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Adrianagon1018 comments on Wife + Girlfriend = ASSASSINATION

GET EVEN Just like I did when I got tired of his cheating, the MF did not like that...revenge some times is sweet !!

Adrianagon1018 comments on Going to Manizales Columbia for two week vacation....Need Advice

My advice to you, read my post !!! and the whole thread http://poorbuthappy.com/colombia/node/11840

This is serious...take it slow and think about getting married, enjoy Manizales, the city is beautiful and Good luck !

Adri.

Adrianagon1018 comments on Not good what I'm thinking of doing, but I think I will do it anyway. HELP!

Hello Everyone ! I have been out of these posts for 2 days, and my GOD !! you people went off on me !!
I haven’t post anything before, but I have visited the site many times, I decided to post this as a way of releasing my frustration and hear some advise ( which I have ) Someone is calling me selfish, if I were, I would’ve done this a long time ago, as I stated before I visit Colombia every Christmas, and for the past 4 years I had the opportunity to do it, and if I haven’t is because I do think about my children and their well being, their father is a bad a husband but not a bad father I have to admit that, even if he was a pile of shit, he is still their father and they need to have a father figure in their lives…when it comes to call someone selfish, my husband is leading all of them with a flag in his hand…there are many reasons I feel depressed, food is not one of them, I am proud to say that I am 35 years old and still the same size that I was 15 years ago. The main reason for my depression: my husbands affairs, not once, not twice…as a matter of fact I have lost count, I have forgiven him each time hoping it will be the last, hence the love I feel for him, I can’t forget about what he’s done, and it is because I still love him that hurts, if it weren’t for my kids, I would’ve done something stupid a long time ago ( cutting his penis off, thought about it for years, but haven’t done it…YET ) I just can’t believe after 13 years I left everything and flew five thousand miles for this shit !!
Thanks everyone for your input, information and advise, you all have a great day !

Adri.

Adrianagon1018 comments on Not good what I'm thinking of doing, but I think I will do it anyway. HELP!

no I don't like nor do I want to take antidepressants, teh fact is that after 13 years in gringolandia, I feel alone, I have no family here, I have always miss my country, my family even the food...but since I learned that my "perfect gringo" was not so perfect and cheated on me, with NO reason, I feel even worst...thanks to everyone here for your input, it really helps to share you load and listen to different points of view, I now have more to think about, and do it the right way, no matter what the cost...

Adrianagon1018 comments on Not good what I'm thinking of doing, but I think I will do it anyway. HELP!

thanks everyone I got married here in USA in 1993, the reason our marriage is not working is because my husband has been unfaithfull a couple of times ( that I know )I can't say he is a bad parent or a bad person, besides his affairs he might be a bad husband, of course we have had counseling, it worked while we were having it, but is all back to the same thing, I am constantly depressed and feel alone, I have forgiven him for what he did, but I can't forget about it, the trust is just not there anymore, due to my depression I don't want to deal with a divorce right now, like I said before I don't think I have the strenght to do it, but is best than losing my kids. I am going to Colombia this Christmas, will comeback and get it over with ! Thanks everyone for your posts !

Adrianagon1018 comments on Not good what I'm thinking of doing, but I think I will do it anyway. HELP!

Sylvie thanks for your advice, after all these years here, I know all about these concequences, I guess I am just tired of everything and want an easy way out, I don't want to nor do I think I will have the strenght to deal with a divorce and all the long emotional drama that comes with it, but I guess it's better than being put in jail and losing my kids. Thanks again !