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Célle comments on Hola todos. 2 cents worth.

Guys guys... be nice. Everyone is invited to come back. Don't take things personal. Life is beautiful. GOD is good. Smile and enjoy the ride, but have fun on the way...

Célle comments on Walk tall boys, walk tall

Kat1...pero por supuesto que todo aqui es charla. Tomar a Elmo muy en serio? Na!...no podria yo tengo ya un amorcito :D

Célle comments on Gringos, Latinas and the Age Gap

Lowell... what a beatiful story. Thanks for sharing it with us. You quoted:

I push her to do things women of her age like to do. Actually, I wish that she’d do more. I don’t hold her back from anything she wants to do. I don’t want her to be a Gringa. I like doing things that people younger than me like to do. I enjoy seeing her be more confident, not feel so downtrodden, know that she now can strive for more and be more free. relish and respect, envy her youth. I try to remember what I was like at that age. I try to remember our cultural differences and level of life differences. We talk about everything. We discuss the future. We laugh. We’ve had problems and have worked on them. We have problems and are working on them. I never really grew up and she is very mature for her age.

First of all, you're honest with yourself and second of all you're smart. You've good it made! Congrats and best of luck to the both of you :)

Célle comments on Walk tall boys, walk tall

Mr. Elmo... Le agradezco su interés por mí. Aunque, usted dice no ser vulgar ni desagradable, para mi muy buena memoria recuerdo que… las cosas suyas que yo he leído aqui no concuerdan mucho con lo que usted alega “no ser.” Al menos que todo sea un personaje que a creado para hacernos a todos aquí en PBH pasarla bien u a otros mal. Quizás en la vida real sea todo un caballero, eso solo nos lo puede aclarar Kat1… que dice conocerlo mejor que nadie. No lo se, de todas maneras creo recordar que usted es un hombre casado y yo pues lamentablemente (y digo lamentablemente porque existen unos hombres casados que están hechos todos unos papis) no cojo lo que no es mió. Si no es mió no lo quiero. Usted no tiene oportunidad conmigo corazóncito. Usted aquí ya perdió el año...

Célle comments on Walk tall boys, walk tall

Rocinante quoted: (If you are 45 and she's 25 you can bet in 10 years when she still has it together and you're pushing 60 that while you're taking your daily Geritol nap, there's a good chance she's in the boathouse doing Carlos the pool boy figuring out how the two of them are going to spend her inheritance when you croak.

Or she may be the sweetest little angel who will be faithful all the time. But how can you really know? Also if she is really faithful and does all the right things (no lying, no aggression, bad attitude and stuff like that), maybe she's not truly happy and feels inside that she sacrificed.)

There's a good chance she can be faithful and not doing the pool boy Carlos. I could be real nice and give it all away; telling you all how to keep her faithful. No it's not sex, no it's not money, and no it's not the small things. It's deeper...goes beyond all that. I'm just not able to let the gals down by telling you. "Sad that you guys being the smart men that you are" have not been able to figure it all out; yet. Boys you can continue to walk tall even if you've got no idea how you're doing it, how you did it if so, or how you're going to do it. Keep on trying though, don’t give up. Not just yet. You're getting closer and closer each century. "Se los dejo de tarea papasitos."

The truth of the matter is that we can't live without each other. Las mujeres sin los divinos hombres y ustedes sin nosotras.

Who cares about an age difference? Hey as long as older is not old.

Pero para ser honesta no puedo terminar esta linea sin recordarles que definitivamente los hombres de 20-30 estan espectaculares, son unos papis chulos, muah ricos ricos ricos!

(Estas de acuerdo KAT1? ;) oye mujer...btw tenemos que poner un tema con papis chulos para nosotras las mujeres, tambien pues!

Célle comments on Walk tall boys, walk tall

mvefwd I'm totally with your Calena. If I wanted to baby-sit I would have my own children. Por eso no tengo bebes!!! Young men from 20-30 are hot, sexy and have great hard bodies but, they are like children and they're also very selfish. They are always only thinking about themselves...

Célle comments on Walk tall boys, walk tall

mvefwd I'm totally with your Calena. If I wanted to baby-sit I would have my own children. Por eso no tengo bebes!!! Young men from 20-30 are hot, sexy and have great hard bodies but, they are like children and they're also very selfish. They are always only thinking about themselves...

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Replying to: Damn Celle if you’re into old modefoques, I’m just the guy for you!

How old is old?

I didn't say old I said older...correction Mr. Elmo.

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Uyyyy..... good luck with the procedure. Yo le tengo un pavor a las cirugias. Eres muy valiente!

