Hi. I am a 20 year old English girl, I have a Colombian boyfriend and I plan to go with him to his country early this summer.
I am really pale and blonde and know not much Spanish so I am quite nervous. We will be staying in the north of Bogota with his family, but he says he will take me to visit some nice safe sites outside of Bogota too.
I just want to stay as safe as possible. I will probably be gone a month. Any advice at all? I think I will stick out like a sore thumb.
By Hyla on Jan 10, 2006, 12:12 in Friendly Talkzone.
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tomtom33 says on Jan 10, 2006, 12:36: Bogotanas are pretty pale too. Don't venture out without your boyfriend or his family and friends.
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Hyla says on Jan 10, 2006, 12:43: I don't intend to :]
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tomtom33 says on Jan 10, 2006, 12:47: I think it's safe enough if you do the above.
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ronald1168 says on Jan 10, 2006, 12:56: Don't worry Hyla You are going to have a great time in Colombia, The north of Bogota is known as a quite safe area. No problems at all. ronald@donders.co.uk 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Hyla says on Jan 10, 2006, 13:00: I am feeling much better now. I talk to my boyfriend about it and he tells me I will be fine, but I just wanted more opinions.
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Slovenkita says on Jan 10, 2006, 13:05: I was in Bogota for 2,5 month and i didnt have any problem. And well you speak spanish just a little but i dont speak spanish so no worries just enjoy your nice holiday with your boyfriend. Anyway for sure he or his family will stay with you.
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Hyla says on Jan 10, 2006, 13:08: I guess my main worry is cos I'm white perhaps I will be perceived as rich when in fact me and my family have hardly two pennies to rub together.... I get nervous thinking what if I am kidnapped and when they realise ransom money is out the question I get killed? I know it's a bit paranoid but what can I say :p
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ronald1168 says on Jan 10, 2006, 13:11: Hyla You will not be the only white person in Bogota, the people from Bogota are quite pale as well. ronald@donders.co.uk 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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SPECTRASORT says on Jan 10, 2006, 13:21: Colombia for the British Hyla,
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Mr. Hollywood says on Jan 10, 2006, 21:34: Blondes don't stand out Hyla, what's going to make you stand out is your nervousness, your accent and the clothes you wear, not your white skin and blonde hair. Blondes are a dime a dozen in Bogota and won't turn anyone's head.
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morphus says on Jan 10, 2006, 23:59: don't worry Colombia has the best kidnappers in the world. If they find out you don't have any money, they usually let you go. But, if you do have money and don't pay, they kill you though.
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Hyla says on Jan 11, 2006, 09:49: He is from... ohh let's remember.. a place beginning with P... :/ He moved to Bogota with his family a few years ago. Per-ray-ya it sounds like. I don't know how to spell it.
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caslug says on Jan 11, 2006, 09:57: P... for periera? that city is NOT near BOG, it's about a 5 hrs bus ride. It's a small city compare to BOG, but it's in the heart of zona caferteria(coffee region) and is near some spectactcular parks. You should definitely checkout COL BEFORE you move there in order to see if you like it or not. Plus, unless you have a work or student visa, you can't stay more than 6 mos. Unless you're planning to get marry.
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SPECTRASORT says on Jan 11, 2006, 10:07: Colombia is very Different from the UK Hyla , if you are used to the high life in London then you might be in for a shock , Colombia is not a modern as the USA/Europe , however they are getting there and growing rapidly.
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Hyla says on Jan 11, 2006, 10:56: Ok thankyou :]
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NewBoy says on Jan 12, 2006, 04:23: Rural Cornwall Hyla, I think you will find the nightlife in Colombia a bit better than there.
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California says on Jan 12, 2006, 13:38: No worries! Just wanted to let you know that you'll be fine. I am American living in Bogota and have had a few blond, blue-eyed girlfriends come to visit and us girls go out and have a great time without any trouble. Like any big city, there are some ugly parts, but I doubt your boyfriend will take you there. You'll be surprised at how many English-speaking, light people you see. Two things are important though- always carry an over-the-shoulder purse- handbags are easy to grab. Try not to take your passport anywhere out, and never hail a taxi from the street- always call. Good luck and enjoy what Bogota has to offer.
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ricardo.pinzon says on Jan 13, 2006, 21:52: Que_Lindo_Pais I think Colombia is misunderstood by many. I would like to take some time to thank Peter Van Dijck on a job well done. And Hyla I don't think your boyfriend is doing a good job at making you feel secured. Sweety don't worry about a thing you will be just fine. I had to deal with similar feelings from my wife the first time she visited Colombia in june of 2003, we've been back twice ever since.
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rocinante says on Jan 14, 2006, 15:24: Bring a local Hang with people who live there - if your boyfriend relocated to Ye Merry Olde England when he was 11 that doesn't count. Does he have family down there? Hook up with them. "World economic indicators point to a democrat winning 2008. It will surely be Obama. Peso 1400 by November" Feb 5, 2008 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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CrazyGirlPerez says on Jan 14, 2006, 17:44: girl i'm colombian but i look like a pure white girl, every one that meets me can't belive i'm Latina
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Hyla says on Jan 16, 2006, 12:05: No, He was born in Bogota, lived in Pereria, moved to Bogota at about 11, is a student here with me, has been here for about 3 years. :]
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kernow62 says on Jan 16, 2006, 12:30: Hyla you want to swap your place in rural Cornwall for a nice place in Florida? ;-)
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Desideria (Moderator) says on Jan 16, 2006, 13:00: a swap? Tintagel for Mickey Mouse? Interesting... "When shall we three meet again? In thunder, lightning, or in rain?"(First Witch in Macbeth) 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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tobntno says on Jan 16, 2006, 16:50: I would have to disagree on the blond thing Hi everybody,
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Hyla says on Jan 18, 2006, 08:15: I am thinking about moving to Florida actually... except Americans are insane. :]
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utopiacowboy says on Jan 18, 2006, 08:18: Florida? Are there any Americans there any more? All Latin Americans from various places and those damm Canadians. For insane Americans, try California. Disclaimer: any comment I make is inane and is not to be taken seriously, and is so patently ridiculous that no one should take it seriously, even as an insult. 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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Albatross says on Jan 18, 2006, 08:39: No we're not... We're not "Insane", we're "Reality Challenged". “Democracy - a pathetic belief in the collective wisdom of individual ignorance." - H.L. Mencken 0 funny, 0 helpful. |
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kernow62 says on Jan 18, 2006, 12:04: Hyla, I used to live in Nancledra, about half way between St. Ives and Penzance. I have family in St. Ives, lovely place except when the emmets come to town. ;-)
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