when I get married I want a car". So I conclude that any colombiana who is that incumplida probobly wants you to buy her a car and I ain't talkin' no Renault Master. An hour wait is outragious. No second date. More than an hour merits dire action (those guys on the Yamahas).
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toneloc24 says on Dec 2, 2004, 16:40: Atrevido - I'm not sure about what other dudes are thinking, nor really do I care, but if ANY chick is later than 30 minutes without so much as a call, date's over. "Don't tase me, bro!!!!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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caslug says on Dec 3, 2004, 09:39: agree... that more than 1 hr is late ridiculous. I was tempted couple times to make multiple date at the same time and go with the one that shows up first! When your on vacation, your time is more important because you have limited days you'll be in town.
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caslug says on Dec 3, 2004, 09:47: another experience.. I had that made my trip enjoyable and memorable was when I went down to Plaza de Boliver one day to take pictures of the plaza, the presindential palace and surrounding areas. It was during the weekday during the day, and I never felt danger at all. All the soldiers & guards i talked with were very friendly. When I got to the Plaza, I saw some protest was happening. So there was bunch of black uniform riot police w/ bunch of tourist police around too. I took some fotos of the protest(student were protesting about privatizing education).
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Dec 3, 2004, 10:12: more about tardiness I'm afraid the Colombians don't see it that way. For them it's a sign of rudeness to be on time, since it's not customary to be late, and it's expected. To insist on showing up on time means that you consider your time more valuable than their time, which is of course, untrue. "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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toneloc24 says on Dec 3, 2004, 11:58: Desi, I understand cultural differences and I'm willing to adjust to many,...but this is downright stupid and disrespectful. "Don't tase me, bro!!!!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Dec 3, 2004, 12:13: it's all about their time, not yours. Please don't read me wrong, I am in favor to be punctual myself. I was raised that way, and I think it's just good manners to be on time, but when you can't beat them, just join them! For a casual date, I agree, a half an hour is pretty much the norm, after that you ought to start making phone calls to explain yourself. Have a bite to eat before, take it easy, relax. You know your date will be late, so you can be a bit tardy yourself, since nobody is expecting you to show up at the agreed time. It's just a reference frame, anyway. "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Mr. Hollywood says on Dec 3, 2004, 12:27: Protest Caslug, I walked through Plaza Bolivar during that same protest and asked a cop what it was about, too. Funny, we might have practically bumped into each other.
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toneloc24 says on Dec 3, 2004, 13:02: Desi - voice of reason once again Thanks for the clarification. I will never just accept that your time is more important than mine, and vice versa. "Don't tase me, bro!!!!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Dec 3, 2004, 14:31: everybody I've ever known have been horrible with times. I've grown used to it, and don't consider it an issue any longer. But I'm kind of curious about why you consider your time more valuable than theirs. You're there on a vacation, they are working, right? "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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caslug says on Dec 3, 2004, 14:59: My time is NOT more valuable than my local amigas. I have high regard for their time and effort to meet me, so I expect them to show me the same courtesy. I'm sure it's also a cultural perspective too... I never let them sit around waiting without notice for more than 30 mins w/o a call. COL are not 1 or 2 hrs late for work, so apparently they CAN and DO make a effort to be on time when $$ or career is involve. So it's not like it's impossible. The people that choose to be very late, made a choice NOT to treat YOUR time as important as their boss or clients.
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caslug says on Dec 3, 2004, 15:03: Hollywood, do they hold... protest at the Plaza de Bolivar alot? Or did we just happen to stumble on to one that day? I love to post some fotos, but I'm having problems trying to upload the fotos onto this site.
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toneloc24 says on Dec 3, 2004, 15:26: Desi - I do respect your opinion. I enjoy listening the otherside of the coin, but.....it is not about whose time is more important. It's about simple respect. Women take for granted that we're supposed to wait for them. Why is that? "Don't tase me, bro!!!!" 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Dec 3, 2004, 15:40: it's more of value of time, I think. For Colombians, time in itself carries no big value. They'll tell you "6 p.m." for an example, meaning it can't be earlier than that. Anytime later is ok. Since it's a social engagement, it's ok to be late. Yes, I think it's common courtesy to let you know you're running late. A half an hour isn't really "late". Two hours, yes. I would draw a line at 45 minutes, but that's just me. "I have opinions of my own, strong opinions, but I don't always agree with them."-President George W. Bush 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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caslug says on Dec 4, 2004, 09:26: Safety in BOG... As i travel to different places I would ask the taxi drivers what strato and how safe those areas are in day or night. The general concensus was strato 3 was safe in the day to walk around, shop etc., BUT not safe a night. Strato 4(upper class) area were the same except at night some areas were better(more street light for example). I remember dropping an amiga that had a house in Strato 4 at night, and her whole residential neighborhood had no street lights(pitch black on the street). Quite scary on the surface, of course that's why it is not recommend for a women to stand outside a street corner(even in strato 4) and hail a cab at night. Strato 5(zona rosa) is pretty safe at night. I walked from the casino to my hotel(4-6 blocks) fairly often late a night. Just stay on the main streets and in well lighted area.
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kernow62 says on Dec 4, 2004, 15:45: What is wrong with batteries? My wife's cousin uses battery power here in Florida, it is how I power my CD player, big deal. The batteries must be recharged so I don't understand your reason for bringing it up. Now the water situation is a problem, but if one has access to clean water whether plumbed to a house or going to a local well it is better than no water. Incidentally that same cousin has a wind powered well for their water supply.
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