Célle comments on Walk tall boys, walk tall

Mi querido felizafortunado.... muy buena broma, tu mensaje me hizo partirme de la risa esta mañana :)

Célle comments on Walk tall boys, walk tall

A las mujeres jovenes si nos gustan los manes mayores young women we love older men. Do you want to know why? There's something about them like.....
1. They don't have stupid conversations
2. Most of them have a stable job
3. Can offer security in a marriage
4. In most cases will not cheat because they dont take the age difference for granted
5. Know how to treat a woman because they already make the stupid mistakes with their first women

Yes we prefer them to be older.

I will not reveal my age but what I will say is that I can't see myself dating a guy my age... boring!

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21 years of age difference? Wow that's a lot but it can work if both of you are in love and want it to work. I am currently seeing a Colombiano who is 14 years older than me and I think that's a lot. It's not bad though the only difference here is that she's only 19. I'm a little older. She hasn't even had a chance to see what's out there. Wait until she gets to see the hunks that are out there single!!! She's still a kid, might be mature and all but she's still a teen. Heck my sister is 18 and if I knew she was with a 40 year I'd freak out.

I don't think papi will hurt you but what I do think is that he won't be too happy about the relationship. My father is not happy with my relationship but I'm an adult and I'm not stupid plus I'm already a professional and make my own money so...I will see him even if my dad doesn't want me to because I'm happy here ;)

If you're both happy who cares what anybody thinks...

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Ahhhh stop you guys are making me hungry! :)

Célle comments on Empanada & aji recipe

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Célle comments on Empanada & aji recipe

Ahhhh stop your guys are making me hungry! :)

Célle comments on Macho English

Raul that's not always true... my mother is a 4'11, small framed, petite, thin woman. I on the other hand took after my father’s family who is Basque and am a 5'9, large framed, full figured slim woman. So...that theory is not very accurate. My possibilities of looking like my mother in 20 years are not even close to high.

Macho...I don't know if this is all true or not. If not God forgive you because this is a very serious subject, don't play with your luck. "La vida da muchas vueltas y la lengua castiga."

If this it is true I'm truly sorry that you have had to go through all this. I can't even imagine how you feel. My first conclusion is that this woman does not love you, because she cheated on you. When a woman loves she respects. She did this during your first year of marriage??? Wow! So not cool. Cheating, period is low and not only shows immaturity but is also a sign of lack of character. Catching your spouse or girlfriend in any lie should be a red flag for cheating, because if she lies about something stupid she can lie about anything. Now, not only did she lie and cheat but she also had the audacity to tell you about it? Not enough sex? She should have talked to you about it, woke you up early in the morning to try to get your engine going. A smart woman who loves her man will find ways to get it as often as she wants it. There are so many alternatives...she could have bought herself a dildo, if she was so desperate but to cheat on her husband AND allow herself to get pregnant? That’s SERIOUS stuff. That means she didn't use protection and doesn't even care about herself and her own body. Her ex could have been sleeping with other women WITHOUT protection. Then, she sleeps with you WITHOUT protection, get it?

At the beginning of a marriage things are fresh. Your sex life should be at its peak, if she cheated on you at the beginning that means she probably cheated on you during the entire time you guys were boyfriend-girlfriend. ¡La misma borracha, chismosa, grilla, perezosa y etc. que es tu novia será la misma borracha, chismosa, grilla, perezosa que es tu esposa y cría a tus hijos!

I can't tell you to divorce her. Only you can make that decision, but what I can tell you is that if you love her and think you can get through this and decide to stay with her she must earn your trust and respect again. Try going to church if you are religious or get therapy but don't just act like nothing happened because if you try to cover things up now in the long run it will come back to haunt you and you will end up divorcing after you're 60 and after you have already given her the best years of your life. When instead you could be in a happy healthy realtionship with a woman who knows how to appreciate a good man. I don't care if she came from a wealthy family a good woman will not cheat.

I wish you the best.

Célle comments on Macho English

Raul that's not always true... my mother is a 4'11, small framed, petite, thin woman. I on the other hand took after my father’s family who is Basque and am a 5'9, large framed, full figured slim woman. So...that theory is not very accurate. My possibilities of looking like my mother in 20 years are not even close to high.

Macho...I don't know if this is all true or not. If not God forgive you because this is a very serious subject, don't play with your luck. "La vida da muchas vueltas y la lengua castiga."

If this it is true I'm truly sorry that you have had to go through all this. I can't even imagine how you feel. My first conclusion is that this woman does not love you, because she cheated on you. When a woman loves she respects. She did this during your first year of marriage??? Wow! So not cool. Cheating, period is low and not only shows immaturity but is also a sign of lack of character. Catching your spouse or girlfriend in any lie should be a red flag for cheating, because if she lies about something stupid she can lie about anything. Now, not only did she lie and cheat but she also had the audacity to tell you about it? Not enough sex? She should have talked to you about it, woke you up early in the morning to try to get your engine going. A smart woman who loves her man will find ways to get it as often as she wants it. There are so many alternatives...she could have bought herself a dildo, if she was so desperate but to cheat on her husband AND allow herself to get pregnant? That’s SERIOUS stuff. That means she didn't use protection and doesn't even care about herself and her own body. Her ex could have been sleeping with other women WITHOUT protection. Then, she sleeps with you WITHOUT protection, get it?

At the beginning of a marriage things are fresh. Your sex life should be at its peak, if she cheated on you at the beginning that means she probably cheated on you during the entire time you guys were boyfriend-girlfriend. ¡La misma borracha, chismosa, grilla, perezosa y etc. que es tu novia será la misma borracha, chismosa, grilla, perezosa que es tu esposa y cría a tus hijos!

I can't tell you to divorce her. Only you can make that decision, but what I can tell you is that if you love her and think you can get through this and decide to stay with her she must earn your trust and respect again. Try going to church if you are religious or get therapy but don't just act like nothing happened because if you try to cover things up now in the long run it will come back to haunt you and you will end up divorcing after you're 60 and after you have already given her the best years of your life. When instead you could be in a happy healthy realtionship with a woman who knows how to appreciate a good man. I don't care if she came from a wealthy family a good woman will not cheat.

I wish you the best.

Célle comments on Are English men macho enough for Colombian women?

Kat....hahahaha that's a good one. It's rare to read guys talking about stuff like that. At least it's better than elmo's nasty stories. Yes, men will always talk about men of other cultures to try to put them down and try to seem better. That just shows their insecurities. You don't hear girls trash other women. Well I guess I can only speak for myself, right? I think that men regardless of culture, race whatever: like my grandma says "cada uno tiene su aquello" ;)

Célle comments on Are English men macho enough for Colombian women?

A woman should be strong enough to handle the truth. If she looks fat and you don't tell her well...how is she supposed to know she needs to cut down on the cals? If she gets upset you can make it up by doing the things at the bottom of my list. "Mami en esta foto del verano pasado te vez un poco mas delgada, pero sigues igual de preciosa, vamos a la ducha mi amorcito?"

Célle comments on Bringing Bottles of Wine into Colombia

Yes this wine is from Granada, Andalucía. El Duende is a shop that is situated in the mountains above Málaga. The shop sells it's own delicious wine that goes perfectly with Jamón Ibérico Montaraz and Queso semicurado Albéniz; which makes the perfect appetizer ummmm , after a long day of walking through the streets of Colombia. My friends in Medellin and I have have shared great moments in company of El Duende's wines.

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Elmo if you're going for the french; don't even try it! Oh and by the way if you think your sexual comments are exciting to read, I'm not sure about the rest of the ladies but you scare me. lol.

Célle comments on Enough with the England bashing

England is lovely... does that help any? ;)

Célle comments on Bringing Bottles of Wine into Colombia

El Duende ... one of my fav Spanish wines. Took it to Colombia from San Sebastian for a friend. Had no problem. I kept it in a safe place and surrounded by soft fabrics.

Célle comments on Word to the wise about Colombia

Thanks for sharing. I'll be going to Medellin this coming August and will keep this in mind.

Célle comments on Are English men macho enough for Colombian women?

Wow wow wow wow wow Guys guys calm down! These comments are extremely over the edge. Answering to the original post: Latin men ummm they really know how to make a woman feel good that's for sure. Listen to PanosL1. Colombian man call their honeys all sorts of sweet, sexy names to keep the fire burning. There's nothing better than your colombiano saying "claro que si mamacita, ven aca ricura, que labios tan ricos." English men are good men, except they're afraid to let their sensual side flow. They think too much...when instead they should feel and enjoy. To keep a woman happy you must listen to all she wants to share with you, be totally honest if she looks fat tell her that way she can do something about it, but when she looks like a mango tell her also, show lots of love, support her goals and ideas, kiss and hug her as much as you can, shower with her, brush her hair, cook for her and give her space and freedom.

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Peace people peace it's simple.

Célle comments on Eastern european versus Colombian women

Funny Morphus you crack me up. That might work, but the men have to be loyal to their gordita. Don't let her catch you checking out a slim, hot, sexy girl. She might slice your throat. Raulinho, I agree with you. Eastern Eurpean men are not demonstrative, but I give them their credit when it comes to the bottom of things. They're good men. Not all but most. What good is a romantic demonstrative man if he cheats, lies, is lazy and so on?... Totally not worth it.

Célle comments on Autism - Special Education/Clinic in Medellin Colombia

Errr! ... Dude I don't know what is up with me today. As much as I criticize and dislike typos here I am committing the crime. It’s been a long day. Mts(to both of you.)

Célle comments on Autism - Special Education/Clinic in Medellin Colombia

Two both. Thanks guys.

Célle comments on colombian men

Hahaha....that's funny Azul my friends and family think I made a mistake. This guy not only is a genius but he really does love me. Plus very successful. He owns two institutes and is the top of line guy to look for when it comes to technology. He proposed but I said no. My grandma told me to give him a chance and with time I might fall in love with him. I couldn't do it. Imagine...being touched each night by someone you don't love...Ugh I just couldn't do it.

I have a colombiana friend. She married an american guy who is also an engineer. In fact, this russian guy is her husbands boss. They have nothing in common. She doesn't speak good english and he does not speak spanish. They're married and can't even communicate but they both got what they wanted. She got someone to support her and a green card. He got a nice looking woman who cooks and cleans. So they're both happy.

However, love does matter don't you think?

Célle comments on colombian men

Kalder...I did not love this guy but he sure was a great catch. Everything about him was good. Education, smart, romantic, sensitive, handsome, hard working but when you dont love you just cant pretend that you do.

Célle comments on Medellin travel guide

ops correction I will be in Medellin this August and will make good use of it ;)

Célle comments on Medellin travel guide

Thanks Peter. Awesome job with this guide. I will be in Medellin this Colombia and sure will make good use of it :) especially because you have included all of the new areas.

Célle comments on how to romance a colombian woman

Chester get a life! Go to church, pray a little and read the bible. El amor nace por si mismo del alma. El amor verdadero es para siempre y no se necesita de esa porqueria. Si acaso se necesita de esa porqueria es porque no es amor de verdad! Try reading 1st Corinthians 13 learn a bit about love.

Célle comments on This one is for Peter.

Yes I guess... I don't take it personal and thanks to all of you who were trying to be supportive :0) Now...felizafortunado has to take his time and read patiently so that he can get his facts straight. Were did he get the whole gay thing from? Or maybe is that he might ..... ummm ok ok ok I need to relax. Anyway, that's that. I'm totally with manINred about what others get away with.

Célle comments on Colombian Mentality

In Chicago Skokie, Mundelein, Palatine, and Round Lake we see it a lot from the Russian community and like Azul said they're smart, organized and analytical so they always get away with it. Believe me they know every game to screw a system. I sometimes was shocked by the kinds of things they'd come up with. Not everyone is good intenioned like you ;). Which I think is nice in a man, but business is business. That's for sure.

Célle comments on Romanticizing Colombia. The painful truth.

The key question then is: does the Beauty in the planet outweigh I think they're equally divided. The ugly and the beautiful.

Célle comments on how to romance a colombian woman

How to Romance a Woman No matter where she is from. Get to know her first and figure out what she likes.

Célle comments on colombian men

Ok ok ok .... Then I should consider myself a lucky gal. That russian guy I was with was romantic, sweet, hardworking, super smart, loyal, patient, cute and the list goes on. Oh plus the accent...I guess I shouldn't have let him go. He was one in a million.

Célle comments on Romanticizing Colombia. The painful truth.

The most beautiful... Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are beautiful people in every country and in every race.

Célle comments on El mejor español es el colombiANO..y punto

El mensaje previo es para . no se cual es su nombre.

Célle comments on El mejor español es el colombiANO..y punto

Que belleza! Tu manera de expresarte en cuanto a este tema :) Es verdad las mujeres tienen mas desarrollado esa parte del cerebro. Todos debemos respetarnos. Pero a ti no te va nada mal con lo de la "expresion."

Célle comments on colombian men

Colombian men... are adorable, funny, super sweet and I've heard they're good in bed but couldn't tell you for sure. All I can say is be yourself, be honest and tell him what you don't like in a calm way. Talk things through. If he's not romantic, well he's not. That's it, no more to it. Every man has his own way of thinking, get to know him. Get to know yourself. If he's not what you want, let him go. The world is not going to end, there's plenty fish in the sea. Want some good edvice...try going for a Russian man. Romanticos,fieles, trabajadores y muy frescos.

Célle comments on how to romance a colombian woman

Really?.... Ok so go on.

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Hahaha.... You guys crack me up ;)

Célle comments on how to romance a colombian woman

Ok...this is one is for the women. How do you get to a Colombian man's heart?

Célle comments on A Recent Survey of Illegal Aliens and other Immigrants in the EEUU:

Gomez! What's up? I read that you live in Chicago. I wanted to ask you about nice colombian restaurants to visit.

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Ok... Why not? Already making assumptions...take it easy.

Célle comments on PBH member's photo blogs

Hey there I was wondering if Gomezman5 is still around?